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Preface
After watching the TV series when she was young, you will feel that this little girl is lively and cute, sweet in appearance, and not short. It's simply a typical image of a "rich lady". But who would have thought that such a girl who seems to have a way out would have such a bumpy and stumbling path in her later life?
If we hadn't seen some reports by chance, we would never have imagined that her love life was twists and turns, and her marriage experience was simply a lively script. With a wave of my hand, I was taken back to the 90s of the last century, and I saw that Song Jia, who had just debuted, was shining in one film and television drama after another.
She is pure and lovely in "Deep Courtyard", and she is quiet and virtuous in "Falling Mountain Wind", these two dramas made her completely popular. I spent most of the night wondering that such a beautiful girl must have a limitless future.
Song Jia's first marriage
Who would have thought that at the end of the 90s, the 28-year-old Song Jia had just won the "Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actress", and her career was at its peak, but suddenly the news that she was going to divorce suddenly came out! When I heard this explosive news, I was stunned. Later, I learned that her husband Zhang Xuejin at the time was seriously ill, and she chose to abandon this person who had been with her.
You must be very curious, how did Song Jia and Zhang Xuejin meet? It turns out that the two met and fell in love in the 80s of the last century. Song Jia is only 21 years old, but Zhang Xuejin is a full 21 years older than her! Others seem to have too big an age difference, but the two fell in love at first sight and fell in love with each other madly. After less than 3 months of love, the two got married in a flash!
After getting married, Song Jia first gave birth to a daughter, named Zhang Chuchu. In order to take care of her family, she temporarily withdrew from the film and television industry and worked as a housewife for 5 years wholeheartedly. Who would have thought that just when she came back and began to be popular all over the country, she would be separated from her husband?
You must be wondering, why did Song Jia abandon Zhang Xuejin, who was seriously ill? It is said that Zhang Xuejin was suffering from liver disease at that time, and his condition was very serious. Song Jia was afraid that the virus would infect her daughter, and it was really difficult to maintain between the two, so she chose to break up. Although this practice is ruthless, Song Jia herself explained it like this: "For the love between us, divorce is the truest expression." "
In this way, Song Jia took her daughter alone and began a wandering life. For the sake of her daughter's future, she decided to go abroad for further study and took her daughter to the United Kingdom, the United States and other places. It must be hard for you to imagine how Song Jia survived in the face of such a difficult environment.
During her time in the United States, Song Jia first relied on part-time jobs to live a poor life. Don't look at her as a popular actress, she is simply a nobody abroad. However, there is a kind of hard work that dooms her to be so unwilling: she wants to stand up again on her own!
So, Song Jia began to use her spare time to shoot some commercials and small theater dramas to make a living. Do you still remember her image of the good girl in China back then? After going abroad, Song Jia became much more shrewd and capable, not only making money to support her family, but also beginning to expand her horizons and learn investment and financial management.
Song Jia's second marriage
While in the United States, Song Jia met a Chinese director, Yu Min, and the two sparked love. Yu Min was a smash hit at that time, and Song Jia still had connections in China with the resources of that year. As a result, they quickly formed a new shooting team.
In 1996, Song Jia finally swept away poverty with her new force "Sister-in-law" and won the "Feitian Award for Best Actress" in one fell swoop! Looking at her familiar on the screen, I was really surprised and delighted. I didn't expect this old actor to stand up again, it's amazing!
However, the relationship between Song Jia and Yu Min soon became "yellow". Because Yu Min already had a family at the time, after their extramarital affair was exposed, Song Jia's reputation plummeted. I still remember that she solemnly admitted this matter in the interview, and said that she had done something wrong.
Song Jia's third marriage
After breaking up with Yu Min, Song Jia married a wealthy businessman, Cai Cheng. I bet you must be very envious of her! 48-year-old Song Jia drew a successful end to her life at this time and gave birth to a son named Zhang Shuaishuai.
It's just that the good times didn't last long, and in 2015, Cai Cheng derailed again. Watching a news report that Song Jia "gave birth at an advanced age and was divorced by a rich man", I really feel sorry for her. She changed her husband three times, but in the end she was still alone, and she could only support a family on her own.
The second and third marriages are all "yellow", Song Jia must also be heartbroken, right? But she is such a stubborn woman, she actually married a wealthy Belgian businessman Stephen at the age of 55.
Stephen: Bet on the last one
Although she has experienced three failed marriages, Song Jia has obviously not lost faith in love. At the age of 55, she suddenly made public the news of her marriage to a wealthy Belgian businessman boyfriend Stephen, which really caused an uproar in the outside world!
I looked through those reports at the time, and muttered in my heart: How many years has this been, why hasn't Song Jia given up, and she still wants to marry at the age of 55? But soon, I was relieved. After all, Song Jia herself said: "Love is a kind of dubo, and I haven't finished it yet." "Looks like she's determined to make a big bet on this!
I don't know what you thought at the time? Anyway, I think Song Jia's decision can be regarded as "following the customs". After all, she is now living a life abroad, and it is normal to find a foreigner boyfriend. It is said that Stephen runs a clothing company, and his family has a small surplus, which can give Song Jia, a woman who is over half a hundred years old, a stable living environment.
So, as soon as I see Song Jia and his wife posting happiness on some social media, I am sincerely happy for her. After all, after suffering so much, she finally found a home that could last for a long time.
It's just that although Song Baobao's emotional experience has come to an end, her former glorious years as an actor will never be repeated!
Daughter's difficulty in following the "glorious chapter"
As a mother, Song Jia's expectations for her daughter Zhang Chuchu must be huge. After all, she spent too much effort to give her daughter the opportunity to receive a good education abroad. Once upon a time, she also wanted Zhang Chuchu to inherit her "acting gene" and start her "brilliant chapter" in the film and television industry.
It's a pity, fate is always ironic! Although Zhang Chuchu once entered the entertainment industry and made a few movies, he couldn't catch up with his mother's achievements back then. Seeing her daughter's mediocre career, how painful should Song Jia be in her heart?
But then again, it's no wonder that Zhang Chuchu can't get ahead like his mother. After all, she grew up in a foreign country since she was a child, and her living environment is destined to be different from her peers in China. Coupled with the influence of the family environment, it is inevitable that her psychological state will be affected by some impact, and her pursuit of career will not be so persistent.
Song Jia, who is now over sixty years old, is alone and wandering in a foreign country. Seeing that she is now living a prosperous and comfortable old age, I am sincerely happy for her.
But I also hope that she can be relieved as soon as possible and live the life she wants, instead of being stumped by the shadow of the past. After all, everyone was young, and everyone's dreams were out of reach. As long as you live in the moment and cherish everything around you, it is enough.