Prologue The starting point of life - the starting point of struggle
Song Shixiong was born in an extremely barren and remote village in Leting County, Hebei Province, and his living conditions can be described as extremely difficult. When he was a child, his family fed on sorghum rice porridge all year round, and he couldn't help but feel extremely tired of the monotonous taste year after year.
Once, he seized the gap between his mother's busyness, quietly poured the bowl of sorghum rice porridge into the chicken coop, and lied that he had not yet filled his stomach, hoping to get his mother's care, and cooked a bowl of hot noodles for himUnfortunately, there was no noodle reserve at home, and his wish was not fulfilled, but he was severely punished, simply because he lied to his mother This experience was deeply imprinted in Song Shixiong's heart, and since then, he has strengthened his belief in being an honest person and has always adhered to this principle.
However, what bothered him even more was that he was still unable to communicate normally until he was five years old. Whenever he needs to buy an item, he can only express it through gestures, and when talking to others, he can only nod or shake his head in response.
His parents were worried about this and mistakenly thought that he had a serious speech disorder, so they took him to the hospital for a comprehensive examination, but all the indicators showed normal, and the doctors were helpless to face this dilemma, and the family could only choose to go with the flow and let fate arrange it.
However, miracles happen inadvertently. One day, my mother, who was doing housework at home, suddenly heard a childish call for "Mom". She turned her head to look at Song Shixiong in surprise, only to see him make the same sound again.
The mother was thrilled and shouted excitedly, "My child has finally learned to speak!" The whole family rejoiced at this, although he spoke late, but this did not affect Song Shixiong's talent for language, and he gradually indulged in the world of language arts, especially when listening to cross talk and radio programs, those fluent and vivid language charms made him fall in love, and he especially loved the unique charm of sports commentary, as if he was immersed in the warm atmosphere of the game, and since then, becoming a good announcer has become his unswerving pursuit.
In order to realize this ideal, Song Shixiong began a long and arduous process of preparation. He went all out to replenish his sports knowledge and hone his eloquence day and night, so fast that he spoke so quickly that his companions were amazed and even joked if he was trying to make up for the loss of language skills before the age of five.
In addition, he also actively participated in various competitions in order to improve himself in practice At the age of fifteen, he mustered up the courage to submit a sincere letter of study to Zhang Zhi, the "grandfather" level commentator in his mind, and surprisingly, Zhang Zhi not only gave a reply, but also became his enlightenment mentor, leading him to embark on the road of broadcasting.
I have been fascinated by broadcasting for a long time, and I have dreamed of broadcasting since I was a child. Under the careful guidance of Mr. Zhang, my professional skills have become more and more sophisticated. Despite my small stature and ordinary appearance, my enthusiasm and dedication to broadcasting finally paid off in 1960 when I successfully joined the Central People's Radio, and started a new chapter in my life!
Second, the career chapter
In 1960, I finally realized my dream and stepped into the door of the Central People's Radio. Even though I was just an editor at the time, I knew it was just the beginning of my career.
Unsurprisingly, two years later, at the 1962 World Table Tennis Championships, I had the privilege of being the first commentator for the women's team, and the news quickly caused a national sensation.
All these achievements are inseparable from the earnest teachings of his mentor Zhang Zhi over the years. Since the age of 15, Mr. Zhang Zhi has always patiently taught me all kinds of broadcasting skills and rich sports knowledge.
I have a lot of respect for Zhang Zhi'en and regard him as a guide on the road of my life, and whenever I recall the moment when I had the courage to submit my letter of study to him, I always feel full of emotion in my heart.
Despite the huge success of his debut, there is still a long and arduous road ahead to become a good commentator. I am like a machine that never stops, tirelessly putting myself into my work day in and day out.
Sometimes it takes months to travel non-stop from the coast of the East China Sea all the way to the northwest border of the motherland, just to be the first to be on the scene to cover every exciting event.
However, just as my career was gradually dawning, the turbulent era of the 70s quietly came, and I was inevitably hit by the "button-down" movement. During those days, I often lived in fear that someone would suddenly break into my home and search it.
In the face of such heavy pressure, I did not choose to give up, but secretly wrote a manuscript for the upcoming competition and made full preparations.
Thankfully, I'm not alone. My wife, Zhong Rui, has always supported me silently behind me and has become my most solid spiritual support. Her encouragement and comfort often gave me great courage and enabled me to grit my teeth and persevere through that most difficult time.
