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Most men want to marry a beautiful and delicate wife, just like women want to marry a handsome and golden man.
It's an instinctive human need, and if there's a better one, why should we settle for the next best?
But to be clear, appearance is only a part of a person, not the whole thing, more important than appearance is the connotation, quality and feelings of a person.
When making friends, we may dislike other people's appearances, but when we become husband and wife, we will understand that there is something more important than appearances, that is, the true love that never leaves each other.
In a family, if a woman doesn't dress up every day and looks plain all day long, the man must not dislike your wife, because this is the most precious thing for you.
01: If you don't dress up, it means that she is paying for this family
Every woman loves beauty, and before getting married, your wife may also dress up every day and be glamorous.
Why did she give up dressing up after getting married?
It's nothing more than because she is paying for this family.
Actor Du Jiang once said in an interview that his wife Huo Siyan was really sloppy and unkempt when she had just given birth, and she walked around in a loose T-shirt at home every day, and for a while he also showed a disgusted expression.
But soon, he immediately adjusted himself, because he knew that it was impossible for an originally glamorous female star like his wife to be ugly, and the reason why she became like this was only because she was too tired during that time and had no time to dress up.
Even female celebrities are like this, and ordinary people are no exception.
The chicken feathers in the family, the daily trivial things in life, especially the miscellaneous things after giving birth, can almost crush a family, and a woman often forgets to dress up in it, and instead shows a tired look on her face.
If a man only sees his wife's unkempt appearance, but does not pay attention to the reasons behind her, and sees the sadness on her face, then you are also unqualified.
It is often said that loving others is like raising flowers.
A bad family will make the wife have no time to dress up, and a good family will only make the wife like a flower, and she will always have the heart to dress up.
In the family, men and women share housework, men often bring babies, men understand their wives' feelings, and often go out on dates with their wives, so how can wives not bother to dress themselves?
To put it bluntly, when a woman gives up on herself, it is nothing more than because she is disappointed in the man around her.
The most important thing you should do at this time is not to complain about your wife, but to love her well.
It is not easy for every woman, they have completed the transformation of their identity, and they have to endure the pressure of the family, without the company and care of men, all their efforts are meaningless.
Good love should make a woman more and more beautiful, if she doesn't, then you have to reflect on yourself and work harder.
Let each other grow together in this love and become better and better, which is the true meaning of love.
02: The wife is focused on her career and has no energy to dress up
In today's era of looking at faces, women's love of dressing up is indeed an advantage, if they dress up beautifully, they will be amazed on any occasion, and men will also feel face.
But this kind of face is temporary, when others know that your wife is good for nothing and has achieved nothing, they will still cast a contemptuous gaze, and even think that your wife can only dress up and has no connotation.
At the end of the day, a good appearance is a plus for strength, and if there is no strength, appearance becomes the original sin.
Your wife is no longer dressed at home, often because they are focusing on the fundamentals of their career. Inability to take care of appearances.
It is also because they have already seen the reality clearly and know that more important than appearance is to improve their competitiveness.
In a long life, men and women go hand in hand, both sides are equal in thought, and they cherish each other, which is more important than appearance.
Beautiful skins will be tired of looking, and interesting souls make life shine.
If you have such a wife, please cherish her, she is a blessing for your life.
If your wife is sloppy and doesn't like to dress up, please don't blame her, she either pays too much for the family or is working hard for her career, each of which shows that she is positive and working hard to live, which is an example for us to learn.
Love your wife well, just like raising flowers, take care of her delicate, beautiful and optimistic, I believe that she will give back to you in the future is a warm family atmosphere and a bright future.
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