The background often receives a lot of messages from employers, many of them are the first time to ask an aunt, often do not know how to start, today we invited an experienced employer, Ms. Liu, to share her unique secrets of finding an aunt, let's take a look~
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My surname is Liu, and everyone usually calls me Sister Liu, and I have invited many aunts over the years. Recently, my aunt at home was going to resign and go home, and I couldn't help but think of the fact that I tried to compromise everything she said during the interview because many things were not clearly agreed, so I took the time to summarize the experience of asking my aunt over the years, hoping to help employers.
First of all, it is necessary to clarify the content of the aunt's work, which includes daily household chores, such as cooking, cleaning, laundry, taking care of children or the elderly, and other specific tasks. At the same time, it is also necessary to clarify the work requirements for the aunt, such as cleaning the household every day and helping the child to eat a balanced diet.
It is necessary to agree in advance on the daily working hours of the aunt, the rest arrangements for weekends and holidays, etc., so as to ensure that the aunt has enough rest time and ensure that the aunt can provide stable services in daily life.
Aunties are exposed to a lot of private information at work, so we need to be clear about the protection requirements of family privacy. Aunties should respect the privacy of their employers and should not disclose information at will. At the same time, we, as employers, should also respect the privacy of our aunts and not interfere in their private lives.
As a member of the family, the aunt should abide by the family's code of conduct. At the same time, we must also respect the fruits of my aunt's labor and give her enough respect and support. In short, it is important to be clear and clear about these rules when you first ask for an aunt. This will not only ensure a happy cooperation between the two parties, but also lay a solid foundation for a harmonious life for the family in the future.
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If you want to ask a sister-in-law, then you must let the aunt practice, because the experience of taking a baby can generally be seen through practice, and there is no way to pretend about this. During the interview, if you let the aunt come to the house, it is best to let her get started directly, such as helping the baby take a bath, etc., we can see the aunt's habitual process and ideas of doing things through this practical operation. Of course, this practice also needs to give some tolerance, after all, most aunts will be nervous about such an interview, so it will affect her operation.
Usually I ask my aunt not to look at her phone in front of her children, not to play Tik Tok at home, not to swear at home, and if it is a day shift aunt, the commute time must be punctual.
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I think it should be understood that everyone loves beauty and has hobbies, but it is best to find someone who can't play cards, drink, dye hair, and do nail art, otherwise it will be us who will be uncomfortable in the back, and it is really not good for the baby to change aunts frequently.
If you want to judge whether the aunt is experienced, you can ask the aunt about the detailed experience of taking the baby during the interview, such as how long each baby has been carried, where are the difficulties in bringing the baby, and how to overcome it.
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The most important thing for me is that the baby bumps and must tell us as soon as possible, this is not to ask the teacher, but to know the situation of the baby's injury, so that it can be dealt with in time.
Once I found that the baby's forehead was a little red, and asked the aunt what was going on, but the aunt said that it was bumped at home, and after listening to my question, the aunt still felt that I was blaming her, so I must tell the aunt in advance about the baby's bump after the timely report, and the two sides reached an agreement.
Have you all learned the above content?What other tips have you summarized for the first time to invite your aunt?Welcome to share your views in the comment area~