The satisfaction of the needs of the Chinese people for "belonging" and "self-esteem" was laid on the basis of the collective public values inspired by the Heavenly Dao, and then on the basis of the unified values of the Son of Heaven, the teachings of the sages, the implementation of the bureaucracy, and the effect of the upper and lower levels.
When a god falls from the altar and the saint is defeated, the Chinese people will spontaneously choose idols from history and reality as objects of admiration to satisfy their psychological value needs. Due to the large number of idols, individuals are free to choose and choose, so the values of Chinese people are quite unstable inspired by idols, which change regularly with age and change randomly.
As a result, the values of most Chinese people are mostly influenced by social customs. The choice of value objects that meet their own needs for "belonging" and "self-esteem" is more influenced by the people around them and those close to them. This makes most of the values of the Chinese people fragmented, and they are becoming more and more individual, capricious, and more realistic.
For teenagers, the historical figures in textbooks are far away. Before they can experience the fullness of the value created by labor and the difficulty of making a living for themselves, the white arms of celebrities can easily sweep away the glorious images of cleaners, angels in white, scientists, inventors, entrepreneurs, etc., that they once respected in their minds.
However, domestic stars who are popular with capital, hyped by the media, and chased by fans are often not angry. Since blogs and Weibo opened the era of self-media, and then the short video platform has come from behind, celebrities with millions or tens of millions of fans, nude photos, drug abuse, prostitution, tax evasion, philately, multiplayer sports, unspoken rules, and dinner prices...... rushed to the hot search wave after wave, and gathered a complete star lineup one after another. The hundreds of millions of netizens born in the 80s, 90s, and 00s, the more they go back, the more youthful and ignorant they are, and the more common, intense, and lasting their values are impacted by them.
The value orientation has been dragged into the orbit of the body, the value of the child, and the material wealth, the value standards are confused, and the satisfaction of the needs of "belonging" and "self-esteem" is paranoid and develops - self-esteem is unstoppable, and the desire is indulged; belonging is enslaved by the legs, and the body and mind are lost-not to mention the traditional etiquette that has been passed down for thousands of years, and even the minimum politeness of the new society has lost the object of attachment. "Poverty limits imagination", "the bottom line is completely lost", and "the three views are shattered" have become the mantras of netizens.
To say that the current etiquette is broken may lack basis. However, if an authoritative research organization conducts in-depth and comprehensive social research on the value orientation, principles, goals, standards, judgments, behaviors and pursuits of young people and young people in China, the statistics obtained will almost certainly be shocking.
Values such as loyalty, filial piety, righteousness, wisdom, trustworthiness, loyalty, chastity, honesty, and shame support a hierarchical social value system. Removing its dross, carrying forward its essence, and digging out new ideas from it to improve customs may be helpful to the current society, but it cannot solve the fundamental problem. Trying to revive Chinese culture to inspire the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation is like repairing the Jiuding, the dragon robe, and the jade seal of the country, and using it to control the world again.
From the beginning to the end, although the origin of man's self-esteem depends on God and his voice in the world, the world really relies on the development of productive forces, supplemented by production relations, the use of tools, through labor (mental and physical) to transform objective things and the world, and at the same time self-improvement of creativity and its results.
Specifically, individuals should learn, accumulate and apply the existing practical practices, materialistic dogmas, and idealistic virtual life experiences, and deal with other people, artificial objects and technical products, natural objects, and spiritual and cultural works in the form of demand objects, and finally implement them into their own or other people's real practices, transform the objective environment and the specific objects therein, and create material and spiritual wealth to reflect their public value and have an impact.
Whether it is to educate others, improve artificial objects and techniques, transform natural objects, or create spiritual and cultural works, the more comprehensive, profound and lasting the integration of individuals and related demand objects, and the degree of accurate quantification and integration, the more competitive they will be to surpass others. If individuals create artificial products that the collective is willing to exchange repeatedly, they can reflect their public value and realize the dialectical satisfaction of their needs for "belonging" and "self-esteem"—self-esteem and self-confidence will be enhanced.
Holding the value orientation of creation (creation) as the leading value orientation, being in the current social atmosphere and atmosphere, and others or circles with different value orientations and different value standards to cooperate and compete, coexist and prosper each other, and adhere to the personalized etiquette norms of neither humility nor arrogance, calmness, freedom of advance and retreat, equality and friendliness, for down-to-earth and true creators, it is not only a survival skill, a correct conduct, but also a test of the value and meaning of life that is more in line with the direction of human evolution.
In the final analysis, car models and celebrities show their flesh just to show the sexual selection characteristics of the peacock screen. Even if the god-like jewels, dragon flying phoenix dance, and beautiful virtual literary value are grafted onto his body, and defined by referring to the law of dialectical evolution of the hierarchy of human needs, whether his needs are satisfied or not is only in the penultimate level of winning the audience's sexual impulses, and has not yet crossed the watershed of adults.
Measured from the horizontal spatial scope dimension, car models, especially celebrities, have a huge influence. But because of this, the self-restraint of celebrities in terms of etiquette norms is more important. If combined with the longitudinal time continuation dimension, using the works to speak, and returning to the ordinary in daily life is the only way out for the personal social value of celebrities to not grow old and not fall.
To reflect the social value of the individual with the value of creation (creation) as the leading, it is not only necessary to meet the value needs of others and promote the upgrading of the value needs of others, but also to realize the dialectical satisfaction of the free transformation of the needs of the same level relative to others.
Celebrities exposing their flesh will only lead the ignorant sexual impulses of netizens, especially teenagers, to uncontrollable, disrupting and stranding their growth and promotion. As for the unspoken rules suspected of selling meat, the price of meals, multi-person sports, etc., one after another, and everyone seems to be accustomed to it, if it is not for the social values that have collapsed, why not "fight"!
On the one hand, Cang Liao naturally knows etiquette, and he knows honor and disgrace when he has enough food and clothing; on the other hand, he is full of warmth and lust. The sages have long been aware of this, but if they can travel back to the present, their brains will inevitably become a pot of porridge: how can this all-encompassing and supernatural society be bustling with food and clothing and endless self-inflicted wildness, and right and wrong, honor and disgrace are hung high, and self-supremacy is supreme?
As everyone knows, time has changed, and human nature has its own stubbornness for thousands of years; carrying forward the past and forging ahead into the future, the way of heaven has never been explored by itself, and no one has broken through it - being fed and raised by hybrid rice and AD calcium milk, carrying laser Hanxian typesetting and printing teaching materials, and connecting to 5G network speed day and night to swipe the screen, young people and young people, regardless of their personal future, or the future of the country and society that is closely related to them, are facing the unprecedented choice of "survival or destruction".
2024-04-18
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