When the in-laws are gone, why have the brothers and sisters changed?
In addition to parents, the closest people should be their brothers and sisters, which is why some couples have to have a second or third child.
It is for the sake of a hundred years later, the children can help each other and support each other.
But recently, I saw a blogger share that after the in-laws left, the brothers and sisters who were happy with each other became so indifferent.
The reason is that my father-in-law died some time ago, and since his death, there has been basically no contact between brothers and sisters, except for going up the mountain to burn paper for my father-in-law.
The most obvious thing is that when the sisters were in charge of taking care of their father-in-law before, they were very attentive, as long as the father-in-law needed it, even if it was busy until the second half of the night, the sisters would sort it out.
But now, it's just a matter of cleaning up my father-in-law's house.
The sisters couldn't refuse one by one, and even the eldest brother became different from before.
I don't want to say a few more words,
The blogger didn't understand it very much, could it be that the previous family was affectionate and affectionate, and it was all fake? Just because the in-laws are no longer there, is the most basic family affection gone?
What does the blogger say about this situation in life? Netizens are also discussing, let's see what everyone says:
You still need a leader, you don't have a leader, otherwise the relationship will become weaker and weaker.
Those who have been wronged are not willing to be wronged anymore! I guess I used to look at the old man's face, and I put up with you for a long time.
It shows that the maintenance of the previous relationship is all for the sake of the elderly.
The parents are here, the brothers and sisters are a family, and when the parents are gone, they are relatives.
We didn't do anything, we waited for delicious food and drink, and in the end, it was like this, and our hearts were cold.
The parents are gone, and there is no point in going home, who is not tired.
Some relationships are because the old man is there, and without the old man, these relationships will naturally disappear.
That is, there is only blood relations left, and everyone has to be busy with their own families.
If you are good before, you can still be an acquaintance, and if you are not good, you are not as good as a stranger in the end.
It's nice to be able to come across it at the time of the festival.
In fact, it would be good to be like a relative, and visit the door during the New Year's Festival.
Everyone has set up their own doors, and after their parents leave, they will be truly two families.
Some netizens feel that there is nothing difficult to understand about the current phenomenon, everyone has started a family and has their own things to do.
Before, my parents were here, and that was kindness to my parents, and I would definitely move around more.
Even if you have your own things, you will give in to your parents' things, and everything is based on your parents.
But the parents are gone, and the brothers and sisters are all equals, and if there is anything, they will definitely give priority to their own affairs.
I will definitely feel that everyone is indifferent to each other,
This is human nature, so it is not difficult to understand, after all, no one's life is easy, and it is very laborious to live a good life for one's own family.
There's no more energy to maintain brotherhood and sisterhood,
However, there are also netizens who have different voices, thinking that this has a lot to do with the person itself, some families attach great importance to family affection, and parents are the nurturing kindness of parents, but between brothers and sisters, there is also brotherhood.
Even if the parents are not there, the fate with the parents is over, but the brotherhood left by the parents is still there, and it should be cherished.
It still depends on the person, and some people will have a good relationship no matter what.
What do you think about this?