It is precisely because of the company of Zhong Rui, a tenacious woman, that I was able to survive those turbulent years and stand on the commentary seat again.
Time flies, and in the 80s, Song Shixiong picked up the microphone again, and his career and family life also opened a new chapter. Whenever he stood on the field of the Chinese women's volleyball team to preside over the event, he was extremely excited, and when the Chinese team won the moment, he would tear his throat and shout: "We won!", triggering warm celebrations across the country.
However, it was at this stage that due to his busy work, he often neglected his family, especially his wife Zhong Rui's silent dedication.
It wasn't until after the gas poisoning incident that made him experience the brink of life and death that Song Shixiong suddenly realized how important his wife Zhong Rui was to him.
Since then, no matter how busy he is at work, he will always find time to pay attention to his family's situation, and he is always grateful to Zhong Rui for his companionship and protection.
3. Zhong Rui was poisoned
In 1995, Song Shixiong won the honorary title of "Best International Radio and Television Sports Program Host", and he wore this supreme laurel with pride and pride in his heart. However, he could never have imagined that at the most glorious moment of his life, an accident occurred at home that frightened him.
That night, Song Shixiong came home from a day's work, and as soon as he stepped into the house, he smelled a strong smell of gas. He immediately called out the name of his wife, Zhong Rui, but there was no response in the room, and he could only bang the door.
After struggling to open the door, Song Shixiong was stunned by the scene in front of him—his wife, Zhong Rui, slumped on the marching bed in the kitchen, motionless, apparently in a deep coma.
At that moment, Song Shixiong was almost on the verge of collapse, and he used all his strength to carry the unconscious Zhong Rui into the car, and then drove towards the hospital. On the way, he kept patting his wife's cheek and called out: "Zhong Rui, Zhong Rui, wake up soon......".
However, Zhong Rui still didn't react, and his whole person was as stiff as a puppet, as if he had lost the breath of life. Song Shixiong's tears rolled in his eyes, and he was terrified, worried that his wife would leave him forever.
When they finally arrived at the hospital, the doctors immediately launched an emergency rescue. Zhong Rui was in a coma in the hospital for four days and four nights, a total of 96 hours, and Song Shixiong always waited by the bedside, always paying attention to his wife's breathing ups and downs, praying that she could survive the difficulties and recover her health.
Luckily, on the fourth day, Zhong Rui finally opened her eyes slowly, and although she looked extremely weak, at least she was still alive.
Although Zhong Rui finally managed to escape the danger of his life, the impact of the poisoning on his body still could not be completely erased. She has nearly lost her ability to speak, unable to speak fluently, and can only make indistinct and illegible voices.
Song Shixiong had no choice but to put aside his work for the time being, and wholeheartedly took care of his wife's daily life at home, doing his best to help her recover her ability to speak.
This gas poisoning incident made Song Shixiong deeply realize that he had been too focused on career development over the years and ignored the selfless dedication of his wife Zhong Rui behind the scenes. Since they met and knew each other, until they entered the marriage hall, Zhong Rui has always been his most solid backing, supporting him to pursue his career ideals without complaint.
Today, Song Shixiong has stood at the peak of his career, and he is deeply grateful to his wife for her companionship and understanding over the years. He made a vow in his heart that no matter what happened in the future, he would cherish this thoughtful and virtuous helper.
Part IV: Hard Times
At the beginning of his marriage, Zhong Rui became Song Shixiong's most reliable support. At that time, Song Shixiong was just an ordinary employee of CCTV with a meager income. Zhong Rui shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family, not only to take care of the children, but also to take care of work, and never told her husband half of the pain.
However, when Song Shixiong needed to host important competitions, Zhong Rui always silently assisted him in preparing materials, giving him endless support and encouragement.
However, just as Song Shixiong's career was gradually taking off, the turbulent era of the 70s quietly came, and a heavy "hat buttoning" incident brought him a huge blow. During that time, Song Shixiong was often terrified, fearing that someone would break into his home and search him at any time.
In the face of such tremendous pressure, he could have been physically and mentally exhausted, but Zhong Rui became his strongest spiritual pillar with her comfort and encouragement.
Zhong Rui's words always cheered Song Shixiong up from the frustration. She always confidently told her husband: "Don't worry, everything will be fine, you just have to keep doing what you love."
