In the world of love, we always crave to be pampered and pampered, as if only in this way can we prove that the other person really loves us. However, this is often not the case. True love is not to spoil you as a "baby" who cannot live independently, but to encourage you to grow and make you stronger and more independent in the nourishment of love.
First of all, we need to understand that the essence of love is mutual growth and progress. A person who truly loves you will not treat you as an appendage to you, but will respect your independent personality and individuality. He will encourage you to pursue your dreams and realize your own values, instead of confined you to a small space to satisfy his "baby" care and pampering for you. This kind of love, although it seems sweet, lacks real growth and progress.
Secondly, true love requires both parties to share responsibilities and obligations. A person who truly loves you will not see you as his burden of responsibility, but will face the challenges and difficulties of life with you. He will share joys and sorrows with you and share the responsibilities and obligations of the family. This kind of love is healthy, equal and long-lasting.
In addition, true love will also make you more independent and strong. Someone who truly loves you will not deprive you of the ability to think and make decisions independently, but will encourage you to think independently and face challenges. He will make you more confident and determined in the nourishment of love, instead of spoiling you as a "baby" who cannot live independently.
Why do some people spoil each other as "babies"?
This is often because there is an unhealthy desire for control deep within them. In this way, they hope to satisfy their own sense of superiority and control by making the other person completely dependent on them. However, this kind of love is not real love, but a pathological dependence and control.
So, how can you tell if someone really loves you?
Actually, the answer is simple. People who truly love you will respect your independent personality and individuality, encourage you to pursue your dreams and values, share your responsibilities and obligations in life, share joys and sorrows, and make you more independent, strong and confident in the nourishment of love. Instead of spoiling you like a "baby" who can't live independently.
Of course, this is not to say that there should not be pampering and pampering in love. Proper pampering and pampering can make love sweeter and warmer. However, this pampering and pampering should be based on respect and understanding, not a kind of control and dependence.
How do you maintain a healthy love relationship?
First, we need to learn to think and make decisions independently. Don't rely too much on each other and maintain your independence and autonomy. Secondly, we need to learn to communicate and express. In love, both parties need to communicate openly about each other's thoughts and needs and solve problems and difficulties together. Finally, we need to learn to cherish and be grateful. We should cherish each other's love and dedication, and be grateful for each other's existence and companionship.
True love is not about spoiling you as a "baby", but encouraging you to grow and improve. A person who truly loves you will respect your independent personality and individuality, share the responsibilities and obligations in life with you, and make you stronger and more confident in the nourishment of love. What we have to do is to learn to think and make decisions independently, learn to communicate and express, and learn to cherish and be grateful. Only then can we have a healthy, equal, and long-lasting love relationship.
In this era full of changes and challenges, let us work together to pursue the love that truly belongs to us! Let us grow and progress together in the nourishment of love, and create a better future that belongs to us!
Love is not a simple exchange of feelings, but a profound life experience. In love, we must not only learn how to love others, but also how to love ourselves. True love can only be had when we truly know how to love ourselves. So, let's learn to love ourselves, cherish ourselves, and be kind to ourselves from now on. Because in this world, what is most worthy of our love and cherishment is ourselves.