Hold you to the sky first, and then ask for your life, "killing" is the most high-end technique in interpersonal relationships, using praise to make the other party let down their guard, and in the future, as long as a light touch can become a fatal blow. Even if you haven't encountered it in person, you have seen it in the TV series, and people who can always easily handle others in the crowd know how to use the "killing technique" to make moves.
And we don't hurt people, we just have to practice our wrists, and sometimes the management of feelings requires a little scheming to be happy.
Step1.
Treat him as a child, and praise him fancy for a little thing
You may be wondering, what if a man really doesn't have much to praise?
Learn to look at everything with a magnifying glass, treat him like a child who is still learning to walk and talk, and give a fancy compliment when he does a little thing, such as: "It's amazing to be able to park the car at one time!" and "One person can take all the packages, how can he be so strong". A man who is like a child will not think you are too pompous, but will be praised by you, and the sense of accomplishment will be overwhelming.
Step2.
Start with small things and make him feel special
First use praise to make a man like to get along with you, and then let him know that in your eyes, there is no other man who can compare to him.
Everyone loves the taste of love, starting from the more ordinary little things the better, he will think that he can make you die by doing a little thing, so occasionally do a little to make you love yourself more, but who knows that this kind of vanity sense of achievement is like pouring soup, for a long time he will do more and more for you, unable to extricate himself, which is actually used by men and women.
For example, when he is eating, he takes your chopsticks and facial paper, and then he should say, "There are not many boys who can help girls carry things, you are very caring, and it is rare to meet boys who pay so much attention to details, you are so special." 」
It is not very effective to praise him professionally, because he may be really good in the industry, and the well-known "special" is not special.
Step3.
Attack where your personality is opposite and make him feel like you understand him
No matter how the times change, for thousands of years, the most irresistible thing for men is "only you understand him", the simplest technique is to talk about "hidden character" from "superficial character", and guess the opposite, almost 90% of them will win.
If he is usually giggling and generous outside, guess that he will be sad alone in the dead of night, if he is calm and low-key, guess that he actually has a crazy side, and if he is famous as a prodigal son, guess that he was actually broken by his ex.
At this time, if he was very surprised, and he said, "How do you know?" at this time, he would think that you were a natural pair, otherwise how could you see through him so easily?
It's almost a matter of course when you get to this point, waiting for him to die for you.