There is such a joke about a woman in the Northeast on the Internet - she is from the Northeast without drinking, and the Northeast is hers after drinking.
Although this sentence is a joke, it is not completely unreasonable.
Not long ago, Xiao Song Jia, an actress from the Northeast, confessed to the actresses after drinking. This operation also made netizens more aware that Xiao Song Jia's character is actually very real and bold.
And such a beautiful and lovely woman is still in the boudoir at the age of 44.
This can't help but make people curious, what kind of love concept does Xiao Song Jia have in her heart, and what kind of emotional experience does she have?
It is said that the original family will affect a person's life, which is true, at least for Xiao Song Jia.
In 1980, Xiao Song Jia was born in an ordinary and happy family in Harbin.
She has been lively and active since she was a child, and she is as naughty as a boy. When he was 8 years old, Xiao Song Jia met the Yueqin player Feng Shaoxian by chance.
Unexpectedly, this teacher was very fond of Xiao Song Jia, and because Song's mother had the experience of learning musical instruments, so under her instruction, Xiao Song Jia began her career of learning the national musical instrument liuqin.
When she first came into contact with Liuqin, Xiao Song Jia was very resistant. The reason is also very simple, practicing the piano is very boring, and it will delay the time of playing.
So she thought of a thousand ways to escape this drudgery, and in the end, the mother and daughter got angry and broke the piano, and Xiao Song Jia looked forward to it.
But God didn't let her get her wish, Song's mother didn't say a word when she saw that the piano was broken, and bought a new one the next day, and Xiao Song Jia was completely out of luck, so she had to continue practicing.
Fortunately, this resistance ended after Xiao Song Jia played the complete piece for the first time.
After that, she practiced Liuqin and spent the entire school years, and when she was in high school, Xiao Song Jia had left home and came to study alone in the High School Attached to Shenyang Conservatory of Music.
For a girl who grew up under the care of her parents, the taste of leaving home is difficult. Once, the three girls in their dormitory complained to each other about homesickness, and the last few of them actually cried.
In order to make a phone call home, they climbed over the wall. When Xiao Song Jia spoke into the phone and said I want to go home, the father on the other side of the phone did not persuade his daughter to be patient, but directly told her how to buy a ticket.
That time, Xiao Song Jia went home for two or three days regardless of it, and when she returned to school again, she was like she was resurrected with full blood.
In 1999, Xiao Song Jia went to a vocal teacher to take lessons, but she didn't expect the appearance of a person to completely change her life.
The person who changed the fate of Xiao Song Jia was actor Fan Zhibo, who was also at the vocal teacher's house at the time.
The two girls chatted idlely, Fan Zhibo looked at the young and beautiful little Song Jia and said casually, I think you can go to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
At that time, Xiao Song Jia didn't know anything about this academy, she even thought it was a place to learn singing, and under Fan Zhibo's explanation, Xiao Song Jia figured out the situation.
However, it was such a casual conversation that made Xiao Song Jia's heart become restless.
When she learned that there was an exam center in Harbin, she went to take the exam in a hurry, and that time Xiao Song Jia used eighteen skills, poetry recitation, pop songs, and radio gymnastics all showed up.
But to tell the truth, despite working so hard in the exam, Xiao Song Jia didn't have a bottom in her heart, until she performed a skit with music in the third test and moved herself to cry, and then she felt that acting was a bit interesting.
And Xiao Song Jia's performance not only moved herself, but also moved the teacher, and she was successfully admitted to the play.
In the four years of college, Xiao Song Jia took classes seriously and occasionally filmed. For a girl in her twenties, love seems to be an indispensable content.
Although Xiao Song Jia rarely talks about her love experience, some clues can also be found in some early reports.
When Song Jia was a college student, she was selected by a director in 2003 because of her excellent appearance and image, and starred in the role of "Fang Xiaoxuan" in the TV series "Hibiscus Out of the Water".
During the filming of the crew, the new actor Song Jia not only devoted herself to acting, but also faced the double pressure of love and career at the same time. After getting along for a long time, she had a subtle emotional entanglement with the actor Chen Long in the same crew, maintaining a relationship of implicit affection.
When filming rival scenes, Chen Long will patiently guide her, and the crew will accompany her to eat together after finishing work, everyone present silently understands the relationship between Song Jia and Chen Long, and after a long time, they are unabashedly together, and this sweet relationship has also attracted the envy of everyone.
Just when everyone thought they would have a happy ending, the relationship between them seemed to have come to an end. Some people say that college graduation season is often referred to as breakup season, and when other couples break up because of their future, Song Jia and Chen Long are no exception.
After graduation, Song Jia plans to go to Beijing to develop his own career, while as a pure Shanghainese, Chen Long hopes to stay in his hometown and continue to develop. Both hoped that the other would follow their ideas, and neither side would make concessions, and in the end they had no choice but to part ways.
After starting to develop in Beijing, Song Jia initially played some small roles that were not very important, but she did not let up because of this, instead, she took every rare opportunity more seriously.
Because of her perseverance, until 2006, a director discovered her and invited her to play the second female role "Liang Xiaoxia" in the movie "Curiosity Kills the Cat", and thus entered the showbiz.
