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Preamble:
Do you still remember the gossip couple who were regarded as "golden boys and girls"? They were known as "praying mantis catching cicadas, and yellow finches were behind", and they once fell in love sweetly.
However, an unexpected car accident became the fuse of their relationship, and finally broke up the lovers' lives.
In the blink of an eye, fifteen years have passed.
Now, he is married and has a daughter, and he is happy; And she chose to become a monk, take refuge in Buddhism, and live a life of pure cultivation.
Do you still have the "uneasy" in your heart about their stories?
Parallel lines intersect
In 2003, twenty-five-year-old Xue Jianing Gang became popular all over the country with the role of "Ha Mei" played in the TV series "Pink Girl".
As a beautiful girl who has been known as a "doll" since she was a child, she has shown the potential to become a star since she was a child.
He began to host TV shows at the age of eight, and in his sophomore year of high school, he was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy in one fell swoop.
In her freshman year, she began shooting commercials, and at the age of eighteen, she won her first film heroine.
Whether it is at school or in the entire Northeast region, she is a proper person.
And Hu Ge, who is four years older than her, was only a junior at the Shanghai Theater Academy at the time.
It stands to reason that the two should not have anything to do with each other.
However, life is often so wonderful, a mutual friend named Yuan Hong has become an "informant" who introduces them to each other.
Yuan Hong and Xue Jianing met in the crew of the 2003 TV series "Unparalleled in the World".
Because the two are of the same age and have similar personalities, they soon became good friends who talked about everything.
As Yuan Hong's best friend, Hu Ge was naturally pulled into this small circle.
It's just that what Yuan Hong didn't expect was that what was originally just a simple acquaintance and acquaintance actually secretly fell in love with him in his suspicion, and quietly fell in love behind his back.
In fact, speaking of Hu Ge, he is also a young and famous star.
Since the age of fourteen, he has been a small host of the TV station, and has also done dubbing for the cartoon "Baolian Lantern".
It's just that there was still an obvious identity gap between him and Xue Jianing at that time.
It wasn't until 2005 that Hu Ge became popular in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" because of Li Xiaoyao's role, and the two finally confessed their relationship.
Sweetness and tribulation
Although it has not been officially announced to the public, the relationship between Hu Ge and Xue Jianing has long been an open secret inside and outside the circle.
thought that they would enter the marriage hall all the way to the palace of prosperity and naturalness.
Who would have thought that a sudden car accident would become the fuse of the lovers' relationship, destined to break them apart.
In 2006, Hu Ge suffered a serious car accident while filming "The Legend of the Condor Heroes".
The accompanying female staff member died on the spot, and Hu Ge was stuck in the crack in the car and escaped by luck.
However, his nose, eyes, and neck were so badly injured that he was almost disfigured.
In the darkest days when Hu Ge needed warmth the most, Xue Jianing was undoubtedly the brightest light in his life.
In order to concentrate on taking care of her lover, she resolutely put down all her work, risked being criticized by public opinion, and went to the hospital, nursing and taking care of Hu Ge day and night.
From serving tea and pouring water to massaging and feeding medicine, she did it all by herself.
In this way, under the careful care of Xue Jianing, Hu Ge finally fully recovered in 2007 and returned to the showbiz.
And Xue Jianing also restarted her career.
It's a pity that she frequently stopped work in order to take care of Hu Ge, and she has fallen too far behind in her career.
In addition, she is nearly thirty years old, Xue Jianing soon lost her competitiveness back then, and the drama is naturally gone.
The once ghostly and agile "Ha Mei" seemed to disappear overnight and completely faded out of the public's sight.
Doomed to divide and merge
Faced with increasingly bleak career prospects, Xue Jianing did not complain at all.
She has never regretted her decision to give up her career in order to take care of Hu Ge, and has always had a beautiful vision of growing old with Hu Ge.
It's a pity that this sincere love and dedication did not get the result I expected in the end.
On the contrary, it has become a "stain" in Hu Ge's life.
In 2009, two years after Hu Ge's comeback, the two finally chose to break up.
As soon as the news came out, Hu Ge encountered a bloody storm of public opinion.
There have been many opinions about the reason why the two broke up: one of the most widely circulated is that Hu Ge's mother made a stumbling block and disliked Xue Jianing and beat the mandarin duck.
Once Hu Ge mentioned Xue Jianing in the show that he was "crying as a macho man", and he was suspected of complaining about his mother on Weibo late at night, which seems to have been circumstantially proven.
