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As the child grows up, the parents are gradually entering the ranks of old age, ready to withdraw from the child's life and enjoy the old age.
This stage seems to be a new beginning in the life of parents, but in fact, there are also "tasks" in them.
My brother-in-law retired last year, and when I was chatting with him, I said, "You two finally don't have to go to work, you and your aunt can play as much as you want, and you can have as much fun as you want, don't worry about it anymore." ”
But my uncle's words made me understand that the love of my parents is always there.
"Although we are retired, we still have a lot of responsibilities to do, and we still have to help our daughter. You see, we have to take care of our bodies, we can't go wherever we want, our legs and feet are not good, or we should honestly wander around the surrounding parks to nourish our bodies. We are in good health, in fact, we are making money, and our daughter can also worry about taking good care of her home and doing her work. ”
After the age of 60, I realized that no matter how much I saved, I had to help my children "4 big favors", and I would be happier in my old age
Over 60 years old, life has gone more than half of the way, what should be done should be busy and what should be worked hard have been done, and the rest of the time will begin to enjoy the warmth of the family and experience the beautiful moments.
Regardless of whether you have savings or not, when your parents are old, they should do these things well, not only to help themselves, but also to help their children
● "Investment" in health
The body is the capital of the "revolution", and a good body is the key factor for a happy life, so parents with real foresight will not be stingy with all their investments in health.
The "investment" in health is not to buy a lot of health products and take a lot of medicines, but to pay attention to the health of the diet in life, as well as the mental and physical health.
Parents can engage in proper fitness, light exercise, participation in senior activities, and more.
Not only do you have a healthy body, but you also have a healthy mindset.
Being the spokesperson of the family's "birthday star" can not only stay away from illness, but also reduce the worries of children, and seeing the physical and mental health of parents is often the most gratifying thing for children.
●Necessary help for daily life.
After retirement, although parents have more time and energy to do their own things, if their children really need help, parents can contribute a little time and do some small things within their ability, which can not only increase the joy of their own lives, but also make their children a little easier.
Care for the family and the lives of children, appropriately help take care of grandchildren, give them warmth and love, and reduce the burden of children. When the child is happy, the whole family is happy;
Parents create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for their children, so that their children can feel the love and care of their families, and life will be better and better.
● Share your own life experience and wisdom.
After retirement, parents have a wealth of life experience and knowledge, which play an important role in the growth and career development of their children.
You can share your experiences and lessons with your children and give them valuable advice and guidance.
Children can be taught practical life skills and vocational skills to help them better adapt to changes and developments in society.
In this way, parents are able to pass on to their children a precious treasure that will enable them to face life and work more confidently and independently.
●Respect and support children's life choices and decisions.
After retirement, parents should realize that their children are adults and have their own ideas and decision-making abilities.
Children's choices and decisions should be respected, and they should be given enough freedom and space to develop and realize their dreams.
Parents can listen to their children's ideas, maintain good communication and interaction with their children, support their decision-making and give them necessary help and guidance.
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No matter how old you are, you will always be a child in the eyes of your parents. After retirement, although parents have rich life experience, they are actually a "child", parents have worked hard for their children all their lives, children should also be considerate of their parents, filial piety to their parents, coax their parents, and make them happy.
As for parents, they should also take care of their bodies, exercise appropriately, and enjoy the happiness of their children and grandchildren around their knees. It is the greatest blessing for a family to be able to live a peaceful, happy and happy life.
Parents, are you planning for your future retirement?
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