For Song Jia, the news was like an unexpected surprise falling from the sky. In order to live up to the director's expectations of her, as long as she is in the crew, she will go all out and take every scene seriously.
In order to achieve the most satisfactory effect, Song Jia repeatedly asked Hu Jun to splash water on her body, which was a fragment requirement in the process of filming.
In the end, Song Jia chose the photo she was most satisfied with, and the two took it 20 times. The old actors praised her for being so serious and dedicated.
The hard work will eventually pay off, and the film quickly became a sensation upon its release, winning the love of many audiences. What's more worth mentioning is that Song Jia was successfully shortlisted for the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 26th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards with this work.
Of course, there are two sides to everything, and when people are praising and praising her, there are also some negative remarks.
Some people feel that the reason why Song Jia became popular in this drama is because she has a charming and sexy image, and she ignores the discussions of the outside world and still insists on being herself.
In her opinion, as an actor, the most important thing is acting, not the question of dressing that everyone discusses.
With "Curiosity Kills the Cat" becoming her stepping stone to enter the showbiz, Song Jia officially started her acting career, and her popularity is increasing day by day, and the scandals related to it have also followed.
In 2007, rumors about Song Jia's involvement in Zhang Li's marriage spread overwhelmingly, and netizens began to discuss this matter. Just when the rumors were heating up, the party Song Jia stood up and responded.
She didn't waste time explaining too much, she just responded with two simple words in a bold manner: "Nonsense!"
At first, netizens felt that her firm stance meant that she really had nothing to do with the person, and many fans also tried to clarify the matter.
It didn't take long for a dramatic scene to take place. I saw that when Song Jia was still clarifying domineeringly, he was photographed drinking with the gossip man Zhang Li by the relevant marketing account, and the two behaved very intimately. For a while, the relationship between the two was confirmed.
Soon after, Zhang Li's wife filed for divorce from him, so the whole network began to accuse Song Jia of being a "third party" to destroy the marriage.
However, in the face of everyone's abuse, Song Jia didn't care, openly interacted with Zhang Li in various ways, and was photographed with the news that the two were living together.
Song Jia thinks that she is the most compatible person with Zhang Li and can really go to the end with him, however, she is immersed in the beauty of love but ignores the fact that the reason why Zhang Li can be with her regardless of his family shows that he is not a fuel-efficient lamp.
When he met Song Jia, Zhang Li had already had 5 marriages.
Legend has it that since ancient times, there have been many talented people, and this sentence is indeed not an exaggeration to apply to Zhang Li. Although he is known as a legend in the film industry and has created many wonderful works, he can also be said to be quite stylish in his emotional life.
He pursues the belief of "seeing one and loving one", and has had feelings for every actress he has filmed.
Therefore, when he met Song Jia, who was fair-skinned and beautiful-looking, on the set, he fell directly into uncontrollable love, and at the same time, Song Jia, as a person full of love for the strong, developed feelings for Zhang Li during the filming.
Her full love for him made her even ignore the reality that Zhang Li already had a family, and as time went by, the two successfully came together by taking the opportunity of filming.
Zhang Li cared for Song Jia in every way and always accommodated her, but as time went by, he slowly became bored with Song Jia in front of him, until the fifth year of the relationship, Zhang Li asked Song Jia to break up.
After experiencing emotional failure, Song Jia seemed to have awakened, and she poured all her energy into her career, proving to people once again that she was born to be a master in this field.
In 2015, Song Jia was selected as a judge of the 21st Magnolia Awards TV Festival, and the importance of this honor is believed to be deeply understood by me.
A year after the cooperation film "Lu Yao Zhi Ma Li", Song Jia successfully appeared on the podium of the 31st Chinese Film Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress with this film, cooperated with Bao Bell and Zhu Yawen, and when her career reached its peak, her scandal came out again.
The media exposed the picture of Song Jia walking hand in hand with a man 7 years older than her, and this man is the well-known "musical genius" Huang Shaofeng. In the photo, the two are snuggling up to each other, like a couple who have been married for many years.
From 2017 to 2022, Xiao Song Jia and Huang Shaofeng's relationship has been rumored for 5 years, and as for why they don't get married, Xiao Song Jia also has her own ideas.
She confessed in an interview that I don't think marriage is the only way to prove love.
In fact, at the moment, many people have the same idea as Xiao Song Jia, they think that as long as both parties have the same cognition, they don't have to prove anything by entering marriage.
Everyone has the right to choose how to live their lives, and only falling in love and not getting married is also a different attitude to life.
Whether you go to the city or not, it is a blessing to have someone by your side when you need it.
Song Jia posted a set of photos on April 11, 2024, in which she was holding a dog, and the Weibo caption read: I successfully met with a netizen's puppy.
She showed charming beauty in the photo, and her sweet smile instantly attracted enthusiastic comments from fans.
My sister and puppy are very cute! they are a perfect match, and they can tie for the world's first cuteness award.
The dog is so cute, I want to take it home. My sister is so cute, and I really want to take her away!
epilogue
I've been able to make myself happy, and I don't care what other people think about it now.
In Song Jia's interview, she said that when facing anything, she believes that she should follow the guidance of her heart, and she has always maintained a calm attitude towards different discussions from the outside world, whether in the past or now.