The old man suffered from Alzheimer's disease and was bedridden for 16 years, and his wife gave up treatment in tears, and the parting scene was tearful.
Grandpa Nguyen is a retired teacher with Alzheimer's disease, or Alzheimer's disease.
The old man has been bedridden for 16 years, and his wife Wu Kailan has been taking care of him for 16 years.
Now, the old man's health is getting worse day by day, and the doctor tells Grandma Wu that his time is running out.
Although there are nurses, Grandma Wu still comes to take care of her regularly, running between the hospital and home.
On the day of the Spring Festival in 2018, Grandma Wu came to the ward early to accompany her wife, and also flipped out the photo of Grandpa Ruan and his little grandson on her mobile phone to relieve his boredom.
Although he couldn't remember the past for a long time, Grandpa Ruan actually cried when he looked at it.
Grandma Wu saw it and hurriedly coaxed him: "Don't cry, don't cry, I've lived for another year, right? Live another year, right? Next year, live another year, okay? Don't cry." ”
"Come on, this old one is delicious. Eat it, yes, eat it......"
After feeding Grandpa Ruan, Grandma Wu scrubbed him carefully.
In this way, it can be regarded as the New Year.
The days passed like this, but Grandpa Ruan's health deteriorated.
On May 10, 2018, Grandpa Nguyen was dying of a lung infection.
The doctor talked to Grandma Wu and advised her to give up treatment.
Grandma Wu: "I don't care what the outside world says about me, but I care that I have a clear conscience about him, and I care about that." ”
Doctor: "What I want to tell you is that if you choose to say it, you don't intubate, that is, you want him to be clean, and the person looks very good, in fact, there is nothing wrong with it, his will is actually to listen to you, with his current weak state, his will is that the decision you make is his will, maybe we, we will make this decision." ”
Although Grandma Wu felt very reluctant, she had to compromise in the face of the cruel reality: "Lao Ruan, you listen to Wu Kailan, you can hold on as long as you can, don't be so painful with intubation, I am also in pain." ”
After 16 years of care, Grandma Wu has long been exhausted, but as a wife, she has never given up, and after some struggle, she decided to make this decision for Grandpa Ruan and give up treatment.
This means that Grandpa Ruan's life has entered the countdown.
Grandma Wu bought a new shirt and brought a suit, hoping that her wife would leave with dignity.
She said to the nurse, "This is a suit, this is a pair of pants, if I come early, I will work with the two of you to wipe him, anyway, I just think, what he looks like, what he looks like." ”
After shaving Grandpa Ruan for the last time, Grandma Wu began to say her final goodbye to her wife.
Grandma Wu: "You go first, go over there and clean it up, yes, yes, okay, you go first, you go there and clean it up, you know? I'll go find you, okay." Don't worry, I won't let you be alone in that place, okay? I'll take care of Yamin's child, and I'll tell her that grandpa is a teacher, right? ”
Maybe he understood, but Grandpa Ruan's eyes also shed tears.
On May 29, 2018, at 2:06 a.m., Grandpa Nguyen passed away at the age of 72.
Not long after Grandpa passed away, Grandma Wu came to the hospital and gave a pennant to the nurse who had taken care of Grandpa Ruan for many years.
After sending the pennant, Grandma Wu also chatted with Grandpa Ruan's attending physician for a long time.
Grandma Wu: "Because of the care I used to take, I didn't feel very painful, but now that I suddenly left, I have a hollow feeling in my heart, I just want to find a place, a place where no one is crying, venting." ”
Grandma Wu said that her biggest regret was that she didn't know whether Grandpa Ruan recognized it or not, and she made this decision for him. What do you think?