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Yu Hua once said: "When we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle. ”
This sentence speaks the truth of life.
If you are strong, he will be weak, if you are weak, he will be strong, and when facing life, you will occasionally be a person who is not easy to mess with, and he will become obedient under your plan.
People who are really hard to mess with have these characteristics, and I hope you have them too.
01: Silent, the bottom line is untouchable
Victor Hugo once said: But silence is the strongest force.
Many times, taciturn people are not easy to bully, on the contrary, they have power in their hearts, they have prejudices in their actions, their bottom line is very clear, and they do not allow others to pry any of it.
The reason for their silence is that they have long seen the facts and do not want to get involved in irrelevant struggles, and they are confident that they can quietly grasp the movements of the world even if they do not say a word.
When you are often bullied in social relationships, then you must first reflect on yourself, whether you say too much, do too much, and leave a handle on others.
It's better to be a taciturn person once in a while, so that others can't guess and see through, and once they have the intention to provoke, they will immediately take out their weapons to fight back, and believe that over time, no one will dare to bully you.
02: Confused in small things, shrewd in big things
Some people in life are really confused, they confuse right and wrong, truth and falsehood remain the same, and they are often bullied.
There are also people who are fake, they just don't want to get involved in too many struggles, but it doesn't mean that they don't have a clear view of right and wrong, and at critical moments, they tend to make the right decisions, and this kind of talent is really powerful.
Aunt Zhang's relatives in the neighborhood are insatiable, and every time they come to Aunt Zhang's house, they often stop by Aunt Zhang's house with a towel, a few fruits, etc., and Aunt Zhang always turns a blind eye to this.
If there is an unpleasant relationship between relatives because of these small things, she may need to spend more effort to deal with the follow-up problems.
It wasn't until later that her relatives stole the family's bank card and house book, and at that time Aunt Zhang knew that she couldn't bear it anymore, so she posted all the behaviors of her relatives in the family group and took the initiative to cut off relations with them.
At that time, the relatives knew that Aunt Zhang was not a person to be messed with, and they really kicked the stone.
People who are not easy to mess with are just let go of small things, and big things are never ignored, but anything that touches their bottom line interests cannot be lightly exposed.
We also have to be wise people, to be confused in small things in order not to cause trouble, and to be clear in big things in order to protect ourselves.
Don't use your kindness to hand knives to others, then it will be you who will be hurt.
03: Honest with a sharp edge, can bow his head, and don't let go of big things
Burbonie once said, "Kindness is precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, it is weakness." ”
You can be kind in interpersonal communication, but don't forget the bottom line, only clear principles and, then your occasional kindness can be remembered by others, otherwise they will only think that you are a soft persimmon and take it at will.
In the small things that don't matter, you can occasionally bow your head and maintain a harmonious environment, but in the big things, you must not give in and take back the rights that belong to you.
This world is to praise the high and step on the low, watch people cook, you have a strong attitude, and many people will retreat.
Be a budding person who is not manipulated by others, and others will truly respect you.
People who are not easy to mess with have the above three characteristics, in summary, they have a clear bottom line and principles, they can be gentle and kind, but they will never let others hurt themselves.
I hope that we will do the same, please ourselves from now on, give up pleasing others, live for a better self, and life will be wide.
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