However, Hu Ge himself has not responded positively to this question over the years.
It wasn't until later, after he really let go of this relationship and started a new love life, that he finally responded: it turned out that after the car accident that year, he felt that he was inferior and not good enough, and with some "machismo" thoughts, he didn't want to give Xue Jianing a too bad life, so he chose to break up with her.
And Xue Jianing, on her side, has always remained silent about this relationship since the breakup, silently enduring the pain in her heart.
Judging from her series of behaviors in the future, it is obvious that the trauma and "sequelae" brought to her by this relationship are quite deep.
In 2017, Xue Jianing, who was 39 years old at the time, suddenly announced her retirement and wandered around.
It was also in that year that she began her initial contact and conversion to the Dharma.
Since then, she has become more and more low-key, except for occasionally taking on some stage plays, she has completely stayed away from the film and television industry.
In stark contrast, Hu Ge's development after the breakup went smoothly.
With the strong blessing of a series of wonderful works such as "The Pretender" and "Langya Bang", he has gradually transformed from an idol to a powerful actor, and has received countless praises.
The scar that once made him feel inferior has become a medal for his career.
Hand in hand through the spring and autumn
Since breaking up with actress Jiang Shuying in 2015, Hu Ge has never been in love again.
Seeing the good brothers around him like Huo Jianhua and Yuan Hong entering the marriage hall one after another, many people are looking forward to him settling down as soon as possible.
It's just that Hu Ge himself always plays Tai Chi and is perfunctory, and even pulls out "Peng Yuyan is still single" to support himself.
Looking at him so "cynical", it is inevitable that people will wonder whether he is still worried about what happened to Xue Jianing back then.
Until one night in 2021, a set of photos suddenly circulated on the Internet, which pushed the names of the two people back onto the hot search.
In the photo, Xue Jianing is touring for her musical "Zhao's Orphan", and in the audience, a figure with a very familiar shadow and resembling Hu Ge appeared in the audience.
After the performance, the two took a group photo, as if they were old friends.
"The Same Frame of the Century" suddenly aroused the fanatical pursuit of countless "CP fans", and many people began to speculate whether this "regretful couple" is about to reunite with the old man and get back together.
It's a pity that Hu Gefang's staff quickly came forward to clarify, ending everyone's speculation.
However, from the fact that the two can be so familiar with each other and hate each other like good friends, people can't help but sigh: maybe compared to the relationship between former lovers, real friend status is the most suitable for them.
In 2023, Hu Ge finally officially announced the news of marriage and birth on Weibo, and the bride is his assistant and agent Huang Xining.
At this point, this "Hu Xue Love" that has made countless people haunt it has come to an end.
At the same time, 45-year-old Xue Jianing also regained her strength to return to the public eye: she starred in Youku's popular online drama "Guangyuan" and appeared on the screen again.
On a street in Shanghai on January 13, 2024, Xue Jianing, wearing a green cotton coat and a black long skirt, was met by chance.
Although she is nearly half a hundred years old, her temperament is still outstanding, her skin is firm and smooth, and there is no trace of age at all.
When she saw passers-by, she was even more amiable and behaved amiably, and she had no star frame at all.
Looking at her so calm and calm appearance, how can others not be aroused and full of nostalgia? The once smart and lovely "Ha Mei" seems to have reappeared in front of her eyes.
In the first half of Xue Jianing's life, the character "Ha Mei" and her ex-boyfriend Hu Ge are undoubtedly the two most important marks.
It's a pity that a car accident is destined to tear them apart, otherwise they may be able to grow old together and enter the marriage hall.
It's just that, recalling the bits and pieces of the year, has Xue Jianing ever regretted it in her heart?
If God really gives her another chance to do it again, I wonder if she will choose to embark on this sister-brother relationship that is destined to be separated and reunited?
Epilogue:
Hu Ge Xue Jianing's love story is full of ups and downs, twists and turns, just like a well-crafted life script.
Fifteen years of ups and downs, from a pair of vigorous little couples, to the ill-fated division and reunion, and now each of them is blooming again on the new stage of life, the life course is endless and magnificent.
They used their own personal experience to interpret a deep sister-brother relationship that is both incomplete but complete.
Although they didn't make it to the end in the end, they also used their young hearts to draw enough courage for each other, and with persistent dreams, they walked through those sunshine and hardships together.
In the face of the past, will there still be a lingering reminiscence? This may only be known to the person concerned.
But it is undeniable that the lovers have become a never-ending memory in the hearts of a generation.