Text丨Xinlan Shuhua
Editor丨Xinlan Shuhua
Preface
When it comes to people who are popular in the entertainment industry, everyone will definitely think of Hu Ge, but who would have expected that this actor with a bright future would be suspected of suffering from depression.
Since he starred in "The Legend of Sword and Fairy" in 2005, Li Xiaoyao has always had a high degree of discussion until the broadcast of "Flowers".
However, compared with his smooth sailing career, Hu Ge's emotional road is a little bumpy.
Why is Hu Ge "depressed"? Is it related to his feelings?
Suspected depression
On August 21, 2023, Hu Ge suddenly posted a somewhat inexplicable Weibo.
There are different opinions about Hu Ge's speech, and many people think that this is a precursor to Hu Ge's withdrawal from the circle, but many people think that he just sighed casually.
However, what everyone didn't expect was that after a few days of silence, Hu Ge appeared again.
At 1:08 a.m. on August 29, 2023, he posted a blog post on social media, and his overly abnormal behavior instantly attracted the attention of the majority of netizens.
Since announcing his marriage and becoming a father in January 2023, Hu Ge has often shown off his baby and wife on the Internet, and his life seems to be happy.
As a result, these two seemingly informative blog posts have led to speculation that he is not actually having a happy life, and may even be suffering from depression.
So what was the reason for Hu Ge's depressive remarks late at night? Could it be related to his emotions?
A bumpy emotional road
As a well-known star with high popularity, Hu Ge must have scandals on his body, but he has only two girlfriends who have publicly admitted.
When it comes to Xue Jianing, everyone may be a little unfamiliar, after all, she rarely appears on the screen now.
If you think she's just an actress who has never been a name and has never made a head, you're very wrong.
Xue Jia became popular very early, and in 2003, she became popular with the role of the honest and lovely Ha Mei in the TV series "Pink Girl".
The two were introduced to each other by Lu Yi at a party, although they were both students of the Shanghai Theater Academy, Hu Ge was still studying at that time, and Xue Jianing was four years older than him and had already graduated.
Once fate comes, it can't be stopped, when Xue Jianing and Yuan Hong filmed "Unparalleled in the World" in 2004, Hu Ge happened to be in the crew next door.
Taking the opportunity of visiting his friend Yuan Hong, Hu Ge met Xue Jianing again.
Faced with this delicate and lovely girl, he was quickly tempted and launched a passionate pursuit of her.
At first, Xue Jianing was not interested in Hu Ge, after all, this boy was a full four years younger than herself, and she still preferred mature men.
However, Hu Ge was not discouraged because he was not the ideal type of his sweetheart, but instead tried harder to show his favor.
After two years of perseverance and pursuit, Xue Jianing was finally moved by him, and the two officially confirmed their relationship in February 2006.
Unexpectedly, in August of the same year, Hu Ge suffered a serious car accident.
In this horrific accident, the assistant Zhang Mian was seriously injured and later died due to ineffective rescue, while Hu Ge was seriously injured in the face and required more than 100 stitches.
At that time, Xue Jianing was filming on the set, and after knowing the news, she immediately pushed down all the notices and rushed to the hospital to accompany her boyfriend.
Seeing his girlfriend, who was on the rise in her career, doing such a thing for herself, Hu Ge was moved, and the relationship between the two was further sublimated.
Just when everyone was convinced that they would achieve positive results, something unexpected happened.
That was in 2009, Hu Ge chose to break up peacefully with his girlfriend Xue Jianing, who accompanied him through the most difficult three years of his life.
After the relationship between the two ended, everyone's speculation about their breakup did not stop.
However, conspiracy theories are conspiracy theories, and the two have never said that each other is wrong after they broke up, and they can be regarded as excellent exes.
When Hu Ge was interviewed by reporters, he also defended Xue Jianing more than once, claiming that she was really a very good girl.
In 2014, when Hu Ge was filming the TV series "Whirlwind Eleven", he became attached to his younger sister Jiang Shuying.
On December 24 of the same year, photos of the two sweetly feeding and kissing at the airport came out, and their relationship was exposed.
In the face of overwhelming reports, Hu Ge did not evade, and generously admitted the relationship between the two on the Internet on December 29.
The following year, some people claimed that Hu Ge and Jiang Shuying were trying to marry in a semi-cohabitation and had plans to enter a new stage of life hand in hand.
The handsome men and beautiful women are really eye-catching together, and everyone has sent sincere blessings.
Who knew that in August of the same year, Jiang Shuying actually said that she had broken up with Hu Ge, and everyone was caught off guard, and by the time "Whirlwind Eleven" was broadcast, the two had been separated for more than half a year.
When promoting the new drama on the same stage, Hu Ge mentioned this relationship and expressed regret, thinking that he lacked the responsibility of his boyfriend during that period and failed to protect Jiang Shuying.
Because his two ex-girlfriends are both well-known actresses in the circle, when the news of marrying and having children with his female assistant Huang Xining came out, everyone expressed disbelief.
Many fans said that the female assistant has an ordinary education, ordinary appearance, and an ordinary family background, and she is not worthy of being with Hu Ge at all.
What's more, he felt that Hu Ge was just looking for a family nanny, or that the female assistant had his handle in his hand, and used this as a threat to force him to marry him.
In fact, if you look closely, you can find that Hu Ge's choice is closely related to his growth environment.
A suffocating desire for control
Hu Ge was born in the first ordinary family in Shanghai, his father is a tennis coach, his mother is a primary school teacher, and his mother has been extremely strict with him since he was a child.
When Hu Ge was five years old, her mother suffered from breast cancer, which also made her already serious personality even more difficult to get along.
His father has been running around all year round in order to make money, and Hu Ge has been with his mother for a long time because of his illness, which has become more and more eccentric, and he has gradually become introverted.
Parents were afraid that their child would be affected by this in the long run, so they decided to send him to learn acting.
At that time, there were countless children who signed up for the Little Yingxing Art Troupe, but they only planned to accept 60 children.
Even so, Hu Ge was successfully selected with his outstanding talent.
Since then, he has completely opened the door to the world of performing arts, and he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with the third best score in his major in the college entrance examination.
During his time at school, the handsome Hu Ge was very popular with girls, and he confessed to him in person, but his mother warned him to focus on studying and not to think about these messy things.
Mother's biggest regret before her death was that she didn't see Hu Ge get married, and hoped that there would be a gentle and virtuous daughter-in-law outside the circle to take care of him, so it seems that Hu Ge's choice is understandable.
Therefore, the relationship between Hu Ge, Xue Jianing and Jiang Shuying failed to satisfy his mother, and he was a dutiful son who obeyed his mother's words, so he was forced to break up with these two girlfriends.
summary
Hu Ge has a deep relationship with his mother, so he obeys her in many ways.
As long as his mother is not satisfied, no matter how much he likes each other, he will still choose to let go, and gradually become the "mom treasure man" in the mouth of netizens.
Everyone should face up to their true emotional needs, not always be swayed by others, and must learn how to firmly control the control in their own hands, otherwise it will only cause mental internal friction.