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My name is Chen Wei, I am 30 years old, and I am a middle manager of a well-known company. I have a successful career and a decent income, but my love life has always been a big shortcoming in my life. has been single for many years, and has begun to feel a little confused and eager for love.
It was a Friday night, and I came to the upscale club as usual to relax. The clubhouse was full of people and lively. I sat alone at the bar, consciously or unintentionally looking at the crowd coming and going, and suddenly, a familiar figure appeared in the field of vision, it was Li Ying.
The moment I saw Li Ying, my heart pounded. I have always had a special obsession and preference for mature women, and she is exactly what I want to look at. I was both excited and nervous about this encounter. I was determined to make the most of this opportunity and show her the best of my heart.
The interior of the clubhouse is extremely luxurious and splendid. In the center of the hall is an oversized bar surrounded by boxes and booths of various styles. Behind the bar is a huge wine cabinet with a wide variety of wines. In front of the bar are rows of high stools, which are already full. The smell of expensive champagne wafted through the air, and waiters were everywhere shuttling back and forth, holding snacks and drinks on plates.
From time to time, bursts of laughter could be heard from the box, as if something was being celebrated. In the center of the hall is an empty dance floor, where several couples of men and women are dancing to the music, and their movements are exaggerated and indulgent. Surrounded by a crowd of people chatting in twos and threes, the scene was extremely lively and noisy.
Just as I was distracted, Li Ying came over and sat down across from me. She wore a dark blue low-necked dress tonight that complimented her perfect body curves. She brushed a strand of bangs behind her ear, revealing a smooth forehead and a slight smile at the corner of her mouth.
"Hey, what a coincidence, I didn't expect to meet you here. She offered to greet me.
"yes, what a coincidence. Are you here alone?" I quickly picked up the conversation.
"Yes, if you're bored, come over and relax with a glass of wine. She spoke eloquently, in a laid-back tone.
"Well, that's right, I'm here alone. If you don't mind, let's talk, shall we?" I pretended to be calm, but my heart was turbulent.
"Of course, of course, nice to meet you. She smiled.
The longer I chatted, the more I was attracted by Li Ying's unique temperament. She is different from the charm and coquettishness of ordinary women, but has a mature, calm, and intellectual charm, which is irresistible. She is heroic when she talks, and she is a little charming and enchanting when she talks and laughs, which is really the perfect embodiment of middle-aged women.
I could barely take my eyes off her, her smile and every move were stimulating my nerves and teasing my heart. I made up my mind, I must pursue this woman, and I will not give up until I achieve my goal!
"Sister Ying, we haven't seen each other for a long time, why don't you make an appointment another day, how about I invite you to dinner?"
Seeing that she wanted to stop talking, I quickly explained: "Sister Ying, don't be mistaken, I just want to get together with you a few more times as a friend to enhance my relationship." We make good friends, don't we?"
Li Ying stared at me for a few seconds, and a smile finally appeared on her face: "Okay, okay, then I'll be respectful and obey." But let me pick a more upscale restaurant?"
"No problem, just pick!" I almost jumped up with joy, "That's it, we'll make an appointment another day." "
A week later, on Saturday night, I took Li Ying by the hand and walked into the high-end French restaurant she had chosen. I saw that the interior of the restaurant was elegantly decorated, and there was a sense of romance everywhere. Li Ying wore a long black dress tonight, with elaborate makeup and hairstyle, which looked particularly charming and moving.
We ordered a French meal and were seated under the guidance of the waiter. Soft jazz music is played in the restaurant, creating just the right amount of romantic atmosphere. We chatted while eating, and the topic unconsciously moved from work to life.
"Sister Ying, you are really amazing, you can still have a successful career at such an age, you are really a model of a strong woman. I exclaimed.
"You've won a prize. Li Ying smiled and waved her hand, "I was also forced to be helpless, and I could only support this family alone after the divorce." "
"But you seem to be doing a pretty good job. I quipped.
"It's comfortable, but sometimes I feel a little lonely. Li Ying sighed, "You young people are okay, there will always be someone who will accompany you to grow old in the future." "
I didn't expect Li Ying to have such a melancholy side, and I suddenly felt a little unbearable, and comforted again and again: "Sister Ying, don't you also have my good friend to accompany you now? In the future, we will get together a few more times, and you won't feel lonely." "
Li Ying's words made me feel a little heartbroken. I never thought that this seemingly capable and strong woman would have such trepidation and uneasiness in her heart. As a middle-aged woman who has lived alone for many years, she must also have an irrepressible sense of loneliness. I couldn't help but wonder if I should give her more love and attention to make her feel a warm life.
