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The saddest thing is undoubtedly the saddest thing for siblings to break off their relationship!
But so what?
In the face of reality and human nature, even brothers and sisters cannot really have an ideal relationship!
When the ungrateful demand and the unrewarded awakening meet, when the moral kidnapping and the powerful self-protection meet...... Between brothers and sisters, breaking off relations is a decision made by too many people "although they are reluctant but have no choice"!
Some people think that after siblings break off their relationship, they will never have anything to do with each other again.
Some people, on the basis of severing diplomatic relations, will do what they should do. Sooner or later, you will find that such a group seems to be scheming, but in fact it is far-sighted!
If you really have a clear conscience and really cherish your brothers and sisters in your heart, I hope you can also be a visionary!
After siblings break off their relationship, people who are really far-sighted will do 3 things to each other:
1: On the issue of parental feedback and funeral, I will still do my best to help
Some people, once they break off their relationship with their siblings, start the operation that their parents have nothing to do with who they have to do with them.
Even, in the funeral of his parents, not only did he not show up, but he would not even give money......
In fact, this is too narrow-minded!
The contradictions between siblings, and the filial piety of their parents and the handling of funeral matters, have nothing to do with it directly!
As the saying goes: filial piety comes first!
Breaking off relations with siblings terminates the feedback to parents, and the parents' funeral affairs are also absent, which cannot prove their whiteness or the blackness of their siblings, but can only explain:
In my heart, I don't remember the kindness of my parents at all!
Such a person is burying mines on his own path in life.
Just imagine, a person who can even ignore the affairs of his parents can be indifferent, what else can he trust and cherish about any relationship?
The relationship between the siblings was severed, and the filial piety of their parents was all out, and they had money to contribute to funeral matters......
This is a form of "gathering blessings" for oneself, and it is also a last opportunity to cherish the relationship between brothers and sisters!
2: No matter how much you complain about your brothers and sisters, you will still do your best to help each other when you are in trouble after breaking off your relationship
There is no relationship in the world that is unintended!
Therefore, when the image is empty and is still hurt and consumed, people start to break off!
However, compared with other social relationships, the relationship between siblings will always be a break from the ancient relationship.
It is impossible to live in harmony with each other, but it really can't reach the point where you must die of old age!
It's just that the more the relationship is determined, the higher the picture in the expectation, and after the expectation is empty, the severance of diplomatic relations is a temporary emotion!
When siblings can understand each other's emotions when they break off each other's relationship, they will do their best to help each other when they have difficulties in the future!
What is Sibling?
When siblings are together, they can't wait to compete for the unique favor of their parents, and they always want to press each other, but when their parents are old and live independently of each other, they can't see each other's difficulties and hardships!
Brothers and sisters are in trouble, and they don't care about it, it seems to be the cause and effect of their brothers and sisters, but it is also their own face that they lose.
Remember:
Brothers and sisters are rare benefactors in their lives, they know how to be grateful and know how to repay their gratitude, as long as their hearts are in one place with each other, people with foreign surnames do not dare to "bully".
3: I will not bring the resentment between brothers and sisters into each other's offspring to "perpetuate hatred"
The best happiness of a family is for parents, to use their own experiences to tell their children that there can be complaints and misunderstandings between siblings, but to avoid these negative relationship influences as soon as possible.
Instead of telling your children all the time:
One of your elders is the least human, and you must remember this enemy, and obey my commands, and do not associate with him/her, or with his/her descendants......
The severance of relations between siblings is the most common nest reaction. The previous generation has already rebelled in the nest, and it is necessary to let the children continue the family style of rebellion in the nest......
Think about it, how can a child who has been blinded by hatred since he was a child experience the warmth of true love and being loved?
Children who have been instilled with hatred since childhood will only define reality in a narrow self-perception and cannot understand human nature positively!
A truly far-sighted person, no matter how deep the grievances with his brothers and sisters, will do "not pass on the suffering".
When the children of siblings need help, they will give selectively, with a bottom line and principles. Planting the seeds of kindness is the transmission of family style.
Between brothers and sisters, after breaking off the relationship, you can not get close to each other when you don't need to, but when you know that the other person is in trouble, don't stand idly by! One day you will thank yourself for your vision.
Finally, there is a sentence for you who have a bottom line and principles:
But do good deeds, don't ask about the future, the future is long, the foresight has a broad future!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
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Topic discussion: Do you think the relationship between siblings can still be as close as before after breaking off friendship?