"Little Days": "Masculinism" Zhu Dali will never know that his son secretly went home, how ironic
Zhu Dali is a typical patriarch who firmly believes that men are the masters of the family and that his wife and children should obey his will. In his little days, he enjoyed this supremacy, but he never realized that this concept was quietly eroding the harmony and warmth of the family.
Zhu Dali's wife is a gentle and virtuous woman, she silently bears her husband's strength and domineering, but she has never been able to change Zhu Dali's deep-rooted patriarchal thinking. Their son, Xiaoqiang, is a smart and sensitive child who deeply feels the inequality and oppression in the family, but does not dare to openly rebel against his father's authority.
Xiaoqiang's heart is full of awe and fear for his father, but he also longs for his father's love and understanding. However, in Zhu Dali's eyes, his son should be as strong and independent as him, and he doesn't need much care and care. As a result, Xiaoqiang is often ignored and left out in the cold, and his heart gradually becomes lonely and fragile.
One day, Xiaoqiang decided to secretly go home and surprise his father. He imagined his father's look of surprise when he saw him, and imagined the beautiful picture of the family sitting together and sharing the joy of family. However, the reality is much more brutal than he imagined.
When Xiaoqiang pushed open the door, Zhu Dali was watching TV on the sofa in the living room, he didn't even raise his head, just said lightly: "You're back." Then, he continued to immerse himself in his own world, as if Xiaoqiang's arrival did not arouse his great interest.
Xiaoqiang stood at the door, and an indescribable sense of loss and sadness welled up in his heart. He looked at his father's indifferent back, and suddenly felt a deep irony and helplessness. He understands that no matter what he does, he can't change the patriarchal concept in his father's heart, and he can't make the family truly warm and harmonious.
Xiao Qiang silently walked into his room and closed the door, his heart full of confusion and anxiety about the future. He didn't know how to face this indifferent family, how to find his place and value under his father's strength.
This night, Xiaoqiang lay in bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep. He remembered the bits and pieces of his childhood, the moments when he was ignored and neglected by his father, and the eyes of his mother who suffered in silence. All of this made him feel extremely painful and helpless.
Just then, he heard his parents talking. He crept to the door, and through the crack in the door, he saw his parents sitting on the sofa in the living room, his mother crying, and his father looking indifferent.
"Why do you always do this to me?" asked the mother, crying.
"What have I done to you? I work hard every day and give everything for this family, isn't that enough?" replied Zhu Dali indifferently.
"You gave a lot, but you never cared about how I and my children felt. You always impose your ideas on us and let us live our lives as you wish. Don't you think that's selfish?" the mother couldn't cry.
Zhu Dali was silent for a moment, and then said, "I'm doing this for your good. Men should take on the responsibilities and obligations of the family, and you just need to obey my arrangement. ”
Listening to his father's words, Xiaoqiang felt a chill. He finally understood that his father would never understand his and his mother's feelings, and would never give up his patriarchal ideas. This thought is already ingrained in his heart and cannot be shaken.
Xiaoqiang silently returned to the room, his heart full of disappointment and despair. He knew that he could not change his father's mind, nor could he change the current situation of the family. But he also understood a truth: he can't continue to sink in this indifferent family, he needs to find his own way out and direction.
So, Xiaoqiang began to study hard, striving to leave this home as soon as possible to pursue his own dreams and happiness. He no longer expects his father's love and understanding, and he no longer has too many illusions about the family. He knows that only by his own efforts and struggles can he create a better future that truly belongs to him.
And Zhu Dali, still clinging to his patriarchal ideas in his little days, never knowing that his son had quietly left this home to pursue his own happiness and freedom. His little days are still calm and monotonous, but they lack true warmth and happiness. This story makes us deeply reflect on the impact of masculinity on family harmony and the importance of the pursuit of happiness and freedom. In our lives, there may be similar problems and contradictions, and only by bravely facing and solving them can we have a truly beautiful and happy little life.