[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]
"Look, it's all your broken idea, don't live well in the city, you have to go back to the countryside to retire, and you have encountered so many bad things, so my daughter and I will suffer with you......"
In the face of my wife's complaints, I couldn't say a word, my wife and I are both people's teachers in the school, because we retired the year before last, so we chose to return to the countryside to live.
Before returning to the countryside, we fantasized about rural life countless times, planting vegetables in our vegetable garden, hearing the sound of cicadas in the summer, and enjoying the free and fresh air every day.
My wife is from the city, and I only stayed in the countryside when I was a child, but because of my father's job change, the family moved to the city.
Sometimes my father would take me back to the countryside during the Spring Festival, and the neighbors would be very enthusiastic when they saw me, and they would fill my pockets with the candy and melon seeds they bought.
They would also call me "nephews" affectionately, which also made me feel their enthusiasm, so in my childhood memories, the impression of "rural" is still very good.
My wife has very little contact with the countryside, but I always tell her that the rural people are very warm and simple, and whether they know you or not, they will be warmly welcomed.
Through my "verbal description", I also gave my wife a very good impression of the countryside, so we plan to return to the countryside after retirement.
When my wife and I were a year away from retirement, we rebuilt the house in our rural hometown, which used to belong to my grandfather, and after he was gone, the house was basically dilapidated.
Because I planned to return to the countryside, I found a worker to rebuild the house in advance, so that when my wife and I retired, we could come to live here.
It can be said that we also spent a lot of savings to repair the house, and the original dilapidated earthen house has also been changed into a small western-style building, and my wife and I are also very happy.
In the course of this year, we have successively renovated the rural house, but this also makes our house feel a little "standing out from the crowd".
Due to the remoteness of my rural hometown, the economic development is relatively average, and most of the villages are one-story houses, and the conditions are slightly better two-story buildings.
The appearance of the house we built is a bit western, so it looks a little out of place in the whole village, but when we built it, we only considered its appearance, and did not think about the environment of the village.
Later, my wife and I retired, and immediately rushed to our hometown in the countryside with our luggage, looking at the spacious house and clean courtyard, not to mention how happy we were.
However, when we first moved into a new house in the countryside, many neighbors came to congratulate us, and they sent all the vegetables and fruits they had grown to express their welcome.
Seeing that they are very enthusiastic, I feel that it is really a good choice for me to return to the countryside for the elderly, and my wife regrets not living in the countryside earlier when she sees that the relationship between her neighbors is so good.
After we lived for a month, my wife decided to take care of the family's vegetable garden, so I asked Aunt Wang, a neighbor at the opposite door, to help.
Aunt Wang is also very enthusiastic, she taught my wife how to choose seeds, how to loosen the soil, and it can be said that she told her the process of planting in detail.
The wife saw that Aunt Wang was both simple and hardworking, so she often called her to the house to chat together, and in the process of chatting, she found that Aunt Wang's son had very poor academic performance.
My wife happened to be a retired teacher in the city, so I asked Aunt Wang's son, Zhang Qiang, to come home after school to help with her son's homework.
Aunt Wang was also very excited when she saw that her wife was willing to help her son with his homework, after all, she was also a teacher in the city, and the quality of teaching was definitely much better than in the countryside.
Therefore, Aunt Wang is more enthusiastic than usual, but whenever there is anything delicious at home, she has to send a copy to us to express her gratitude.
Therefore, my wife is also more attentive to Wang Qiang's education, Wang Qiang is in the fifth grade of primary school in the village, and his grades belong to the middle and lower reaches of the class, and he is also very active.
As long as you sit on the stool, you must start shaking up and down, otherwise you will feel very uncomfortable, and this behavior also makes Wang Qiang's attention very unfocused.
It can be said that my wife saw Wang Qiang's problem at a glance, and she immediately told Aunt Wang that her son had "ADHD".
And this disease needs to be intervened, otherwise it will seriously affect learning, but when Aunt Wang heard her wife say that her son was "sick", her face immediately darkened.
felt that his wife deliberately didn't want to teach her son to study, so he said that his son was sick, and although her son loved to shake, it was completely the boy's "liveliness".
Which boy in the village is not crazy and fun-loving, and when he arrives at Aunt Wang, he is "sick"? It can be said that Aunt Wang's remarks are also very angry with his wife.
When my wife came home, she told me about it, and when faced with such a problem, I told my wife: "No parent in the world wants others to say that their child is sick."
She felt that this matter might be her own problem, because her way of speaking led to Aunt Wang's misunderstanding, so the two had some unnecessary disputes.
The next day, my wife bought a bag of fruit, sent it to Aunt Wang, and apologized for her behavior, hoping that Aunt Wang would not mind this matter.
Aunt Wang was also full of enthusiasm in the face of her wife's behavior, and said in her mouth, "Big sister, what are you doing!
In this way, the relationship between the two slowly began to improve, Wang Qiang would still let him come here to study every day after school, and his wife began to correct his behavior in order to change Wang Qiang's ADHD.
But in less than a week, Aunt Wang came to the door again, and began to scold his wife, it turned out that Wang Qiang told Aunt Wang that his wife did not give him tutoring, and also physically punished him!
Saying that my wife is a "wolf in sheep's clothing" and that their family is very good to our family, I asked my wife to tutor his son, not to say that he is sick or to physically punish his son.
