The day before yesterday, Xiao Shan and his family posted on the Xiao Intranet App:
What should a sixth-grader do if they fall in love?
The landlord said that he suddenly found the chat history in the child's mobile phone, and he couldn't sit still after reading it, but he didn't know what to do.
Some netizens in the comment area said that today's children are so precocious? Also in the sixth grade, their own babies are still playing cards, watching Peppa Pig and Big Big Wolf.
Some netizens also said that precocious children are indeed precocious, and there are similar examples around them.
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Netizen @Dada0725: 6th grade, are they all so precocious now? and then everyone starts to pretend to be dead when they get married.
Netizen @90s uncle: The last time I chatted with my niece, she was in the fourth grade, and there was a love letter in the class to confess her love.
Netizen @小小羊: I thought my colleague's son was quite precocious when he fell in love at the first time, and elementary school students are still in love, but now the child is really precocious, and the little adult is the same.
Netizen @黑黑: I wanted to find a partner in junior high school before, and there are several pairs in the class, which is okay.
Netizen @YYSY: When I was in the sixth grade, I only knew how to play the Cell, and girls would only affect me to catch elves.
Netizen @ Liuguangyicai: My son is in the 6th grade, and he is still playing cards, like a fool every day.
Netizen @soy sauce dipping: My eldest is also in the sixth grade, and I am still accompanying my sister to watch Peppa Pig.
Netizen @Nemo: There are also sixth-grade babies and boys at home, and they are still watching the gray wolf.
There are also some netizens who give advice to the landlord, children of this age, it is better to be blocked, no matter what, it is still necessary to communicate well, and parents need to be patient.
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Netizen @yelvab: During the time when my son fell in love in his first year of high school, I became a spy war agent, secretly flipped through my schoolbag, chatted records, pretended not to know after reading it, and returned to my original position, and then when the evidence was conclusive, I burned two of his favorite dishes to induce him to admit that I wanted to bring them back, and I wanted to give him two analyses and plan the future in person, and I was so scared that the plan was gone in two days.
Netizen @ I want to sleep 23 hours a day: Sister, you can find a way to cut off contact with them first, watch it a little more at home, talk to the teacher at school, let the teacher help watch the point, and at the same time notify the other party's parents, so that the other party's parents can also cooperate. The best way is to reduce the contact between them, children are like this, the contact is reduced and slowly broken, if you are afraid of the child's psychological problems, go to psychological counseling. Another thing to pay attention to is that when this matter is over, you must talk to your child about why you are doing this, and talk to her about reasoning, don't talk about it now, now she can't hear the reason you told her, she will only think that you are annoying, which will cause the opposite effect.
Netizen @ Green Leaf Plot: Guide well, the more forcibly blocked, the stronger the rebellious mentality.
Netizen @Siberly: Have a good chat with your daughter, blocking may not be useful. The child is still young and does not understand many things, and parents need to help him analyze the current situation and then look at the follow-up development. Personally, I think the key points are: to understand more about the daughter's state of mind, to understand the child's ignorance of love, to analyze its current focus, and to affect her study, employment, marriage, etc., it is important for parents to be patient.
Netizen @ for the dark fragrance to come: It's okay to fall in love, you can't overstep the rules, and you can't affect your studies, and you have to control the time with your mobile phone, and you can't give it to her for a long time. Then find some news stories of puppy love to show her, which can be both positive and negative, so that she knows what to do to be good for her.
Netizen @筱洲洲: Be open and honest, don't be one-size-fits-all, sometimes the more you hinder the rebellious psychology, the more you have to be together. Tell her the right view of love, ask her what she likes about each other, what are her strengths, and whether they meet expectations. Naturally, it was over.
Netizen @Super Cheeky: Real people and real things, we often play together, I'm twelve or thirteen years older than them, they call me sister. These two children have also been in love since the sixth grade, and the two children are now in the first year of junior high school, but the two children's grades are ranked high in the grade. Now they are still doing well, they are in love, and their grades are still ranked high and inseparable. I envy these two children, who often call boys little boyfriends little boyfriends. The boys are handsome, and the girls are beautiful. I often joke that I knew I was in love in sixth grade, but now I am in 60th grade and I haven't talked about it yet.
Netizen @Miss.soda: From the perspective of equality, directly explain the stakes and essence of their current emotional development, and popularize gender education.
Netizen @Beauty: In fact, everyone has a rebellious heart, especially at this age, the more you block, the easier it is to talk secretly, I don't prevent falling in love, but to learn to protect yourself, I feel that it is actually curious, and it will be separated soon after talking, but if you stop it, the rebellious heart will be heavy, you can easily talk to her, first of all, self-protection, followed by being responsible, a little bit of guidance.
In the end, the landlord said that the mobile phone had been confiscated, and he would temporarily use it for the child when needed, and then he would communicate with the child well.
What are your views and suggestions for children's early love?