Qianjiang Evening News
Tranquility,
33-year-old Huang Qiufen is gone,
The family did not hold a funeral.
She donated her body to Zhejiang University,
Engage in medical research.
Photo provided by Huang Qiufen interviewee
In 2018, Huang Qiufen, who had just received a marriage certificate in Hangzhou and had not yet had a wedding, was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer.
During the period before Huang Qiufen's death, Gong Lin felt that the couple were more like comrades-in-arms in the same trench, and they had many conversations about life.
Just got a marriage license
My wife was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer
Zhang Liying and Huang Qiufen met ten years ago.
At that time, a hospital in Hangzhou introduced the city's first imported medical equipment for postpartum pelvic floor repair. For the daily maintenance of this equipment, I had to go to Shanghai to ask for a master, and if it needed to be repaired, it would have to be sent to Guangzhou.
Huang Qiufen, a black and thin Guangxi girl, is the operation and maintenance personnel of the equipment agency stationed in the hospital.
Dr. Zhang Liying of the Postpartum Pelvic Floor Rehabilitation Center of a hospital in Hangzhou said: "This little girl who has just graduated is very smart and very serious and careful. ”
Because she is often stationed in the hospital, Huang Qiufen has become Zhang Liying's apprentice and friend, Zhang Liying's evaluation of her is: "This child just works too hard, when he comes, he only has more than 80 pounds, he eats little, he is busy with work, he often does not finish his work and does not eat, and he does not listen to how many times he is persuaded." ”
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
Huang Qiufen and Gong Lin are college classmates and peers, usually, Gong Lin will also come to the hospital to pick up Huang Qiufen from work, Zhang Liying's impression of this guy is very good.
In the summer of 2018, the young couple had just received their certificates for half a month, and one day, Huang Qiufen suddenly came to Zhang Liying and said, "Teacher Zhang, I want to ask you for a favor, I have a little stomach discomfort and want to have a gastroscopy, can you help me make an appointment?"
To do a gastroscopy, you need to be accompanied by your family, and Gong Lin came that day.
Zhang Liying remembered that when Gong Lin came from the gastroscopy room, his whole body was trembling, and he said profusely: "Teacher Zhang, Huang Qiufen is in the advanced stage of stomach cancer, how is this possible?" The nurse said that there may only be half a year, and she asked me to consider preparing for her future......
You can only live for half a year
But his wife has been fighting cancer for 6 years
Huang Qiufen was later transferred to Sir Run Run Shaw Hospital of Zhejiang University, where Gonglin was stationed for treatment, where further examination revealed that the cancer had metastasized to the ovaries, and Huang Qiufen soon began chemotherapy.
Gong Lin and Huang Qiufen's wedding was made up during the two of them fighting cancer.
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
Zhang Liying said: "No matter what Huang Qiufen's follow-up treatment is, she is destined to be unable to have children, and in the past 6 years, Gong Lin has been accompanying his wife to fight cancer without regrets. ”
At the beginning, the girl who was told by the doctor to have only half a year to live later lived for 6 years.
On April 11, Huang Qiufen, who had been fighting cancer for 6 years after marriage, fell asleep forever in the Linping District Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine near her home.
Her parting, no funeral. Because before her death, Huang Qiufen applied for body donation for herself and donated her body to Zhejiang University for medical research.
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
Gong Lin said, "If it weren't for classmates and friends who saw the news of her body donation, everyone wouldn't know that she had cancer, because Huang Qiufen has been smiling at everyone all these years." ”
At Sir Run Run Shaw Hospital of Zhejiang University, Huang Qiufen underwent multiple surgeries and two stages of chemotherapy.
Later, although she could not run to the field as often as before, she still insisted on going to work during the interval between treatment for illness.
Xu Ya, the owner of the company, takes special care of Huang Qiufen and has been paying social security and wages for her.
Don't bother others
The husband shouldered millions of medical bills
Huang Qiufen is from Baise Zhuang Cottage in Guangxi, and her husband Gong Lin is from rural Anhui.