Regarding Aunt Wang's complaints, his wife couldn't say a word, and she sincerely considered his son, but in exchange for being blamed.
Later, the relationship between the two families reached the "freezing point", and they didn't talk at all when they met, but my wife felt that since they couldn't get along, they would close the door and live their lives.
But a few days later, a rural woman knocked on the door of my house and said that she was the daughter of my grandfather's sister, who was my "cousin aunt".
Because my wife knew that I lived in the city most of the time, and I must be relatively unfamiliar with other rural relatives, I still welcomed her warmly.
My aunt saw that the decoration of our house began to look up and down, and there was great envy in her eyes, and my wife and my aunt exchanged a few words, and my aunt asked my wife to borrow money.
said that the two of us are also "returning home", and we should help these relatives of our own family, and now that her son is getting married, as a cousin, she should also help her cousin.
Although my wife was completely shocked by her words, she didn't turn her face with my aunt immediately, and first sent my aunt back, saying that I would discuss it when I came back.
When the old aunt left, she packed all the snacks and fruits on the table back, saying that letting her son also taste the snacks in the city was a little bit of her cousin's heart.
When I came home from work, I saw that the table was bare, and my wife was sitting alone on the sofa and sighing, and the scene was very lonely.
After my wife saw me go home, she immediately passed on my aunt's words to me and asked me what my cousin's plans were, in fact, I was not too familiar with this aunt, but I had only met a few times at family gatherings.
Now my aunt borrowed money from us, and since our economic conditions are not bad, and it is not too much burden to help my cousin, it is nothing to borrow some money from her.
When my wife saw me analyzing like this, she felt that there was still some reason, so she agreed to lend the money to my aunt, and she also praised my wife when she saw us so bold.
However, two months after lending the money to my aunt, they knocked on the door of my house again, thinking that they would repay the money, but they did not expect to bring us and my wife a "surprise".
I saw my cousin sitting directly on the sofa in our living room, crossing Erlang's legs and saying to me, let my wife and I give their family another 100,000 yuan for the purchase of the house.
Because our family has a copy of the flip house, there is a share of her mother, and her grandfather has a total of three children, and her father is the youngest, and there are two older sisters on it.
My father's eldest sister married out of town and didn't come back for many years, while the second sister, who is my current aunt, married into a nearby village to live.
Because my father was a college student, he stayed in the city to work, which also made me live in the city with my father since I was a child, and only occasionally came back to the countryside to visit.
The homestead that my wife and I built was where my grandfather used to live, but my grandfather died of illness for a long time, and it was abandoned.
Because my wife and I decided to come to live in the countryside, I made a flip cover, and my aunt was very jealous when she saw that I had built the house so beautifully.
I just wanted to borrow money and not pay it back to comfort myself, but I found that my wife and I didn't say a word, so I lent her the money, and she felt even more at a loss.
So I joined my son to ask us for "100,000 yuan for the purchase of a house", and I was very annoyed to see my aunt's appearance so ugly.
In rural areas, the house is generally reserved for their sons, so many families will not sign the "inheritance agreement", which is also the default thing for many rural families.
But now my aunt has played a scoundrel, if we don't give them 100,000 yuan for the house, they will stay in our house and live with us.
In the face of such a rogue request, he directly admitted his wife to the hospital, and it can be said that so many things have happened, which has indeed given his wife a big blow.
When my wife's condition improved, I called my father, who was furious when he heard my aunt ask us for the purchase of the house.
called my aunt directly and told her that when her father died, he had signed a property agreement, and in order to maintain the relationship between his sister and brother, he didn't say it.
My father is an intellectual, and he is still a little precautionary about some things, but now he sees my aunt making a fuss here, so he decided to speak out.
It can be said that with my father's warning, my aunt and I never went to our house again, and I thought that my wife and I could live a peaceful life, but I didn't expect something to happen again.
My wife and I have a daughter, who is now working, and because I work in other provinces, I rarely go home, so my wife and I decided to move to the countryside.
When my daughter came to visit us during the holiday, it also attracted the attention of many people in the village, because her daughter was very beautiful, and she learned to dance since she was a child, so she was also very temperamental.
This also added a lot of glory to our husband and wife, and when our daughter returned to work in the provincial capital after the holiday, many women from the village visited our house.
I hope we can marry our daughter to her, and give me a bride price of 50,000 yuan, and also tell me and my wife, it is useless for girls to work, and finally go home to teach their husbands and children.
First of all, I devalued my daughter as worthless, and then said that the girl went out to work alone, and she might not know what would happen, so it was also the best arrangement to come back early and get married.
It can be said that when I saw their faces, I drove them out directly, and my wife and I were angry that our blood pressure began to rise, and I also had a bad impression of rural life.
However, when my wife and I kicked them out, rumors began to spread in the village that our husband and wife were "snobbish" and looked down on them at all, so they were blown out before they arrived at home.
This series of events really made my wife and me feel congested, so we decided not to live in the countryside anymore, but just returned to live in the city.
Although life in the countryside is still good, but the people's hearts are immeasurable, my wife and I have lived here for less than a year, a lot of strange things have happened, and there are a lot of rumors.
My wife also began to complain about my former proposal, living well in the city, and having to come back to the countryside for retirement, not only spent a lot of money, but also was blamed by many people.
In the end, my wife and I moved into the city, although the people in the city are more indifferent, but they don't talk too much, and they can be more free physically and mentally.
[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]