In life, there is a common phenomenon that when people are sixty or seventy years old, they always hope that they can live a long life, and even try to protect their health and prolong their life, such as listening to all the home remedies they can do, such as taking some kind of medicine or food, and so on.
After this stage, when you reach the real age of about 80, you will not have more requirements for everything, and everything will no longer matter, and for some reason, or think that people live a long time, it may not be a good thing. If you want to consider the following situations, you should consider it.
Stay in bed all day. No matter how old you are, when you can't take care of yourself due to car accidents or illnesses, lying in bed all day long, and relying on others to serve you, this feeling may be described as "life is better than death".
The tragic thing is that in the same situation, because the family economy is very poor, and you have to support yourself like this, everyone will be very uncomfortable, and it is better for the whole family to relax than this.
Every day is sad. For people who can't untie their knots, they can't get along with the people around them in everything, and they have to quarrel with others every day, thinking that this is the meaning of life, then the whole family will be affected.
What's more, in addition to your mental health, it will also make your loved ones carry more negative emotions, thus becoming depressed and inferior, and I believe this is not what you want to see. If you are healthy and your family is warm and harmonious, it is better to learn more positive energy knowledge, give yourself courage and the confidence of the people around you, and make life more exciting, otherwise longevity may not be a good thing for you, this is mental torture.
I can't do it myself. From the perspective of the average life expectancy in the mainland, it has been half of the 40 years old in the 19th century, and in real life, many long-lived elderly people generally live with their children, while they also have chronic diseases, and at the same time have to take care of the elderly's eating, drinking, and sleeping.
If the elderly in the family are very strong and have the ability to take care of themselves, it is fine, but if the elderly also have to take care of them, they have to suffer from illness, and they are unable to do it every day, and the days are very long, and they are tortured physically and mentally, then it is also very painful.
Therefore, no matter what kind of embarrassment you are in, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, only by looking at longevity scientifically, finding the most suitable method for your family, making yourself healthy, and having the ability to take care of yourself, then nothing will be difficult for you, and you will not have regrets for the rest of your life.
How old are your parents and elders today? What difficulties have you encountered?