At the same time, I was secretly hoping to be the person in her life. I longed to warm her lonely heart with my love and dispel her lonely fear with my companionship. I sincerely hope that one day, we will be able to come together, keep each other warm, and spend the rest of our lives together.
Driven by such thoughts, my feelings for Li Ying are snowballing day by day. Her every movement and demeanor caused ripples in my heart. I began to look forward to this relationship and was determined to pursue her with the utmost sincerity, and to seize this opportunity that might be fate.
In this way, Li Ying and I began frequent dates. From the initial friendship to the ambiguous intimacy later, our relationship has changed dramatically.
Once, we drank late at a bar. Li Ying was a little drunk, her cheeks were crimson, and her eyes were misty. I grabbed her waist and whispered in her ear, "Sister Ying, stay with me tonight." "
Li Ying seemed to be startled by my movements and tone, and her eyes widened slightly, staring at me. I no longer hid my inner desires, and looked straight at her. After a few seconds, she suddenly stepped forward, kissed me lightly on the corner of the mouth, and whispered, "Okay." "
I was ecstatic, and hurriedly beckoned a car to take Li Ying back to my high-end apartment. As soon as we entered the house, we kissed wildly together, as if we wanted to vent all our longings for years in one breath. I kissed her and unbuttoned her clothes, and soon we were naked and skin-to-skin.
Li Ying closed her eyes and let out a suppressed moan, her hand wandering around my back, as if trying to confirm my existence. I also took her into my arms and felt the softness and flexibility that is unique to her mature female body.
We are like two male beasts in heat, entangled and fighting on this night, inseparable. In this way, we slowly and forcefully joined and separated, as if we were trying to merge each other into our flesh and blood. Our gasps, moans, and moans reverberate through the room, creating a crazy and raw atmosphere.
In this way, Li Ying and I began to live together. She goes to work during the day, and when she comes back at night, we get tired of being together and spend warm nights. Everything seemed so beautiful, but it didn't take long for some disagreements and contradictions to arise between us.
The main disagreement is that I take the relationship too seriously, while Li Ying enjoys the moment as a way of life. I longed for a longer relationship with her, preferably always together; And she doesn't seem to be so attached to emotional things, and is more looking for catharsis and solace for her body and mind.
Once, I tentatively asked her, "Sister Ying, is it okay for us to continue like this?" Don't you think we should take the next step?"
Li Ying frowned: "What's next? Isn't it good for us to be like this?"
"But we can't go on like this forever, can we? I want to marry you and start a family. I said sincerely.
"Marriage, family?" Li Ying seemed to be taken aback by my words, and her expression was a little unnatural, "Brother Wei, isn't it good that we are like this now? "
I stubbornly asked, "But I really want to be with you, do you really care about our future?"
"Brother Wei, don't be like this. Li Ying sighed, "We're just enjoying the present life, why should you think about the future?
"But that's more than what I want!" My tone began to be a little agitated, "I truly love you and hope to spend the rest of my life with you." Why do you have such an attitude?"
"You're just too serious! How can there be so many ways to be emotional? Can't you learn to enjoy the moment?" Li Ying also gradually became a little angry.
"Then you don't take our relationship seriously at all! I yelled hoarsely.
"Shut up! Why do you say that about me!" Li Ying also glared angrily and confronted me violently.
In this way, we are stuck in a saber-rattling stalemate, and no one can convince anyone. I insisted on my opinion, while Li Ying enjoyed the moment with composure. We were at loggerheads, and our relationship was in an unprecedented crisis.
Plagued by this contradiction, I began to take the initiative to learn to adjust my mentality. I began to try to appreciate and accommodate Li Ying's unique attitude towards life, rather than resting on my laurels and asking her to change. I've learned to slow down and enjoy the moment.
In the process, my heart is also undergoing earth-shaking changes. I began to learn to approach everything in life with a peaceful mind, instead of pursuing the so-called "long-term" as before. I began to try to appreciate the beauty of the present instead of always thinking about what the future would be.
