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Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.
I signed up for a group to travel for two weeks, I didn't bring a spare phone, just turned on the phone, and saw more than a dozen missed calls from my son-in-law, as well as all kinds of messages he sent in the family group.
I didn't reply, my son-in-law was in such a hurry to find me, not because he was worried about my safety, but because he was anxious to let me pay for a house.
And this time I went on a trip, and I didn't take a spare phone just to avoid my son-in-law's unreasonable request!
It's really whimsical to want to take my demolition money and support his parents.
01
I am a single mother, and it is not easy to raise my daughter alone.
My husband and I are high school classmates, I am in junior college, and my husband is a top student who was admitted to a key undergraduate university.
After graduating, I joined the finance office of a company and worked as an accountant.
And her husband is an engineer who has entered a state-owned enterprise and has a particularly good welfare package.
Twenty years ago, our wages were considered high incomes for the working class.
But as fate would have it, after 5 years of my husband's marriage with me, he was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer.
Such bad news completely shattered our little family.
Generally, any disease, stained with the word "cancer", is basically a medicine stone without a cure.
However, my daughter is just 3 years old and has reached the age of kindergarten.
I knew that my husband didn't want to leave us, but he still failed to fight cancer, and it was only 2 years from diagnosis to death.
When the mother-in-law learned about it, she was very sad, and no one could comfort this kind of pain that a white-haired person sent to a black-haired person.
After my husband's funeral, my mother-in-law called me to her house to pick up my things.
What I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law gave me two house books and a passbook.
"These are the things I gave you for Ah Feng, two houses, one is the house you live in now, and the other is this old courtyard. There is 100,000 yuan in this passbook, which is my support for my granddaughter. ”
"Mom, I can't take this money. "Mother-in-law's approach, let me instantly tears can't stop falling, mother-in-law is very good to our family, since I married in, really treat me like a daughter, every time I go to my mother-in-law's house for dinner, I will call in advance to ask what I want to eat.
Especially when I gave birth to a baby, my mother-in-law served me during confinement and did her best.
"Take it, I treat you like my own daughter, Ah Feng is gone, you are my daughter. ”
I cried and nodded, accepting the property my mother-in-law had given me.
After my husband passed away, I did not remarry, firstly because I had a deep relationship with my husband, and secondly, because my daughter was too young, and I was not worried about taking her to remarry.
In a flash, more than 20 years have passed, and I have long been used to this kind of life.
02
Compared with many single mothers, it is not particularly difficult for me to raise my daughter, although raising a child always has to worry, but the money taken out by my mother-in-law, as well as my salary, is enough to give my daughter better material conditions.
My daughter knows that she doesn't have a father, and she also knows that it is not easy for me, and she is always a little more sensible than her peers.
Since I was a child, I haven't worried about my daughter's studies, and her grades have always been very good.
In the third year of high school, it was a time when we were both very anxious, my daughter went to school, I drove her to pick her up every day, and I was afraid that she would not eat well in the school cafeteria, so I had to send her a meal at noon.
Fortunately, my daughter was very competitive and was admitted to a key university, and she successfully secured her graduate school.
When I was in graduate school, my daughter and I discussed and applied for the local power grid exam.
But I didn't expect my daughter's studies and career to be so smooth, but her marriage was full of twists and turns.
After her daughter has a stable job, she is almost 25 years old, she is a big girl, and it is time to start marriage.
But today's young people have their own ideas, and I have mentioned the matter of finding a partner a few times, but my daughter has diverted the topic.
I don't think my daughter wants to say it, so I just don't care.
The money I saved for my daughter plus a few properties, my daughter is not extravagant and wasteful, and she has a job, which is enough for her to live for the rest of her life.
After I figured it out, I wasn't so anxious anymore.
As a result, within a few months, my daughter suddenly told me that she was in love, and the other party's family conditions were not very good, so she never dared to tell me.
When I found out, I saw the worried look on my daughter's face, and I knew that she really liked that boy.
In order not to embarrass my daughter, I hurriedly said: "As long as you like it yourself, it is good for you, and my mother doesn't particularly value economic conditions, but as a boy, does he have to be motivated and have a stable job?"
"Mom, I know that you are the best for me, he has a job, he works in a bank, his salary depends on his performance, sometimes he will be higher than me, he is very smart, you will like him when you see him. The daughter said happily.
I nodded and said, "Take him home one day and let Mom take a good look." ”
The first time I met my son-in-law Feng Zheng was during the Mid-Autumn Festival.
My daughter told me that Feng Zheng wanted to come to the house, I thought about it and talked about it for more than half a year, it's time to meet, if the young man is not bad, he should almost talk about engagement and marriage, if people are not good, let my daughter break up as soon as possible, and I can't delay it forever.
I made a table of dishes that day, and I specially asked my daughter what Feng Zheng had to avoid and what ingredients he liked to eat.
Boys who work in banks, especially those who do business, it is impossible to have a city government in their hearts, my first impression of Feng Zheng: there is a city government, smart, and his mouth is really coaxing people to death.
I'm actually a little dissatisfied, my daughter is very simple under my care, because my husband left early, my daughter is actually very eager for father's love, and my husband and I are very affectionate, which causes my daughter's expectations for love are particularly high.
However, looking at Feng Zheng's behavior towards his daughter, he is indeed very intimate, the shrimp is peeled for his daughter, and the dishes that his daughter likes are always in the bowl.
For a while, I couldn't make up my mind, if Feng Zheng was sincere to his daughter, then he would have a city government and be smart, and his mouth would say, this is an advantage, and Feng Zheng's career will definitely do well in the future.
