Text丨Shuangqi Town Inn (We don't have much time in this world, it's not worth wasting time trying to please those vulgar and despicable scoundrels!)
The midterm exams for the spring of 2024 are underway, but the hot spot of "a nine-year-old boy and his parents being beaten by the parents of his classmates" at the gate of a primary school in Xinxiang, Henan Province, is particularly eye-catching.
We don't need to go into detail about the detailed process, this matter has been fermenting for several days, almost to the point of "everyone knows", and even the central media has already commented on it.
In fact, the central media's comment stance is somewhat at both ends of the spectrum. At first, the tone of the central media was: hitting people is wrong, absolutely wrong, but now, the central media seems to see the surging emotions and the attitude seems to have changed: blaming the relevant parties for avoiding the important and trivial, without giving an in-depth investigation conclusion - whether the boy bullied or not.
Visible facts: A nine-year-old boy was blocked at the school gate by the parents of another student in the same class as the parent of a girl in the same class. The parents of the girls in the same class questioned the nine-year-old boy: "Why did you hit her?!"
The nine-year-old boy replied stiffly, "She scolded me first!"
From this conversation, we are 100% sure that this nine-year-old boy was the first to beat up his classmate!
As for whether the first beating of the little girl this time was one of the frequent beatings, or whether it was bullying between minors, it was another topic of endless debate among the rabble!
The education administrators have now given the verdict: two students have a dispute over a toy called "fake water".
In this dispute, it is very likely that a nine-year-old boy snatched the toy from a female classmate and refused to return it.
After the incident, the teacher stepped in.
In fact, the teacher was reluctant to intervene in the process, because this nine-year-old sturdy boy has always been difficult to discipline, and the original family behind him is terrifying!
The nine-year-old boy and his family of origin once treated the head teacher who disciplined him as a criminal, claiming that the teacher had violated the physical and mental health of minors, and demanded that "Six Doors" lock his teacher in a deep prison.
Moreover, the parents of the nine-year-old boy often told the teacher that "someone" was "someone" in the education bureau, or that the teacher was "put in small shoes" or dismissed from the teacher's public position.
In this mixed situation, don't you think that these people are just talking wild words, what if the wild words of one family come true? Anyway, the current group of teachers has been deprived of the right to discipline, and they only have the right to kneel down and gently persuade them.
Even so, the teacher intervened in the dispute: resisting the pressure and convicting the nine-year-old boy of a mistake.
In the end, the nine-year-old boy compensated the female classmate 10 yuan and made a review in the class.
The announcement of the above-mentioned incident process is, of course, a matter of matter and a matter of peace on the part of education administrators. However, education administrators do not dare to extend this matter and talk in detail about whether there is bullying and being bullied among minors.
It's no wonder that education administrators, including teachers, are really at that!
The atmosphere of the times has been like this: in the past 20 years, education experts from all walks of life have used MLM success to coerce students' parents to run all the way on the road of wrong educational concepts, and everyone has come to the conclusion that there are no bad children, and no one can label children! Whoever labels children is a heinous criminal!
Moral kidnapping is incomparable, who would dare to throw out the argument that "a certain child is a school bully"?
If the beating incident at the school gate had not intensified the conflict, we could probably guess the evolution of the matter: there are many such children and such children's original families, and the public will not pay attention to such children and such original families, and such children will continue to bully other children and poison the entire education ecology under the instigation of their original families.
At present, the conflict has intensified, and the reason for the intensification of the conflict is that the parents of the little girl beat the nine-year-old boy and his mother at the school gate, thus triggering a large discussion with a wide range of participation.
It is certainly not correct for an adult to beat a nine-year-old boy and his mother. The adults who beat the nine-year-old boy and his mother have already paid the price: they are being punished under the Public Security Administration Punishment Law.
However, we should also pay attention to the helpless voices of the party who carried out the beating: the girl's uncle, holding her niece in one hand and her ID card in the other, exposed the bad deeds of the nine-year-old boy and showed us the ugliness of a family of origin.
Don't ask me, "What is the truth?" as I said a long time ago, no one can wake up anyone who pretends to be asleep, not even peeing! Even if the girl's uncle comes forward, the still stupidly ridicule: "What is the truth?"
All I can tell you is: as long as the bully and the family of origin of the bully do not admit what they have done, there is no truth at all!
Evidence of bullying is hard to find, and even if evidence of bullying does, the shameless and brutal will say, "It's just a fight between children, it's not bullying at all!"
By the way, after the incident, the grandfather of the boy who was beaten demanded that he must pay 200,000 yuan in compensation.
Anyway, I, as a teacher, am not surprised! In the past 20 years, as long as the teacher group criticizes any child and disciplines any child, the parents of the students will throw out sky-high claims - believe it or not!