Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "No matter how others treat you, you must cherish yourself, be worthy of the pride in your heart, be alone in your own world, and go with the flow in other people's world." ”
You have to look up to yourself, and don't mess up because of what others think of you. In your own little world, you have to be a good person and do things, and when you go to someone else's territory, you have to be more easy-going, don't take it too seriously.
Everyone is unique and has their own personality and ideas. It's like everyone has their own style of dressing, some people like trends, some people love vintage, and some people love fancy clothes.
We can't make everyone wear the same style of clothes, and we don't have to make everyone else think and do the same thing. Therefore, when others have different opinions, we might as well listen to them first, and then express our opinions politely and respect each other.
If you like to be quiet, but your roommate loves to be lively, then you have to learn to compromise and not get angry just because someone has a party. If you like spicy food, but your friends can't stand the spicy food, when you go out to eat, you have to take into account the other person's feelings and choose something that everyone can accept.
We live in a big society, and relationships are as complex as spider webs. If it is not handled well, it will be a big trouble, friends will become enemies, and colleagues will become enemies. If you want to have a good relationship, you have to be able to talk and do things.
It's like at work, when you encounter a problem you don't understand, you can humbly ask your colleagues for advice, not only to learn things, but also to get closer to each other. In life, too, care more about your neighbors, sometimes there is something urgent at home, you can help, and the relationship will naturally be close.
Some people just like to take advantage, if you always accommodate him, then you will suffer in the end. At this time, we have to learn to refuse and firmly defend our rights and interests. Remember, rejection is not the same as turning the other cheek, you can euphemistically say "no" to let the other party know where you stand, but it will not hurt the peace.
Living in this world, we must not only have our own principles and pride, but also know how to respect and adapt to others. In this way, we can live in harmony with others and enjoy the happiness that this colorful world brings us while maintaining our true self-nature. Don't forget, wherever you go, remember to be kind to yourself and don't embarrass others. Only such a day can be called comfortable.