Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
When the rainbow is illuminated by the sun, it will be colorful.
Women are like rainbows, and when they are loved deeply, they will bloom with a more beautiful smile.
What kind of words a woman says, what kind of attitudes and emotions she has, you can see what the state of marriage is.
Whether a woman is deeply loved by her husband can be seen from her mouth.
02, women who are not understood, love to complain
Once, I was on a tour group and wanted to go south to have fun. Two aunts were heard talking in the car, and one aunt kept complaining.
She was in hiding and quarreled with her husband every day at home.
If a man has a big temper and asks him to do some work, he loses his temper and plays mahjong and games all day long, regardless of his grandchildren's children.
She is exhausted at home cooking and tidying up her room, and taking care of her grandchildren.
But the husband can't see anything, so he goes out to play when he should play, and doesn't care about anything. If you don't serve him well, he will drop things and he won't be able to get by.
The aunt said that when she was older, she didn't want to divorce, so she could only scatter her heart, and her grievances and tears were hidden in her stomach.
loves to complain and complains when she meets people, which can only show that she has encountered unfair treatment and has suffered a lot in her marriage.
Yishu said: "There are many things that cannot be done, many things that are disdainful to be done, and many things that cannot be done. Neither explain nor complain. ”
A woman who is not understood, in marriage, no matter how much she pays, will not be cherished by men.
Men have too many accusations and harsh demands on her. I have never really, I am grateful for her dedication, and I have never taken good care of her.
So much so that there is nowhere to say goodbye to the sorrow in a woman's heart. When you meet someone you can talk to, you will complain about the unfairness of your life.
03. A woman who is not loved has a lot of negative energy
Liu Shufen in "Wu Wen Xidong", after marrying Xu Bochang, has been snubbed by him.
She couldn't get a smiling face from Xu Bochang. He didn't want to say a word to her, not to be a little close to her.
Liu Shufen was enraged, quarreled with him, and even got into a fight.
The people around her think that she has a bad temper, she is a shrew, and she only bullies her honest husband.
Such a comment made Liu Shufen even more painful and aggrieved. Only she knows what kind of torment she is suffering in her marriage.
It is difficult for a woman who cannot be loved to experience the taste of happiness and to be full of positive energy. Guarding the marriage, you can only be cocooned and self-bound.
A woman who is not loved, the depression in her heart cannot be resolved. If you can't adjust your emotions, negative energy will overflow.
A woman living in this environment is under tremendous mental pressure, and the words that come out of her mouth will not sound good.
Women give all their love, even to humble themselves to please, but men are unmoved and turn a blind eye to women's passion.
Women will gradually become angry, angry, complaining, blaming, and angry.
Love but not can be the reason why women have a big temper.
04, the more a woman is loved, the more she laughs
"Mu Xuanying is in charge" wrote: "The emotions in the world are moving, but the white porcelain plum soup in midsummer, the broken ice hits the wall when it sounds, and the love in the world is calamity, but the three nine black tiles are yellow and fresh, and the sugar heart is low and bitter." ”
Men give enough support to a woman to give her time to dress up and pursue the life she likes.
So that she can fulfill her dreams and be full of spirit. No matter what kind of trouble she causes, men are willing to give her a cover, and they will stand by her side and become her dependence.
Such a woman will become confident and can smile often.
She doesn't have any inferiority complex, and she has nothing to complain about. If you feel that life is so good, you should laugh at everything.
Being loved will make a woman feel proud and proud, and her spirits will fly.
Life is interesting, pampered in the palm of your hand, loved well, and you know how to love people.
No matter what age a woman is, if she is cared for by her husband, she will be like a little girl, bright and cute.
She spoke softly and laughed like silver bells.
A woman who is loved is rich in heart and has a full sense of security.
What she says and does will be full of positive energy, and she can also face everything in the world with enthusiasm and a positive attitude.
05. Summary
People can influence each other.
Between husband and wife, even more so. If your heart is full of affection, you can know and love each other, you will not be afraid of anything, and you can move forward bravely.
If you have love in your heart, you will have a smile on your face, say things that make people happy, and be willing to embrace the world with more kindness.
Treat the people around you well, and you won't suffer.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.