So I didn't stop the development of my daughter and Feng Zheng, people still have to get along slowly to know whether it is suitable or not.
Time flies, the daughter has been in love for more than a year, and it is indeed time to get married, Feng Zheng's family also has this intention, so the parents of both sides met.
Feng Zheng's family is very ordinary, with three brothers, and he is the youngest.
Both parents are farmers, and they usually make a living by selling vegetables at a stall.
Selling vegetables is actually quite profitable, but the three boys in their family, studying, marrying a wife and having children, are all a lot of expenses, and the money earned from selling vegetables alone is not enough.
And when it came to Feng Zheng, the family's money had already been spent by the two elder brothers marrying their daughters-in-law, and their parents didn't have much money in their hands.
Feng Zheng's mother knew the situation in her own family, and said to me with a smile: "In-laws, you look at my three sons, count my youngest son as the most capable, what about me, there is no shortage of sons to support, after these two children get married, my youngest son will be raised for you, and you will have more precious sons in the future." ”
I knew this was polite words, but I didn't stretch out my hand to hit the smiling person, I replied: "After the two children get married, I will definitely treat Xiao Zheng as my own son, I won't say much about this face-to-face conversation, for the situation of your family, I have told me, I don't embarrass your family, just give a bride price of 88,000." ”
As soon as I mentioned the bride price, Feng Zheng's mother's face changed, 88,000 yuan was barely enough for them, but Feng Zheng's mother's appearance was like a white wolf with empty gloves at first glance.
The scene became embarrassing for a while, and my daughter's face became very bad, and she muttered next to me: "Mom, you speak in the same tone as selling your daughter, and you don't know the situation in Feng Zheng's family." ”
This stupid daughter, after getting married, she must not be pinched to death by her mother-in-law.
I opened my mouth again and said: "You also know that our bride price is basically this, only high and not less, and the conditions of our family Feng Zheng believe that he has also told you, I know that Feng Zheng can't afford to buy a house, but I have an empty house in my hand, which is used as a wedding house for Nannan, and the two of them live there when they get married." ”
When Feng Zheng's mother heard that she was going to marry the house, she instantly changed her attitude and hurriedly said: "Oh, Xiao Zheng is really lucky to find a wife like Nannan." ”
The meal finally finalized the 88,000 bride price for her daughter's marriage, 30,000 yuan for Sanjin, and 10,000 yuan for changing her mouth.
With this one daughter, of course I want to marry her off in style, but Feng Zheng's mother wants to hold a banquet in the village, which is completely unacceptable to me.
I mentioned a few words to Feng Zheng privately, asking him not to let my daughter know, Feng Zheng is also a good person, of course he doesn't want the wedding to be held in the village, he has so many colleagues and friends in the bank.
But Feng Zheng doesn't have much savings in his hand, and his family doesn't have much money, if he borrows money, Feng Zheng still has to pay it back, thinking about it, I took out tens of thousands of yuan and held a wedding for my daughter.
03
After getting married, her daughter and Feng Zheng were busy with their careers and did not have children.
But the son-in-law's attitude towards his daughter has changed a lot since he got married.
The son-in-law often goes out to socialize, which is because of the nature of his work, we can't say anything, but he doesn't do housework at all, and his daughter is basically the same as a nanny at home, going home from work every day and doing everything, but sometimes the daughter is busy with work and will not have time to clean, at this time, the son-in-law will find fault with his daughter's problems, saying that she is sloppy and ignorant.
But she will give a slap in the face, give a piece of candy, and coax her daughter to be a "nanny" willingly, but after a long time, she will still complain to me.
When I heard this, I felt sorry for my daughter, but I would not go to my son-in-law's house to clean, so I could only pay for my daughter's house to find a part-time job and clean twice a week.
After more than a year of marriage, my daughter's stomach didn't move, so I asked, and my daughter said that Feng Zheng didn't want children, but wanted Dink.
I can't agree with this at all, without children, my daughter will have no support when I leave, but I can't do anything about children.
This matter has been deadlocked until last year, when I was informed that the old house given by my mother-in-law was demolished, and the demolition money was compensated 3 million.
I was very happy to hear it, and I shared the good news directly with my daughter, but after my son-in-law saw it, he came to the door the next day and proposed to change the house.
The house where my daughter and son-in-law live now is a two-bedroom apartment, but the location is very good, and it is still a school district house.
I heard this of course refused, and if they weren't Dink, had children, and the house wasn't enough to live in, I might have agreed to change houses. But now that the two of them don't want children, what are they doing when they buy a house, it might as well be used to improve the happiness index of life.
Moreover, in the past few years, my son-in-law has asked my daughter for money as soon as he has no money, and their family has to pay for big and small things, just saying that his eldest brother and second brother have two children who are full moon, Feng Zheng gave 20,000 yuan alone.
And Feng Zheng wanted to buy a good car, but he didn't work hard, so he asked my daughter to ask me for a car, and just took out 300,000 yuan to buy a car for my daughter, so he began to ask for a house again.
If this house is changed, Feng Zheng's name will definitely be added, and with Feng Zheng's obedience to his mother's words, he will definitely take his mother to live, and it will definitely be my daughter who will be wronged at that time.
I was afraid that my daughter would come over and cry, so I quickly signed up for a tour group and went on a tour with the group.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I got home and turned on the backup machine, I saw my son-in-law's bombardment, and threatened that if I didn't buy a house, my daughter's life would not be easy in the future!
I was angry and called directly and asked my daughter to drive home, and if I really didn't want to live a good life, I would get a divorce!
The storyline of this article is fictional, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please watch it rationally!