The phrase "I don't marry a rural girl" sounds harsh, but it does reflect the true thoughts of some urban boys. As uncomfortable as this view is, we cannot ignore some of the social phenomena and realities it reveals.
First of all, this view may stem from cultural and social differences between urban and rural areas. There are great differences in lifestyles, values, and educational backgrounds between urban and rural areas, and these differences may lead to communication barriers and comprehension difficulties between urban boys and rural girls.
Second, some urban boys may perceive rural girls as having inferior family backgrounds and economic conditions to them, and are worried about taking on more family responsibilities and financial burdens after marriage. This concern, while real, ignores the importance of emotional connection and mutual support between people.
However, we should also recognize that this view is one-sided and narrow-minded. A person's value and charm should not only depend on her background and background, but also on her personality, ability, character and other factors. Rural girls can also have excellent qualities and talents, and can also contribute to their families and society.
In addition, the gap between urban and rural areas is gradually narrowing, and the economic and social development of rural areas is also improving. Over time, the differences between urban and rural areas will gradually fade, and people's perceptions will become more open and inclusive.
Therefore, we should abandon this one-sided and narrow view and look at everyone with a more open and inclusive mind. When choosing a partner, we should focus on the inner qualities and abilities and not focus too much on the external factors. Only in this way can we find a partner who is truly suitable for us and create a better future together.