Some people joke that men are the most infatuated, and they always like women in their 20s, and they don't change until death.
In this society that pursues equality between men and women, how can women be left behind?
I once saw such a passage on the Internet: middle-aged men are like frosted eggplants, listless, while young men are like red apples in the season, crunchy when they take a bite, full of youthful breath.
At present, men are becoming more and more materialistic, and women are becoming more and more sober, and "sister and brother love" has naturally become a trend.
However, age is the most lethal thing in the human world, and if a person wants to reduce the disadvantage of age, he must have extraordinary advantages in other aspects.
In a relationship, there are only two things that can make up for the disadvantage of age: either you have money or you have beauty.
TV series come from life, but they can't restore life, although what we see in idol dramas is the beauty of sister and brother love, but it must not be the whole picture of real life. Life is a mixed bag, and sibling love is also bitter and sweet. A 44-year-old woman in Sichuan shared her real psychological process in the love of her sister and brother through her daily life, which made many people who are looking forward to the love of her sister and brother say: The youth of young men, most middle-aged women can't afford it!
The woman felt ashamed of her boyfriend and took him shopping 3 times a week
The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and economic independence not only allows women to have a foothold in this society, but also allows women to have more choices in their relationships.
It is said that "curing all diseases", not only do women like men to spend money to coax themselves, but in fact, men also like women to spend money to coax him.
The woman met her boyfriend who was 7 years younger than herself, although the other party was not young, but compared to her who was middle-aged, she was still a young man, although she felt pleasing to the eye when she saw her boyfriend's handsome face, but she often felt guilty because of her "old cow eating tender grass", in order to reduce her psychological burden, she took the initiative to pay every time she went out.
In the late spring and early summer seasons, not only do women always feel that a piece of clothing is missing in their wardrobes, but men are actually eager to buy new clothes. In order to make her boyfriend happy, the woman took him shopping 3 times a week.
The first time was when the two were dating, the boyfriend inadvertently said that the shoes were a little uncomfortable, considering that every time he went out, the boyfriend would take the initiative to help him carry his bag, and sometimes he would carry himself when climbing the mountain, so the woman took him to the mall to buy a pair of shoes without saying a word.
The second time was when her boyfriend said that her pants were a little thicker, so the woman took him to the mall without hesitation.
For women's practices, many people think that she is too stupid and naïve, if the man develops the bad habit of spending women's money at the beginning, he will suffer in the future, but the man always feels that he is 7 years older than the other party, and has a child, and he is not only young and handsome but also single, if he does not spend some money on him, he always feels sorry for him, and at the same time she feels that spending some money on him can make the other party more dependent on herself, which is more conducive to the stability of the relationship.
The boyfriend took the woman to buy pink clothes, and the woman was worried that the other party would think she was old
Young men obviously know how to make women happy, which is why many women are willing to find a little boyfriend.
During the relationship between the two, not only the woman will take her boyfriend shopping to buy clothes and shoes, but the man will also accompany her shopping. In the last marriage, women rarely went shopping, but now with her little boyfriend, not only will he not bother her, but he will also take the initiative to give her reference, which makes her feel unprecedented happiness and satisfaction.
However, although the company of her boyfriend makes him feel happy, because of the 7-year-old age difference, it will also make her feel a little inferior.
When her boyfriend took a pink shirt and asked her to try it on, the woman immediately worried about whether her boyfriend thought she was old, so she wanted to make her younger look more compatible with him.
In fact, judging from the appearance alone, although the woman is 44 years old, but because of proper maintenance, the whole person still looks girly, and there is no huge age difference when standing with a man, but because of her inner mind, she will deliberately dress up younger every time she goes out with her boyfriend, and when her boyfriend caters to her like to accompany her to shop for girlish clothes, she will become sensitive and suspicious.
Sentiment Analysis:
Sister and brother love is actually relatively unbalanced. What a woman cares about most is her appearance, and aging is a fatal injury to a woman, even if others don't care about it, she will care about herself. The gap between sister and brother love is large, as women get older, the speed of women's aging accelerates, but men's growth has just begun. It is said that when men stand in their thirties, when women begin to grow old, men's charm has just begun, which is a physiological gap and the biggest defect in sibling love.
In the TV series "Love Defense", there is a pair of sisters and brothers who are 16 years apart, and emotional expert Tu Lei commented: "My younger brother is greedy for his sister's care, and he wants to find a smart teammate, so he doesn't have to worry about anything, he lies there on his back, and she just has to carry the burden of life." And my sister is not confident enough, so if she is not brave enough, it is best not to touch her sister and brother, so as not to hurt others and hurt herself, and make people gossip. ”
If you are not strong enough, it is better not to touch the love between sisters and brothers, gossip can not be cared about, it is not good to hurt others and yourself.
The philosopher Hegel once said, "Everything that is reasonable is realistic, and everything that is realistic is reasonable." ”
For the choice of sibling love, there is no right or wrong, what suits you is reasonable, if your heart is strong enough, you can choose it to enjoy it, but if you are as sensitive as this Sichuan woman, then it is not recommended to start easily, after all, humble love is difficult to bloom happy flowers.
Today's topic discussion: What do you think of the woman's performance in this sibling relationship?
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