Gorky said, "Reflection is a clear mirror that can see the defilement of the soul." That's really good, I also agree, the last trip to meet by chance, the next trip to exit, are all common things in life, don't care which relationship? Don't care who is true and who is false? This is a kind of fate, the edge may go farther, the edge may go shorter. This society is very realistic, who you are good to, who is good to you, who you are enthusiastic about, you are enthusiastic to you, but it is not that the better you are to whom, who will cherish you more, (the picture below is yesterday morning, the brothers came to Huaxia Construction Engineering Group Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute for a group photo)
On the contrary, if you are too enthusiastic, you will increase the probability of not being cherished, and if you cherish it too much, it will make people feel that it is easy to come but not to be you. Don't overestimate your place in the hearts of others, and don't underestimate the influence of others in your hearts. No one can bother you, unless you use other people's words and deeds to annoy yourself, there is nothing that you can't let go, unless you don't want to let go, others can help you put on shoes, but can't walk for you, people can help you do things, but can't feel for you. (The picture below is yesterday morning, Huang Guoming, president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, and Wang Run, vice president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, discussed how to write spiritual calligraphy)
Someone taunts you, don't be sad, smiling is the best response, someone hurts you, don't dwell, turning around is the best answer. We must never stand on our own point of view to comment on the rights and wrongs of others, the most stupid thing people do is to bite each other, and the greatest evil of human nature is not to see others better than ourselves! As everyone knows, self-crossing is a kind of ability, but crossing people is a pattern. Allow others to be others, but also allow yourself to be yourself, everyone has a personality, there is a landscape, do not expect everyone to be satisfied, and do not expect everyone to like, (the picture below is yesterday morning, the sisters drank tea and chatted in the Huaxia Construction Engineering Group Zhongyixin Calligraphy and Painting Institute)
Living in the eyes of others, you will never grow up, do not ridicule others, do not laugh at yourself, do things in a measured way, be a person who knows how to advance and retreat, the eyes are wide enough to accommodate the world, and the heart is wide enough to accommodate the world. Is the universe big, big, but it can't block your view, and the leaves are small, but it can block your eyes. Saying a thousand things and ten thousand, or the mentality is doing tricks, what you see is a problem, which means that your height is not enough, and what you see is trivial, which means that your pattern is too small, you are exhausted with heart and lungs, and you are not tired of living without heart and lungs. (The picture below is Wang Huaiguang, honorary president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, "Lotus Fun" for everyone)
In fact, a person's fate is not determined by his birth, but by his acquired pattern. Some people make a little bit of achievements, no one can listen to their words, no one in their eyes, only in their eyes, the others are bullshit, not to mention, always treat others as fools, do not know how to respect others, do not understand humility and humility, in fact, humility is also a kind of character, rather let yourself be at the bottom of the peak, than to provoke the position of others, to be a man, we must learn to be humble and humble, if not humble, it is difficult to be accepted by others, ( The picture below is Wang Huaiguang, honorary president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, in the Huaxia Construction Engineering Group Club Kara 0K to everyone)
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If you are not accepted, you can't communicate with people, and you can't even communicate with people, so what else can you do? In the communication between people, humility and humility are very important, the tone is heavy, the temper is big, often the fat in the mouth is also lost for you, and the cooked duck will fly away, you must be a man, and a little generosity may save face and dignity for you, so I think patient listening is a kind of wisdom, and understanding and accommodation is also a kind of open-mindedness! The abundance of the heart is the real sense of preciousness. I always believe that other people's rulers can't measure your life, and other people's maps can't find your way home. The picture below is a small video made by Huang Guoming, president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, and sent it to people all over the country......
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