It is really not easy for people to live in this life, everyone wants their life to be perfect enough, but not everyone can get what they want.
I have summarized that if a person can meet the following requirements in this life, it means that his life is perfect enough:
Do not go to the hospital
I think that if you never go to the hospital, this is the perfect life.
Although there are not many people like this, but after all, there are also existing, there is a small illness and pain, this is not counted, taking medicine at home, taking injections in the clinic, this is a normal phenomenon, as long as you don't go to the hospital, you haven't been hospitalized, you haven't had surgery, this is a perfect life.
On the contrary, if you are not in good health, you have to go to the hospital for hospitalization or even surgery every once in a while, then where can you have a perfect life, not only will you suffer, but also your family will be affected, and this kind of life will also be very bad.
I feel like my mother walked with 85-year-old advanced liver cancer. The old lady has never been hospitalized in her life, and she has never had any surgery.
It was found that the liver cancer was already at an advanced stage, and he was not qualified for surgery, and the old man passed away after 40 days.
I think it's like my mother has never been in the hospital or had surgery in her life, and this is the perfect life.
There is no shortage of money to spend
In this life, if you can do it without lack of money to spend, this life can be considered perfect enough.
I can't say that I am rich and rich, I have millions in my hand, at least as long as I can take it out when I use it, I don't have to borrow money from others, I don't owe anyone else in my life, I don't borrow anything from others, I think it's perfect.
In fact, it doesn't mean that all people in real life can do this, but often some people don't have such a good life, and they can't say that they don't lack money in their lives, at least they can't take it out when they really use it, and they have to borrow from place to place, how can this life be perfect?
Like an old man with a pension and savings, such a life is perfect enough.
Even if it is an old man like me who retires from a company, and only has a pension of about 2,000 yuan a month, I think that having is better than nothing, at least as long as I live for one day, I will have money to earn, and this is enough.
If you have enough savings in your hand, then life is even more icing on the cake.
Therefore, I think that the life of the elderly who is not short of money to spend is perfect enough.
There are independent houses
The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own kennels, I think people live for a lifetime, as long as they have their own independent housing, life is perfect enough.
Because you don't have to go to someone else's house to live under the fence, that's enough.
However, not all the elderly in the world have independent housing. There are still a large number of old people who want to live with their children in a reluctant manner. There is no way to live the life of an unfettered old man, and this kind of life is not perfect.
There is an old wife
Looking back in old age, as long as you have an old wife in your old age, your life is perfect enough.
Maybe you don't feel much in your daily life, but as long as you are sick and hospitalized, you will find the importance of your wife.
No matter how filial the children are, it is impossible to accompany us 24 hours a day, only the wife can not leave the saddle and wait for us.
Therefore, when people reach old age, if they have an old wife by their side, it is a perfect life.
You don't have to work after retirement
When people reach old age, they don't have to continue to work after retirement, and they live a leisurely old age life at home that travels around the mountains and rivers and makes fun of their grandchildren, which is the perfect life.
An old man like me, because his pension is too small, is still on the front line after retirement, and he has to earn some pension money for himself, and the life of an old man like me is not perfect.
Children have a good income
In this life, when you are old, you will find that it is your children who are fighting, as long as your children are promising, then your life is perfect enough.
Otherwise, the children will not worry about the old, even if you have a mountain of gold and silver, it will not be enough for the child to lose.
Therefore, the life of the elderly who have children is perfect enough.
Good mentality
As long as the person has a good mentality, the luck of this life will not be bad, and life will be very happy, so I think that with a good attitude, gentle character, and open-mindedness, such a life is perfect enough.
Otherwise, I like to drill the tip of the horns in trouble, and I like to be careful, how can such a life come from perfectly.
Hobbies
When people look back when they are old, if they have their own interests and hobbies in this life, then they will not live in vain.
Like my colleague, his father is 90 years old this year, and this old man has been proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, and photography all his life.
And the old couple are currently 90 years old, and they are still able to take care of themselves, not rely on their children, and they can solve everything by themselves.
In short, as long as people do not go to the hospital in this life, there is no shortage of money to spend, there is a pension and savings, there is an independent house, there is a healthy wife, there is no need to continue to work after retirement, children have a good income, sensible and filial piety, do not gnaw at the old, have a good attitude, have their own interests and hobbies, if they can meet the above points, life is perfect enough.