Recently, the incident of a 9-year-old boy being beaten in Xinxiang has attracted widespread attention from the society!
Here's the thing
On the afternoon of April 16, 2024, Mr. Li from Muye District, Xinxiang, Henan Province, said that his 9-year-old son was beaten by the father of his classmate at the gate of Niucun Primary School after school, and his wife, who was also there at the time, was also beaten. The video shows a man hitting him in the face with his hands and kicking him. After the man was knocked to the ground, the man also punched the man with his fist. The man involved and his parents have been hospitalized!
The girl's parents were detained
It is understood that the parents involved have been intervened by the public security organs and detained.
The girl's uncle spoke out, and the events reversed
Just as the matter was in an uproar, the girl's uncle stood up and spoke. He said that the little girl in his family was often bullied by the boy at school, and the little boy not only beat people, but also scolded and even extorted money.
The uncle said that they had also gone to the school and reported to the police, and the man promised not to commit the crime again under the witness of the police! But in the end, not only did the problem not be solved, but the boy intensified and threatened the girl to beat her again if she told her parents again.
The uncle also mentioned that the parents who did it this time were really angry, feeling that their baby daughter was bullied like this, and the school and teachers didn't care, so they could only take action themselves. He said that although they knew that it was wrong, they could bear it when they saw their children being bullied.
As soon as these words came out, the discussion on the Internet became more enthusiastic.
Update
According to the report, the parents involved have been administratively detained and fined, and the head teacher has also been replaced.
But the problems behind this incident go far beyond that. Netizens have questioned: Where is the way to deal with school bullying? Why do parents lose control of their emotions and start beating people, and where is the supervision and guidance of the education department?
As soon as this announcement came out, the discussion on the Internet became more enthusiastic.
Netizens asked
Some netizens asked: What about the boy's parents? What about the principal? How do you deal with these people?
Some netizens then asked: If the actual problem is not solved, it is equivalent to not being solved!
What is the "real problem" in this incident is self-explanatory, bullying!
If bullying doesn't go away, it won't end!
The head teacher was wronged
However, some netizens feel that the head teacher is too wronged!
He believes that the school actually has no way to manage this matter, not even a way to expel male students!
For parents who are messing around, the school does not dare to deal with it like this!
Parents?
Some netizens think that the root of this matter lies in the parents!
School teachers can teach children how to get along, but it is difficult to change the narrow-minded and extreme mentality of parents. The key is that parents are aware of the problem themselves, learn to treat it rationally, and don't always take the small frictions between children too seriously, which makes everyone unhappy!
But this kind of thing is too subjective!
Netizens suggested
Some netizens also suggested: Should the bully be punished in the school file and have a demerit!
Although the incident in Xinxiang, Henan Province, has been initially dealt with, the warning it has given us is far from over. The issue of bullying in schools requires the attention and efforts of each and every one of us. Let's start with ourselves, from the family, from the school, and work together to create a school environment free of bullying for children.
It is a tragedy that the girl's father was detained. But it's also a cautionary tale of the seriousness of bullying in schools.
However, if one day your child is bullied outside, and after negotiation and calling the police, it will become more serious, what will you do?
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