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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preamble:
Who would have thought that a girl who has been abandoned and abused since she was a child, and who has suffered a lot along the way, can finally find her own paradise?
Yi Nengjing's story is the best testimony.
Her life is like a modern version of Shakespeare's tragicomedy, full of ups and downs, intriguing and gripping.
Let's get closer to her bumpy upbringing, witness how she was reborn from the darkness, turned into a butterfly, and finally embraced a happy beauty.
Perhaps, only by experiencing the ups and downs of life and the vicissitudes of life can we appreciate the preciousness of a moment of warmth.
Yi Nengjing used her life to interpret this truth.
A poor and cruel childhood
was born and abandoned, which doomed Yi Nengjing to a miserable childhood.
Although the mother was born into a noble family, because of the father's prejudice against her daughter, she was almost degraded by her mother before she was born.
When she came to this world, she endured her father's neglect of her and her mother's vague abandonment and alienation.
When she was young, she did not get the father's love and mother's love she deserved, and her heart was like an uncarved stone, bleak.
In my childhood, I was always chained by a dog and lived a life of not having enough food and clothes.
Having encountered the harsh trials of life since she was a child, she began to feel inferior and cowering in her heart, believing that she was a drag oil bottle and was destined to not be cared for by anyone.
It wasn't until she was 13 years old that her mother found a Japanese stepfather for her, and she was freed from the cage of her fellow villagers.
But this experience has left an indelible shadow in her heart, and the trauma in her heart has made her inferior and sensitive, and she always feels that she is a burden.
The effort to find an outlet in life
After coming to Japan, Yi Nengjing's life ushered in a turnaround.
She discovered the charm of Shakespeare and literature, and was drawn to the wisdom and humanity of the book's plots, drawing strength from them.
She began to be passionate about writing, turning her inner anguish and loneliness into flowing words and phrases to express her heart.
Despite her stiff accent, she won the first prize in her school's essay competition, gaining a great sense of accomplishment and confidence.
But she was not satisfied with this, and seeing her mother's inability to adapt to a foreign country and crying often made her feel even more guilty, she secretly resolved to free her mother from that painful experience and live a stable and happy life.
In 1985, after returning to Taiwan, she threw the songs she wrote to the record company, and by chance became a member of a new group, which became an instant hit.
Since then, he has started his career and realized his dream of getting ahead.
Later, he released a solo album, completely embarked on the road of music, and his career gradually improved.
Although her father's unexpected death hit her hard, she did not give up, but gritted her teeth and persevered, trying to pay off the debts left by her father.
Along the way, sweat and tears were intertwined, but she never lost hope and courage in life.
Misplaced marriage with Yu Chengqing
When she was 18 years old, Yi Nengjing fell in love with the suave Yu Chengqing at first sight.
Yu was born in a scholarly family, is the pride of his mother, and has an innate attraction to everyone.
Yi Nengjing couldn't help but be fascinated by him, and the two soon fell in love and started a relationship.
However, due to the success of both of them in their careers at that time, Yu Chengqing was cautious and had been reluctant to disclose this relationship, worried about affecting the development of his career.
It wasn't until 14 years later, in 2000, that the two registered their marriage in the United States.
But there were serious problems in the beginning of this marriage.
Yi Nengjing longs for a grand wedding, hoping to get the blessings of relatives and friends to justify her love with Yu.
But Yu Chengqing, the only son of a wealthy family, is casual and sloppy, and the whole person is idle and careless.
didn't even owe a decent marriage proposal, only proposed to her vaguely with a balloon that was about to leak, and only ate a fast-food pizza with her to celebrate after registering the marriage, and didn't take the wedding seriously at all.
After getting married, Yi Nengjing began a life of discrimination and neglect by the Yu family.
As a "little singer", the Yu family looked down on her from top to bottom, and even her life was disturbed.
She has wanted to break away from the big family with her husband countless times and live an independent and free life, but Yu Chengqing has always used the excuse that she is an only child and her parents are old, etc., and she is perfunctory.
