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Human desires and needs for love are not directly related to age. No matter what age a person is in, they will feel a thirst for love, an impulse, which is a very normal emotional and physical need.
When teenage girls first fall in love, they crave the attention of the opposite sex. Although they may not be able to say this longing directly, a shy look is enough to express all their thoughts. This emotion is shared by all teenage girls, and it makes people feel a sweet and romantic feeling.
Young young people in their twenties, although they act recklessly and impulsively, are full of many beautiful fantasies when it comes to love. When he meets someone he likes, he will give without hesitation.
After the age of thirty, forty or even fifty in life, our hearts will be more realistic, and our thirst for love will tend to be stable and mature. People at this stage are more focused on stable relationships and long-term commitment.
When it comes to marriage, it is necessary to consider one's own preferences and the suitability of the other party's conditions. If it is suitable, it is expected to build a long-term stable family, and it needs to be carefully chosen.
Although this may seem realistic from a certain point of view, in the future, material conditions are undoubtedly an important guarantee of quality of life and marital stability.
Middle-aged women seem to be more difficult to pursue than younger girls.
At this time, women have become very realistic, and their thirst for love and marriage is relatively weakened. They already have the ability to support themselves and live a prosperous life even if they are not dependent on men.
Stop thinking that simply spending money will touch their hearts. Whether it's spending money, pleasing or please, it's all in vain.
Only by understanding the deep emotional needs of women and what they really want can we solve problems in a targeted manner and achieve twice the result with half the effort.
To win the hearts of middle-aged women, you don't have to spend a lot of money, the key is to talk about three more topics, so that you can open their hearts.
One: Talk about some similar hobbies
When it comes to building distance between people, the most effective way is to find common ground with each other. It's the most direct way we connect with others, whether it's in private or public.
For women, at different ages, they often have different needs, as the writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
"At the age of 20, you will pursue extraordinary love, at the age of 30, you will not only value love, but also care about values, at the age of 40, you will pursue a soul mate, and at the age of 50, you will want to find a partner in life. ”
Undoubtedly, when women enter middle age, they pay more attention to spiritual fit. If you can find a soul mate, it will be the luckiest thing.
It's a great way to discuss things that interest both yourself and the other person in a social situation, which will make it easier for you to get into the other person's inner world. These commonalities will make the other person think that you are the real person they have been looking for. Whether you're in a social situation or on a date, it's a way to communicate that feels warm and comfortable.
2. Talk about the common ideals of life between each other
In the study of psychology, men and women often have very different thinking patterns, especially in the relationship between the sexes.
It is generally believed that men tend to be rational, while women are more emotional. If you want to pursue women, you can't just use the male way of thinking, but think about what women desire.
If men pay more attention to practical issues, women pay more attention to the emotional aspects. In this case, exchanging some topics with her about life ideals can make it easier to enter her inner world and gradually win her favor.
The famous host Dong Qing once said in an interview:
"What I can't tolerate the most is the stupidity of men, and what I appreciate the most is that men have a certain mind. I think the most important thing for a man is wisdom, followed by professionalism and responsibility. ”
Why does she pay so much attention to men's thinking skills?
She believes that really smart people are good at judging the situation in the relationship between the sexes, and apply this ability to deal with conflicts and differences. In this way, they can manage their relationship better and thus become closer to each other.
Three: talk about each other's strengths, so that appreciation slowly turns into a good feeling
No one is perfect, no gold is barefoot. Everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings. However, when we love someone, we tend to lose objective judgment and only see their good and ignore their shortcomings. This is a universal emotional phenomenon of human beings. However, we should strive to remain sober and appreciate a person's strengths in moderation while recognizing their shortcomings so that we can better understand, accept, and love them.
If you talk a lot about the strengths and strengths of the person you follow, she will feel more confident and present, and more valued in your eyes.
In the process of interacting with her, you need to discover more of her good and excellent side, and do not skimp on your own praise. Discussing these strengths made her feel valued and valued. In this way, she will gradually open up and start trusting you. Remember, this kind of engagement requires patience and sincerity to build a stronger and long-lasting relationship.
There is a saying: "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word is cold June." "It shows that we should say good things and avoid hurting others.
Show praise to others so they feel cared, respected, and appreciated. Although this kind of effort may seem insignificant, it will surely pay off over time. We should encourage ourselves to send positive messages often.
When a person is deeply loved, she is bound to feel it. Communicating with her about each other's strengths will increase our goodwill and shorten the distance between us. Why not enjoy such feelings?
It is not difficult to pursue the person you like, as long as you do it properly, you can get twice the result with half the effort.
If you're lucky enough to be like-minded with you, it's only a matter of time before you're together.
In this long life, it is not easy to meet the person you like. We should be brave enough to grasp happiness and cherish the beauty we have.
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