During the two-phase chemotherapy period, Gong Lin chose to buy all self-funded imported drugs for Huang Qiufen, spending as much as 4~50,000 yuan per month, and the cost of these two phases of chemotherapy alone was close to 1 million yuan.
Newlyweds don't have much savings, and the burden of life is not heavy over the years?
Gong Lin said: "I just don't want to leave regrets for Huang Qiufen when I use self-financed medicine, and I don't want to have regrets for myself. Imported medicine is expensive, but I have the ability to earn money to support my family, and we don't talk about our illness in front of outsiders, but also hope that we don't sympathize, but solve the problem by ourselves. ”
After graduating from Shanghai Health Medical College in 2013, the couple came to Hangzhou to work, and just started to rent a house in the old city.
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
When the wedding room was not yet decorated, the master Zhang Liying came to Lin Jinping to see it. Before, when Huang Qiufen was bedridden and fighting against the disease, she often had video chats with Zhang Liying.
Last year, Huang Qiufen once felt back pain, and after going to the hospital for examination, it was found that it was a bone crack, and at this time, the cancer cells had metastasized to the bone.
As her condition continued to deteriorate, Huang Qiufen was confined to bed completely and needed to be cared for 24 hours a day. During the day, Gong Lin had to go to work, so her mother-in-law came from her hometown in Anhui to take care of her daughter-in-law.
Huang Qiufen's appetite is smaller than before, and coupled with the torture of illness, she has become skinny and skinny, and her weight is less than 40 pounds. In order to promote blood circulation, the family should use a towel to warm her whole body constantly, and it should be applied for at least 2 hours at a time.
Some time before she died, Huang Qiufen felt shoulder pain, and two days before she died, she suddenly felt a tiger's mouth pain, and the doctor prescribed painkillers and painkiller injections.
The process of fighting the disease is very painful, Huang Qiufen often can't sleep at night because of pain, and she will also take some sleeping pills to help her sleep. Once helping his wife wash her hair, Gong Lin found that Huang Qiufen had quietly hoarded more than 20 sleeping pills, and he guessed that his wife might have had the idea of committing suicide.
In a short life
Live the way you want to be
In the period before his wife's death, Gong Lin felt that the two were like comrades-in-arms in the same trench, and they had many conversations about life.
"Qiufen, are you awake now?"
"Yes, I'm sober. ”
"You remember, if you want to arrange for your parents (parents-in-law) to come over, you have to tell me. ”
"Okay, I know. ”
"Qiu Fen, do you know what makes me miserable?"
"What is it?"
"It's that you're still so conscious even though you're extremely weak......"
Regarding the body donation, Gong Lin was against it at first, but his wife insisted on it.
Gong Lin said: "She is such a person, she has always liked to help others, and never wanted to trouble others. Usually she is doing public welfare, and body donation after death may be her wish, because she has no children, and she may not want to trouble relatives and friends to come to pay tribute every year after death. ”
Because his wife was too thin, when the blood was taken for a blood test, it hurt every time the needle was inserted, and in the last few days, Huang Qiufen said to Gong Lin, "I don't want to get injections, I don't want to take medicine, I want to give up treatment." ”
"Qiufen, are you saying that these are sober now, do you really want to give up treatment?"
"Yes, I'm sober and I want to give up the treatment. ”
"Well, we respect your choice. ”
Before his daughter died, her father came from his hometown in Guangxi. On the evening of April 10, Huang Qiufen also ate some souvenirs brought by her father. Gong Lin said: "In the early hours of the morning, she fell asleep and snored, and on the afternoon of the 11th, she lost consciousness and left. ”
Photo courtesy of the interviewee
After Huang Qiufen died, Gong Lin called the Zhejiang Provincial Red Cross Society according to her instructions before her death, and the staff went through the formalities on the same day and handed over Huang Qiufen's body to Zhejiang University.
33-year-old Huang Qiufen is gone, life is short for her, but she lived the way she wanted, perhaps the only regret is that happiness comes and goes, too hurried.
Chao News reporter Shi Wen
Editor in charge: Yuan Ying
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