When you are young, you don't have to care about anyone, you can just rely on yourself.
However, after you reach your old age, without this person, your old age life will definitely be very bad and lonely.
Therefore, you must be kind to this person, because she must be your support in your old age, and this person is your wife.
I have been accompanying me for the past few days, and I am deeply touched, so I wrote these words.
Because, my wife is sick, and I know that if I wasn't by his side, then he wouldn't be able to deal with these unexpected things on his own.
Because my wife had surgery for thyroid nodules, everything was fine after the surgery.
But what he didn't expect was that he had a previous problem, that is, difficulty urinating.
As a result, after 4 hours of surgery, he couldn't urinate on his own, so I tried everything I could to help him, including using a hot towel to warm his bladder, turning on the faucet, washing his lower body, etc. In the end, it didn't work out either.
Or use the method of catheterization to solve his problem.
I thought, isn't this just thanks to having an old wife, and what would he do if he didn't have a wife?
Or if it is inconvenient for children to serve, for example, it is inconvenient for a daughter to serve her father, and it must be inconvenient for a son to serve her mother, and only the wife is the best person to be around.
The catheterization was finally successful, although he suffered some crimes, but he finally expelled the urine, but what he didn't expect was that at 10 o'clock in the evening, his vertigo was committed again.
This hospital is also very strange, the doctor in the inpatient department said that he has no medicine for vertigo in this surgery, there is really no way, I quickly pushed the old wife of one hundred and forty or fifty pounds to the emergency department, the distance is long, after more than 10 minutes, it was not easy to push the old man to the emergency department, and registered and infusion, infusion for 6 hours, the result of the infusion is dawn, this night tossed almost to kill people.
At that time, after he was sick with vertigo, he was also very irritable, and I followed him, and when he returned to the ward after the infusion of fluids at dawn, his symptoms also improved, and I talked to him about this topic, which I mean is that if people are old and do not have a wife to take care of them, it is absolutely impossible.
No matter how good the children are, they also have their own affairs, they have to work and have their own small family to take care of, and it is impossible to accompany us 24 hours a day.
I remember that a colleague of mine was also in this situation, because she went on a rampage with everyone in order to lose weight, but after walking for less than a month, there was water accumulation in her left knee, and gradually that leg could not move, so her wife pushed the wheelchair to the hospital all day to bake electricity for physiotherapy, and then after a period of time she was able to go to work, her wife pushed her to the designated place of the shuttle, and then picked her up and dropped her off and off work.
At that time, I just had a deep experience, I felt that this person was old, no one was as reliable as his wife, only his wife could take care of him so patiently, and everyone else was in vain.
Even if you have the money to hire someone, there is no temperature, cold service, how can you have a wife by your side to serve thoughtfully.
Like my sister-in-law, my eldest brother passed away in his sleep more than 10 years ago when he was 57 years old, and after living alone for a few years, he developed complications due to diabetes, and then became blind.
At this time, if it is said that my eldest brother is still alive, then it doesn't matter if my sister-in-law is blind, and my eldest brother will definitely take good care of my sister-in-law.
After her sister-in-law lost her sight, she really had no choice, so she had to go to her eldest daughter's house and live a life that was worse than death.
No matter how good the daughter is, it's useless, and the son-in-law is so disgusted, but there is no way, like the sister-in-law who only gave birth to three daughters, she has to swallow her anger in order to live no matter what.
Therefore, I think that as long as there is an old wife, the two of them will definitely live without loneliness.
So, remember to be kind to your old wife. Hug each other to keep warm, pay more attention to their physical health, pay attention to eating habits and living habits, exercise appropriately, remember to do a full body massage, soak your feet before going to bed, and have a proper physical examination, the purpose is to detect diseases early, treat them symptomatically early, nip the disease in the bud, and prevent it before it happens, so that you can get sick less, get sick late and not get sick, and the old couple can spend their old age together in peace and stability.
Therefore, I think that when you are old, you must be kind to your wife, because she will comfort and take care of you when unexpected things happen in your old age.