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My ex-wife and I used to be an enviable couple. She was gentle, considerate, and always tolerant of all my shortcomings and shortcomings.
In my eyes, she is a "good-natured" girl, no matter what mistakes I make, she can forgive me, and even sometimes smile and comfort me.
However, after the divorce, I found out that she was actually a hidden woman, and her ruthlessness was far greater than I imagined.
The reason for our divorce is something that I regret a little bit about. Because of the spur of the moment and temptation, I betrayed our marriage.
I thought she would forgive me as usual, after all, we had so many good memories. But she didn't. On the day she knew of my betrayal, she filed for divorce from me, with a resolute attitude and no room for maneuver.
I tried to redeem it, but there was no tenderness in her eyes, and she told me that she used to think that love could contain everything, but now she understands that some mistakes cannot be forgiven.
02
After the divorce, I didn't have a good time. I used to think that without my ex-wife, I could have a freer and more exciting life. However, the reality is so cruel.
After divorcing my ex-wife, my business started to plummet, and my lover left me. Only then did I realize how precious my ex-wife's tenderness and thoughtfulness were, and I ruined it all with my own hands.
Later, I had no choice but to go to my ex-wife to borrow money to turn around the business. I thought she would at least look at the past and give me some help.
However, she coldly rejected me. There was no trace of pity in her eyes, only endless indifference and mockery. She sarcastically mocked me, saying that I was to blame for everything, and that she was not obligated to help me, and that I was left to do my own thing.
To be honest, this humiliation from my ex-wife made me feel unprecedented humiliation and pain.
At that moment, I really realized that my ex-wife was no longer the gentle and virtuous woman. She became so hard that I couldn't believe it.
03
I used to think that her good temper was a kind of nature, a kind of tolerance and tolerance for me. But now I understand that she is good-natured because she loves me and because she wants our marriage to last. I, on the other hand, failed to live up to her expectations and destroyed her love with my own hands.
After another period of time, because my mother missed her grandson, I cheekily went to my ex-wife again and proposed to change the custody of my son.
I thought that my ex-wife would think about it for the sake of my mother and children, and at least give me a chance. However, she sneered and said to me, "Is a man who betrays his family worthy of custody of his children? ”
Her words pierced my heart like a sharp knife. I was speechless and could only suffer this pain and remorse in silence.
Looking back now, I realize that my ex-wife's ruthlessness was not without reason. She has given me countless opportunities and tolerance, and I have hurt her and betrayed her again and again.
Her ruthlessness is actually revenge and punishment for my past behavior. She made me understand that you can't live if you do your own evil, and you can't go against it.
04
Now, I often think about my ex-wife's goodness. Those warm pictures, those sweet memories, all pierced my heart like a knife.
I began to regret my betrayal and ignorance, and I realized that everything I am doing now is my own fault.
I know that my ex-wife and I will never go back, but I also hope that she can find true happiness and live the life she wants.
After the divorce, I learned that her ex-wife's ruthlessness was not her nature. She has given me countless love and tolerance, but I don't know how to cherish and reciprocate, now I am self-inflicted, I deserve it!
Message from the setting moon:
Men who divorce for extramarital affairs often end up with nothing, the marriage is gone, the lover leaves, and he has no reputation.
All this is caused by the men themselves.
Therefore, men must know that the most unacceptable mistake in marriage is to betray their wives, and once the harm is caused, the consequences are unimaginable.
The last thing I want to say is: love is great and can encompass everything. However, when you love someone too much, that heart will be infinitely small, and it can't contain any impurities and dust.