With the support of his wife, Song Shixiong gritted his teeth and survived the most difficult time, never being overwhelmed, and never giving up the dream of broadcasting in his heart. It is precisely because of the support of a resolute woman like Zhong Rui that Song Shixiong can climb the peak of his life again.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, entering the changing 80s, Song Shixiong appeared on the commentary stage with a new look, and his work status gradually returned to the best level. He devoted himself to writing manuscripts and collecting materials, which was busy and fulfilling.
However, it was during this time that he tended to be too focused on his work and neglected the feelings and needs of his family.
Song Shixiong turned a blind eye to the hard work his wife Zhong Rui endured at home, and it was not until after the unforgettable poisoning incident that he suddenly realized.
On that day, Zhong Rui fell into a deep coma due to gas poisoning, and Song Shixiong witnessed the thrilling scene of his wife's dying life. Facing the unconscious Zhong Rui, Song Shixiong deeply blamed himself, regretted his negligence and indifference over the years, and he vowed to cherish this virtuous helper who knew cold and hot.
Since then, no matter how busy he is, he will always find time to pay attention to the dynamics of his family. Every time he went out, Zhong Rui would carefully cook nutritious fish soup for him and tell him to pay attention to his health.
In this way, Song Shixiong and Zhong Rui have spent 57 years of ups and downs together. Their love has gone through the test of life and death, becoming more and more indestructible, caring for each other, and more and more closely integrated.
Zhong Rui is the staunchest supporter of Song Shixiong's career, and Song Shixiong repays his wife's companionship and understanding through his own efforts and achievements.
5. Retirement
In 2000, Song Shixiong officially bid farewell to his job, and he finally had enough time to spend with his wife Zhong Rui. He said excitedly to Zhong Rui: "I finally have time to go shopping with you!" Zhong Rui replied with a smile: "Look at me, my hair is gray, what kind of street are you shopping?
Since then, Song Shixiong, the "famous commentator" who once enjoyed a good reputation in the sports world, is like an ordinary old man, and goes to the vegetable market with his wife Zhong Rui every day to purchase ingredients. They are always inseparable in the streets, holding each other's hands tightly and strolling intimately.
Although Zhong Rui's silver thread can no longer hide the traces of time, in Song Shixiong's eyes, she is still beautiful and moving, evoking his memories of those youthful years.
At first, it was not easy for them to buy vegetables for their daily needs. Song Shixiong is very old, and his arm often feels sore. Once, they had just returned home from buying a large number of items from the mall, and Zhong Rui saw Song Shixiong carrying a heavy vegetable basket, his brows furrowed, and he was obviously a little overwhelmed.
Song Shixiong and his wife are often exhausted by daily chores, especially when they need to travel with a lot of belongings, which makes Zhong Rui quite troubled. So she proposed, "Why can't we consider buying a bike?
Although Zhong Rui's suggestion was full of kindness, Song Shixiong smiled and shook his head, and politely declined: "We have all entered the old age, if there is an accident on the bicycle, the consequences are unimaginable" Although Zhong Rui regretted this, she still cared about her husband's safety.
Soon after, Zhong Rui quietly bought a brand new bicycle for Song Shixiong and kept the key to the lock safe. From then on, whenever Song Shixiong proposed the idea of riding a bicycle, Zhong Rui always refused on the grounds that the key was lost, so he had to choose to walk.
Although Song Shixiong was slightly dissatisfied with this, seeing his wife's caring appearance for him, only deep emotion and warmth surged in his heart.
As time passed, the aging Song gradually realized the importance of cherishing the happiness in front of him. Whenever the sun sets, he will always hold Zhong Rui's hands tightly and stroll leisurely in the park, enjoying this rare quiet time.
Looking at his wife's laughter, Song Shixiong's heart was greatly comforted, as if he had truly realized the true meaning of happiness at this moment.
Although the children have made outstanding achievements in their respective fields and have little time to spend with their parents, as long as Zhong Rui is by his side, Song Shixiong feels that his life is full of warmth and hope.
In his later years, Song Shixiong no longer had any complaints about life, he was once famous for his unique commentary style, and now he chose to spend his comfortable old age with the most simple lifestyle, and his heart was full of endless gratitude to Zhong Rui.
In Song Shixiong's mind, his wife Zhong Rui is undoubtedly the most dazzling star in his life, always shining on his way forward and never extinguishing.