This change has also affected my relationship with Li Ying. Instead of dwelling on long-term issues as I used to, I learned to relax and enjoy my life in the moment. As a result, there were fewer conflicts and disputes between us, and the relationship was back on track.
Li Ying seems to have felt this change in me. Once, she leaned into my arms and whispered, "Brother Wei, have you changed a lot? I think you are more tolerant and casual now than before." "
I smiled and nodded, hugging her tighter: "yes, I'm learning to appreciate the beauty of life. As long as I'm with you, I'm content. "
Li Ying's face was full of cunning after hearing this, and she kissed me on the face: "Then let's enjoy the current life, don't think too much about other things." "
In this way, with our joint efforts, the relationship between Li Ying and I was finally back on track. We have reached a tacit consensus to enjoy life in the present without forcing or restricting the future.
Our lives have become more casual. Sometimes we get tired of being together for a few days and nights, and we vent our longing for each other; Sometimes we keep our distance and live on our own for a while. But no matter what, there is always a deep bond between us, a kind of attachment to each other.
In this way, Li Ying and I ushered in a new stage in our lives. We all realized that this casual way of getting along with each other was no longer sustainable.
Li Ying has entered the second half of her life, and she has begun to covet a more stable lifestyle. And I gradually became tired of this wandering life, and began to yearn for a more belonging state of life.
So after a good conversation, we made a big decision: to live together. We decided to buy a bigger house in the city and live together to create a sense of home.
"We've been together like this for so many years, it's time to settle in. Li Ying said, "We should still give each other a concept of home, instead of wandering around all the time." "
I felt the same way, and we started looking for the right listings. Soon, we found a two-bedroom, two-bedroom apartment in the heart of the city, with plenty of sunlight and a quiet environment.
We would do chores, clean up, and prepare meals together. Sometimes Li Ying will cook a table of good dishes for me in the kitchen, and I will take the initiative to share the chores at home. In this way, we take care of each other, support each other, and create a warm and homely atmosphere.
Living together has given us a whole new experience. We began to experiment with all kinds of family life pleasures and lived a life of stability that we had never experienced before.
For example, on the weekends, we would snuggle up on the couch to watch movies and TV series, or make some home-cooked snacks together and chat to pass the time. Sometimes Li Ying would take out her old camera, take pictures of our lives, and then proudly paste them on the photo wall at home.
We also invite some friends to visit our house regularly. At times like these, Li Ying would cook a table of home-cooked dishes herself, and I would greet the guests. When the guests arrived, we ate and drank happily.
This pace of life is slow and fulfilling, giving us a sense of satisfaction that we have never felt before. In this way, we relied on each other in peace and security at home, enjoying the happy time of the two of us. Occasionally, there will be some small conflicts and disputes, but they are not a cause for concern, but they will make our feelings more precious.
Sometimes I wonder if I had been complacent and insisted on getting married, would I have missed out on this precious experience of cohabitation? If we did get married, would life have become so monotonous and boring? Maybe this casual and comfortable way of getting along is the best way for us to get along.
In this cohabitation life, we also unconsciously found the meaning and value of life. It is to cherish what you have in front of you and experience the beauty of life to the fullest.
We've all been hurt on the road of our relationship, and we've had too many unrealistic expectations for love and marriage. But after this period of companionship, we finally realized that life is much simpler and more pure than we imagined.
We don't need to be confined to the notion of "marriage" or "family." We just need to use the most simple way to cherish each other's company and grasp the good times of the moment. As long as we are together, we are happy and content.
In this family, we love each other like an ordinary couple, without the blessing of any name or status. We each have our own independent lives, but we are always bound by a deep bond that will never be separated.
We learn to love each other in the simplest way possible. For example, when Li Ying comes home from work, I will cook a table of her favorite dishes for her; For example, when I work late, she will take the initiative to prepare hot water and slippers for me, and wait for me to come home tired. These small intimate gestures are the best expression of our love for each other.
We also learn to approach everything in life with a peaceful mind. Don't reluctantly pursue the so-called long-term, but grasp the beauty of the moment. We are considerate of each other, tolerant of each other, and love each other in the most sincere way.
In this way, in this home, we finally found the meaning and value of life. It's about cherishing what you have in front of you, snuggling up to your closest people, and experiencing the bits and pieces of life to the fullest. We live in the most simple way and love each other with the purest heart. That's it, that's enough.