Every family has its own story, everyone's heart has different emotional ups and downs, we often say that the joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, the same thing, the situation is different, the mood is also very different.
Regarding the wedding day, in Lu You's pen, it is "the livestock wine race autumn club, and the drum welcomes the newlywed." In Yang Shidao's pen, it is "Luocheng flowers and candles move, and Qi Li paints new moths." The descriptions are different, but the mood is the same, and they are all joyful scenes.
But in the eyes of Princess Yifen, who married and was close to her relatives in the Tang Dynasty, marriage was a matter of grief and tears: "It's not difficult to get married and leave your hometown." The holy grace is far away, and the road weeps and looks at each other. Shase's face is exhausted, and the corner is pink. What is the concubine's heart, he looks forward to Chang'an every day. ”
From this point of view, although getting married and starting a family is a great joy in life, some people are happy and some are sad, and even the parents of both sides have their own tastes in their hearts.
At a wedding in Anhui, the performance of the parents of both sides was in stark contrast, which made people have mixed feelings.
At the wedding scene, the bride's appearance was off the charts, and the groom was obese
On the day of the wedding, the wedding hall was magnificent, under the illumination of the stage lights, the crystal refraction reduced the brightness of the light, and the whole audience reflected a beautiful light, giving people a very dreamy feeling.
Judging from the scene and layout of the wedding, the compulsion and strength are shown everywhere, indicating that the parties to the wedding are worth a lot of money.
The protagonists of the wedding are generally the groom and the bride, and according to the process, the bride's father is generally arranged to hold her hand to enter, but this wedding is more special, because the bride grew up with her mother since she was a child, in order to avoid embarrassment, so this link was directly canceled, and the parents of both sides were directly arranged to appear together with the same couple.
I saw that the bride wore a slim white wedding dress outlining her graceful figure, even from the side face, it can be seen that she has outstanding appearance and belongs to the kind of amazing beauty. Although the groom was dressed in formal clothes, his clothes looked a little crowded because he was too fat. The combination of one fat and one skinny creates a stark contrast that makes people feel a little harsh.
In addition to the stark contrast in figure and appearance, the reactions of the parents of both sides are also hugely contrasting. Seeing that her daughter, who was dependent on her, was about to get married, her mother-in-law's face was full of melancholy, even if she was wearing a bright red dress, she still gave people a sad feeling. And the mother-in-law saw that her son married such a beautiful daughter-in-law and came home, and the whole person was so happy that she couldn't close her mouth, and she laughed completely carried away on the stage, and she didn't care about her image at all.
It is said that if there is a father, there must be a son, and the groom's body shape and father-in-law are simply carved out of a mold, although the mother-in-law's body management is not bad, but both father and son belong to the type that is not tall but has a big belly but is very conspicuous. Compared with the mother-in-law's laughter, although the father-in-law's expression was relatively restrained, he also grinned the whole time.
The mother-in-law grabbed her son and laughed until her expression was uncontrollable, and the bride and mother looked sad
I don't know what the master of ceremonies said, the groom and mother-in-law laughed until their expressions were out of control, and when they saw that their father-in-law had been busy operating on the mobile phone, the mother-in-law had to grab her son and laugh more than once, stomping her feet while laughing, and the whole person was completely excited.
Seeing the mother-in-law who was about to laugh and smoke, the bride's mother felt a little sad and helpless, especially after seeing her son-in-law only care about laughing with her parents throughout the whole process, and she was even more sad after seeing her son-in-law only care about her parents' feelings and not caring about her daughter's feelings.
For the happiness and liveliness of her mother-in-law's family, the bride seems to have no time to pay attention, her attention is on her mother, seeing her mother is about to cry, the bride also immediately burst into tears, in stark contrast to the groom's happy expression.
After seeing the reactions of the parents of both sides, some people expressed their distress for the woman, and if the bride's father was still there at this time, maybe the mother-in-law could be happier.
After comparing the figure and appearance of the bride and groom, some people said that the girl probably chose to marry because of the strength of her mother-in-law's family, although the daughter married well, but looking at the mother-in-law's reaction shows that she is not completely satisfied with this marriage.
Some people also said that seeing the woman was sad to be like that, and the mother-in-law should control herself, and she shouldn't laugh so unscrupulously, which seems to be a little too indifferent to the feelings of her mother-in-law. In this regard, some people also said that the reason why the man completely ignored the woman's emotions can only show that the background of the two parties is very different, and the man does not take the woman in his eyes at all, so the unequal marriage bride is estimated to have a good time in the future.
Sentiment Analysis:
Zhang Ailing wrote in "Mercy": "Born in this world, there is no relationship that is not full of holes. ”
I think so. Everyone has their own grievances, and every relationship will have its own flaws. There are no perfect people in this world, and in the same way, there will be no perfect love.
The princess married the prince and lived a happy life ever since, which only exists in fairy tales, and most marriages in real life are full of real helplessness and regret. Maybe the man's performance at the wedding makes people feel a little excessive, but after all, on the day of the big day, it is normal for the man's parents to be happy, and it can't be said that it is because the mother is unhappy, and then everyone is accompanied by sad faces.
There is also a possibility that the bride and her mother may not be unhappy, but only because they miss the absent head of the family, and because they feel regretful, they show sadness.
As for the difference in appearance between the groom and the bride, every relationship cannot be judged simply by appearance, after all, even if the bride is a little sad, she has been firmly grasping the groom's clothes, which shows that she still relies on and trusts the groom very much.
Today's Topic Discussion: What do you think of this wedding?
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