Life is a journey after all, it is almost impossible for the old couple to reach the end at the same time, there is always a person to get off in advance, if it really comes to that day, when there is only one person left, you might as well come to see if my plan is feasible?
Don't sell the house
When people are old, if there is only one person left, remember not to sell the house easily and go to the children's house to live under the fence.
Because the living habits and eating habits of the two generations are completely different, it is inevitable to live together for a long time and have conflicts with each other, but it is okay to go to the children's house for a short period of time.
But don't remember that you can't sell the house, don't have conflicts with your children at that time, and when you fight each other, you won't even have a way out.
The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own nests, and only by living in their own nests can they be free and unrestrained.
Don't give up your money
When people are old, when there is only one person left, they must remember not to give up their money, they must hold the money tightly in their own hands, and they cannot give all the money to their children in advance.
Because people are getting older, as they get older, they have more and more problems, but we can't wait for our own urgent use of money, and then ask our children for money, and then we will be passive at that time.
Never live a life of stretching your hands upwards in order to live with dignity.
Don't remarry
When you are old, you should never remarry when there is only one person left.
Because two emotionless old people live together, they can only take what they need and have their own plans.
Both of them want to go to their children to pull money and things, each hiding their own hearts, their hearts will not think together, and they will not work together, this kind of life must be very tiring.
In the end, when two people go their separate ways, you will find that two people do not necessarily have one person and live comfortably.
Don't go to a nursing home
When people are old, if they can take care of themselves, don't go to a nursing home to live, after getting there, it's really a countdown to life, just wait for death.
I've seen my aunt's last 10 years in a nursing home, and that's really a good time.
If you have a high pension and enough financial means to live in a high-end medical care center, I think that's okay.
But if a person like me who only has a pension of about 2,000 yuan a month, don't go to a nursing home, and live in a room with four or five ordinary people, and live a life that is worse than death.
Four or five people in a room, put a urine bucket at the head of each bed, when the time came, the waiter came in, took the old man off the bed and put it on the urine bucket, and after it was over, he casually threw the old man on the bed covered with linoleum.
When it's time for the meal, the waiter comes to deliver the food to you, and you can eat it, as long as you say you don't want to eat, people will take it away immediately, and they don't treat the old man as a human being at all.
Sometimes when I go to see my aunt, I see this situation, I have palpitations, and I swear at that time that I will never go to a nursing home when I am old, this kind of life is really terrible.
No live-in babysitters
When people are old, I won't hire a live-in nanny when there is only one person left.
Because I don't like strangers dangling around in my own home, I don't think I'm going to get used to that.
Therefore, I will not hire a live-in nanny, and when I am semi-self-conscious, I will find a part-time worker to help with cleaning, and I will order takeout if I can't cook, anyway, I will not hire a live-in nanny.
Don't do unnecessary rescue
When people are old, when there is only one person left, they choose to practice medicine for minor illnesses and give up for major illnesses.
It doesn't matter if you have a minor illness and a small pain and take an injection and a medicine, once you have a serious illness and there is no medicine to treat it, you must decisively choose to give up the treatment.
Do not enter the ICU, do not do unnecessary intubation and other invasive rescue measures.
It is a natural law that people come to life and die. Whether it is a high-ranking official or an ordinary person, the only fairest thing in this world is death.
Therefore, when people reach old age, they must face up to death, accept everything that may happen, and if it really comes to the day when they can't take care of themselves, I will choose to die of hunger strike, and I will leave with dignity.
After death, everything is simple
My plan is to keep everything simple after my death, and not to inform my relatives, friends, and colleagues, because I am gone, and I can't see these relatives, friends, and colleagues, it doesn't matter if I come or not, and it will be forgotten by everyone in an instant, so I don't need to notify anyone.
You don't have to buy a cemetery, it makes no sense to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy a cemetery.
You don't even need to keep the ashes, it doesn't matter, people die like lights out, no matter how you arrange it, it's meaningless.
The above things, when you are still conscious, you should explain them to your children as soon as possible, so as not to catch your children off guard when the day comes.
In short, when people are old, when they are left alone, they should remember, don't sell the house, don't give up the money early, don't remarry, don't go to the nursing home, don't hire a live-in nanny, don't do useless rescue, and everything is simple after death.
How's it going? Isn't that okay?