Education is becoming more and more "involuted", and the learning pressure on students is also increasing, not only from parents, classmates and teachers, but also from the pressure instilled in themselves, for fear that they will be "left behind" or see the disappointed eyes of others.
Under the development of quality education, students are not only satisfied with excellent grades, but also need to achieve a balanced development of "morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor", but with it comes more and more "chicken baby" parents, all day long "chicken blood" style encouragement students, expecting them to grow more excellent.
And the sentence "points and points, the lifeblood of students", can also be said to be very appropriate, students can achieve excellent results, but also seems to have become the parents to "show off" the confidence and capital, and this also makes the "double reduction" policy come into being, and the relevant departments stipulate that primary and junior high schools do not publish results and rankings, aiming to reduce pressure and comparison, and better protect the physical and mental health of primary and secondary school students.
Some parents can calm their minds, but there are still parents who are anxious about involution, are "curious" about students' grades, and are eager to know students' grades and rankings, so as to be able to "prescribe the right medicine".
Elementary and junior high schools are not allowed to publish results, parents are forced to take a ruler to measure the results, and teachers are helpless!
Exams are an important process to test students' achievements, and through test results, you can also have a clearer understanding of students' strengths and mentality. In the past, students' results would be generously announced by the school, so that students and parents could know what to expect.
However, some parents believe that this move will hurt the "young" minds of students, hurt students' self-esteem, and think that it is an infringement of students' privacy, etc., and when the relevant departments do not allow the publication of primary and secondary school students' grades and rankings, some parents believe that it violates the "right to know" of students and parents, and should not be "one size fits all".
Good guy, let one person do all the good and bad things? It is clearly to meet the demands of parents, and reduce the involution and comparison between students, but what to do is wrong, so that the teacher is "not a person inside and out", who should I listen to?
In particular, after not announcing the ranking of grades, after changing to "grade evaluation", the parents' actions also made the teacher feel helpless, the so-called grade evaluation, which only represents the academic performance of students in the exam, and the teacher's comments on students, and does not include students' grades and rankings.
But in order to know clearly, a parent found that the results could be measured with a ruler, and this also forced other parents to take out the ruler to measure, first measure the length of the circle to the apex, and then measure the length of the gap, and after some operation, they will be able to know the results, and the teacher is helpless after seeing it.
After all, it is the parents who do not let the results be announced, and it is the parents who ask the bottom line, if you meet a teacher who is easy to talk to, you may use expressions, numbers and other "obscure" information when you encounter parents' inquiries, but more teachers are reluctant to "wade into troubled waters", saying that they are not clear and do not know.
Although it is understandable that parents want to know their students' grades, especially junior high school students, they also need to face the pressure of the high school entrance examination, but as parents, they should know the learning progress of their students, rather than pinning their hopes for improving students' grades on teachers, which is obviously unacceptable.
The author believes that instead of knowing the student's grades and rankings, parents should pay more attention to the students themselves, and know the strength and situation of the students more clearly in the daily tutoring studies.
Is it right or wrong not to publish results and rankings? Parents need to look at it objectively
The original intention of "reducing the burden" is to reduce the learning pressure of students, but not to increase the pressure, which is also contrary to the original intention, and parents should also maintain a good educational attitude, regardless of whether the student's grades are high or low, as long as they go all out, not to mention their own expectations, instilled in students, that is also a "chicken baby" mentality.
In particular, parents also need to reduce the mentality of competition and comparison, and refuse to "involute", which can naturally reduce the pressure of students and let students enjoy the fun of learning, rather than taking learning as a "task", which will inevitably raise feelings of resistance and disgust.
Parents should also reduce the "glass heart" and be a good example and example for students, instead of parents going online to teachers, schools, etc., then it will be difficult for students to do it, and maybe it will leave a bad impression on teachers.
"Don't judge heroes by grades" is also a very simple sentence, although in the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, etc., students will still go to different futures according to their grades, but the level of grades does not mean everything, low grades do not mean that they have done something wrong, you need to know the meaning of "three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion".
Written at the end: Parents face the students' grades, rather than knowing the bottom of the matter clearly, it is better to guide students to look at the results correctly, give students more encouragement and self-confidence, and let students have the confidence to check and fill in the gaps, and to be "informed" about the future, parents can not overkill!
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