Yi Nengjing had no choice but to condense all the depression and unrest into words and write them into his own book to vent the vicissitudes and loneliness in his heart.
The words in the work that describe "it is impossible to persuade a person not to be filial" are exactly the portrayal of her heart.
The marriage ended dismally
In 2007, the "hand-in-hand door" incident completely destroyed the marriage of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing.
In front of the media camera, she was photographed holding hands with her old acquaintance Huang Weide, which caused an uproar for a while.
Although she tried to communicate with her husband to untie the knot of this marriage, Yu Chengqing was narrow-minded and selfish and always refused to divorce.
In the end, she was forced to take on a debt of tens of millions of liquidated damages and bear the full cost of the breakdown of this relationship.
Under the double blow of work and feelings, Yi Nengjing once fell into a low point in her life.
However, after the trials and tribulations of childhood, she has already developed an indomitable personality.
She chose to leave Taiwan and go to the mainland to develop and start a new page in her life.
Although the pain of losing her marriage has not completely stopped, she did not give up her life, but devoted herself to her career, used sweat to heal the wounds, and got out of the haze as soon as possible.
Marriage with Qin Hao
After Yi Nengjing's divorce for 5 years, she finally got married to Qin Hao.
In fact, as early as 9 years old, Qin Hao was already a fan of Yi Nengjing, and he followed her tirelessly.
After the two met, Qin Hao quickly confessed his heart to her.
But the failed marriage with Yu Chengqing made Yi Nengjing lose confidence in her love life for a while.
She hesitated repeatedly, fearing that she would fall into the mire of pain again and could not afford the price.
However, Qin Hao's affection and sincerity finally touched the line of defense in her heart.
He not only confided in his family the age difference with Yi Nengjing, but also promised that he would be responsible for Yi Nengjing for the rest of his life until the day he died.
Yi Nengjing was deeply moved by this perseverance and courage, and she realized that this was the last chance given to her by God, so she let go of her doubts and fears about the past and decided to pursue happiness again.
Qin Hao's origin and character
Qin Hao was born in a wealthy family and has been doted on by his parents since he was a child.
His parents were both civil servants and later moved to business, which created a favorable environment for him to grow up.
Unlike most rich children's pursuit of material life, Qin Hao has a different obsession with the profession of actor, and even has a conflict with his parents.
However, like Yi Nengjing, Qin Hao has been influenced by a good family education since he was a child, he is humble and polite, and he follows the rules.
After thinking about it again, his parents finally chose to let him go and chase his dreams.
In this way, Qin Hao was able to enter Chinese opera for further study and embarked on the road of actor step by step.
Although he has not been able to get ahead after graduation, he has always maintained a high level of professional ethics, even if he is well paid, he insists on rejecting unappetizing scripts, and preferring to lack them to abuse.
It is this persistence and unique personality charm that attracts Yi Nengjing, who is tough but sensitive and suspicious.
After marriage, Yi Nengjing fully supported her husband's career development and encouraged him to adhere to his principles and not be confused by fame and fortune.
Today, Qin Hao is already a powerful actor, able to keep pace with Yi Nengjing, and has a successful career.
The two encouraged and supported each other, were inseparable on the road of life, went hand in hand, and achieved a double harvest of career and love.
Epilogue:
Yi Nengjing's life is like a modern tragicomedy.
From a painful childhood, to a tortuous emotional journey, and finally to a successful marriage with Qin Hao, she wrote her own life legend with tenacity and tenacity.
Although everyone's fate is unpredictable, as long as you keep a kind and simple heart, you will eventually find your own paradise.
Just like Yi Nengjing finally embraced happiness, as long as you have hope and don't give up, there will definitely be a bright day in your life.
In fact, everyone deserves to be embraced by such beauty, as long as they have dreams, courage and perseverance to move forward, life will surely bloom with the most brilliant light.