On April 16, at the entrance of Niucun Primary School in Xinxiang, Henan.
A 9-year-old boy and his mother were beaten by the parents of a female classmate in the same class.
The mother of the female classmate, when she saw the boy, was like seeing the enemy, and she stepped forward and slapped the boy twice.
The female classmate's father was even more exaggerated, dragging the boy's shoulders and slapping him for more than a dozen times.
Not only that, but the female classmate's father also punched and kicked the boy, beating the boy to tears.
When the boy's mother saw this scene, she was very angry and took out her mobile phone to record the crime.
As a result, the father of the female classmate saw it.
The female classmate's father snatched her phone and then beat her up.
Currently, both mother and child are hospitalized for injuries.
The father of the female classmate involved has been detained by the police.
Three days later, the father of a 9-year-old boy exposed the evil deeds of the parents of the female classmate.
He said that his wife and children had suffered an unjustified disaster, and hoped that netizens could share his hatred with him.
But the reaction of netizens was beyond everyone's expectations.
Netizens feel that there must be a reason for the incident, and it is unprovoked, how can an adult openly beat a child at the school gate?
It is not too late to draw conclusions when the results of the investigation are available.
It turns out that the calmness of netizens is right.
According to the investigation of relevant departments, the 9-year-old boy is named Li Moukun, and the female classmate in the same class as him is called Li Mouxi.
Li Moukun bullied Li Mouxi for a long time, abused and beat Li Mouxi, and extorted money.
After Li Mouxi's parents found out, they communicated with the teacher many times, but there was no result.
In desperation, Li Mouxi's parents called the police for help.
In the end, the police, the village committee, and the school jointly intervened, and the parents of both sides negotiated to reach an agreement on no more bullying incidents in the future.
Unexpectedly, this paper agreement was nothing but a void for Li Moukun's family.
After going to school again, Li Moukun not only did not correct it, but intensified his threats and insults to Li Mouxi.
Li Mouxi's family once again turned to the school for help, but it still had no effect.
The school's inaction made Li Moukun more and more rampant.
He continued to threaten and insult Li Mouxi.
I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore.
This time, Li Mouxi's parents didn't look for anyone and directly hit someone.
So, there was the scene that happened at the gate of Niucun Primary School on April 16.
After the incident was exposed, public opinion reacted strongly.
Some netizens feel that the girl's parents are too aggressive in their way of dealing with it, and the beating of the child is not an excuse for you to beat others.
But more netizens still support the girl's parents' approach.
"What would you do if you did this kind of thing?"
"The boy said that his whole body hurts, and the pain is right. Don't you know that when you bully other people's children, they hurt?"
Even Red Net News said:
When a 9-year-old boy was beaten by his classmates' parents, it was not just the perpetrator who should reflect on it.
There is no love without a reason in this world, and there is no hate without a reason.
The girl's parents have exhausted all the methods they can use, but their children are still being bullied.
So what to do?
Forced to have no choice, he can only solve it with his fists, even if the price is detention.
I heard a netizen say something like this on the Internet:
"The moment my daughter was born, one foot had already stepped through the prison gate. ”
When I read this sentence at the time, I felt very shocked.
In hindsight, this statement may not be quite accurate.
To be precise, since the birth of their children, parents are ready to sacrifice for their children.
"You don't care about your child's life, then I'll be his judge. ”
At the same time as the incident of the 9-year-old boy in Xinxiang exploded, there was another thing that also rushed to the hot search:
The boy with ADHD bullied his classmates, and 46 parents petitioned him to transfer to another school.
On March 29, a group of parents of a class in the first grade of a primary school in Wuhan.
Parent Wu (pseudonym) said in the group that his child was kicked in the private part of the school by the new transfer student Xiaowei (pseudonym).
"After kicking 3 times, the child was so painful that he couldn't stand up. ”
After a while, several parents replied that their children had also been beaten by Xiaowei.
Xiaowei and his parents apologized better, and also wrote a letter of guarantee. ”
At that time, these parents were also willing to forgive Xiao Wei and give him a chance to make amends.
But what he never expected was that Xiao Wei not only did not change, but beat other classmates several times for no reason, and even threatened his classmates not to tell their parents.
On April 1, the parents of 46 students in the class jointly submitted a request to the school to let Xiaowei transfer to another school.
Otherwise, they dare not let their children continue to go to school.
