On April 22, Internet celebrity Rose's pregnancy has come to an end, and there are only 30 days left before the big day of welcoming a new life. But around the gender of the baby in her belly, the heated discussion has not decreased.
In particular, Rose's own extremely dissatisfied comments about "giving birth to a daughter", coupled with her husband Wu Jianyun's decision not to let her mother-in-law come to China to take care of the confinement child, have made the discussion on social media more intense.
In the face of all kinds of speculation and comments from netizens, Rose showed an attitude of preferring to have a boy, and she repeatedly emphasized that "you don't have to have a daughter".
This resolute attitude begs the question: in today's society where the concept of gender equality is becoming more and more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, why is Rose so obsessed with wanting to have a boy?
There could be several reasons for this. On the one hand, in some regions and families, traditional patriarchal ideas are still influential, and it is not known if Rose has also been influenced by this notion and has special expectations for having a son.
On the other hand, in modern society, the practical considerations of boys in terms of financial support and inheritance may also cast a shadow on Rose's heart.
Whatever the reason, her attitude has undoubtedly touched a sensitive nerve in the public's perception of gender equality and childbearing. Let's talk about Wu Jianyun's refusal to let his mother-in-law come to China to help take care of the confinement child, this decision not only exacerbated the differences between the husband and wife.
It has also sparked a lot of speculation about the relationship within their families. Is it because you don't agree with your mother-in-law's parenting philosophy, or are you worried that the arrival of your mother-in-law will make the controversy over the gender of the baby in the family more intense?
A variety of possibilities complicate this decision. The Rose couple's childbirth turmoil is like a mirror that reflects the gender bias that still exists in society and the family conflicts caused by fertility problems.
This reminds us that even behind the glamorous life of Internet celebrities, the concept of gender equality still needs to be deeply popularized, and the communication and understanding of family members about the concept of fertility need to be strengthened.
At the same time, excessive public attention and judgment on the family life of others may also bring more pressure and distress to the person concerned. Although Rose herself expressed strong dissatisfaction with the comments of the outside world about "hoping to have a daughter".
She often declares in public that she is not particularly looking forward to having a daughter. This attitude raises questions about why she is so obsessed with having a man. In the current social environment where gender equality is increasingly valued, Rose's bias is particularly prominent.
Her resistance to the comments about having a daughter can come from a variety of factors. One is that in some regions and families, the traditional patriarchal attitudes that still exist may have influenced her and made her have special expectations for having a boy.
Second, some realistic expectations of modern society for boys, such as financial support or inheritance, may also have influenced her thinking. Taken together, her attitude has touched a sensitive public nerve about gender equality and reproductive choices.
The couple's story has sparked attention and discussion on multiple issues such as reproductive choices, gender perceptions, and family relationships. So, what do you think of Rose's dissatisfaction with her daughter's comments and Wu Jianyun's decision to refuse her mother-in-law's entry?
While pursuing gender equality, how should we rationally look at individual fertility preferences? While respecting family privacy, how should society guide the public to rationally discuss such topics? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss these issues together.