The next day, under the coordination of the police, Xiaowei's mother signed a safety guarantee letter to her classmates.
She promised to take the initiative to let Xiaowei transfer to another school if there were any more beatings, verbal abuse, intimidation and other behaviors that hurt the whole class.
In addition, Xiaowei's mother said that her child has ADHD and took Xiaowei to the hospital for examination.
"It showed ADHD, but the doctor said that 80% of the children had it, and they didn't give a diagnosis certificate or prescribe medication. ”
After this news was on the hot search, netizens actually said that these 46 parents were a bit excessive, and the children were just ADHD and naughty, and they didn't need to go online.
I don't think the person who said that must have had any children.
Where did ADHD come from?
Bullying is bullying, and ADHD is not to blame.
How can you not bang your head against the wall with ADHD?
How do you think of always bullying others?
Children with abnormal personalities need education and guidance from their parents, so how can other children bear the consequences?
How many people are in a class?
can make 46 parents jointly boycott according to their fingerprints, and if such bear children are not properly guided, the consequences will be unimaginable.
In recent years, school violence has been common.
Seriously, every time I see something like this, my heart aches so much that I can't even breathe.
But after writing about these two things, there is a question worth pondering.
At what stage is school bullying more serious?
I think it must be junior high school.
Primary school students are still relatively childish, and even if there are signs of school violence, they are not extremely serious.
At least the group fights and killings we hear about are rarely in elementary schools.
Junior high school is the hardest hit area of school bullying.
Children between the ages of 13 and 16 are the most rebellious period.
They have the size of an adult, but they don't have the mind of an adult.
The worst thing is that there is a juvenile protection law for this age group.
As long as the act is not particularly serious, there is no criminal responsibility, and there is no way to even expel from the school.
Because this is the compulsory education stage.
As a result, some students are simply lawless, forming gangs and fighting in schools.
You ask where the parents have gone, I think there will be no upright parents behind a gangster child.
Most of the school bullying incidents reported on the news are also concentrated in junior high school.
The murder of a junior high school student in Handan:
After the three junior high school students killed their classmate Xiaoguang, I don't know whether it was out of anger or to make it more difficult to identify, the three of them even used shovels to smash Xiaoguang's face alive.
By the time Xiaoguang's family found out, it was already unrecognizable.
And these 3 people should eat and sleep as if nothing had happened.
I even calmly went to school the next day.
There is also a case of a junior high school girl jumping off a building in Fujian:
Fanfan, a second-year junior high school girl, has been bullied and blackmailed by her classmates for a long time.
As long as Fan Fan doesn't give money, those bullies will find her trouble.
In desperation, she chose to jump off the building.
There is also a bullying incident of Xiaozhu, a 13-year-old girl in Hainan:
Several classmates bullied and blackmailed Xiao Zhu for a long time, and even found various reasons to beat her.
Once, the reason for beating her was to see that she was unhappy.
That day, she was beaten up by a group of students.
After being shut down for 5 days without water and food, the corner of the eye was tragically inserted by a foreign body...
Even the incident of Yugou Middle School in Lingbi County, which caused a sensation in the country two years ago...
When I see these events, I can't help but ask:
Isn't the child's world the purest?
Since it is the purest, why does such a thing happen?
This is because we ignore that purity does not only mean good, but also pure evil.
Children's temperament is not innate, and they need to be restrained by parents.
For example, the 9-year-old boy who bullied his female classmate above.
Now, no matter how evil he is, he will not go to the point of killing people and throwing corpses.
Just imagine, the persuasion of the school and the intervention of the public security have not worked, if he did not suffer at the hands of the girl's parents this time, and went to junior high school so unrestrained, will he be more and more bold?
Will it grow into a terrifying appearance?
A child who has no view of right and wrong is more terrifying than a beast.
Many parents' thinking is fundamentally wrong.
I always feel that as long as my child is not bullied, as for whether he bullies others or not, it has nothing to do with me.
Some parents even think that my child can bully other people's children, and that is his ability.
These parents don't understand that bullying is not only a problem for children, but also for parents.
The bully seems to be taking advantage of everything, but in fact he is committing suicide in a chronic manner.
As Lu Xun said:
"When I was young, I didn't treat him as a human being, and I couldn't be a human being when I grew up. ”
If you can protect him for a while, you can't protect him for a lifetime.
If you are reluctant to educate your children, society will definitely educate you with a dead hand.
Disbelief running 瞧.