The words of this post-00s female college student silenced the audience, and then applause!
The spring breeze is blowing, the peach blossoms are beginning to bloom, and the fragrant flowers in April have quietly diffused. In this spring season, on April 17, the marriage and love class of a university in Zhengzhou was a different kind of lively. Not because of the professor's witty words, nor because of the fascinating content of the class, but because of the sober speech of a "post-00s" female college student, which won the applause of the audience.
"Now this society has too high requirements for boys, family, education, height, parents, this is not something that can be achieved in one generation. Her words are like a clear spring, flowing a clear stream in the turbid concept of marriage and love. Her words reveal a deep insight into this social phenomenon and a unique understanding of love.
In this fast-paced, high-pressure society, people's concept of marriage and love seems to be hijacked by material things and interests. Boys are expected to have a high degree of education, a good job, a privileged family background, and even outstanding appearance and height. These demands may seem reasonable, but in reality they put a lot of pressure on young people. In order to pursue these external conditions, they often ignore the most essential thing of love - the fit of the heart and the exchange of emotions.
And this female college student's speech is a reflection and criticism of this social phenomenon. She believes that love should not be bound by these external conditions, but should pay more attention to the emotional communication and spiritual fit between two people. Her words make people begin to re-examine their own concept of marriage and love, and think about what true love is.
In class, she continued to elaborate her opinion: "A good love relationship is when two people progress together, and even if they can't be together in the end, they can become better for each other. In this rapidly changing era, true love should not be a mutual tie and restraint, but a mutual achievement and encouragement.
Her words make people realize that love is not a game, but a duty and obligation. In a love relationship, we should support each other, make progress together, and become a better version of ourselves. Even if we can't come together in the end, we can still gain growth and insights in this journey. This view of love not only reflects the respect and understanding of love, but also reflects the pursuit and yearning for personal growth.
Her speech was like a gust of spring breeze that blew away the fog in people's hearts. The applause at the scene lasted for a long time, not only to praise her bravery, but also to recognize the profound insights she put forward. Yes, true love should be the mutual attraction and fit of the soul, and it is two people walking hand in hand on the road of life. It should not be swayed by external conditions, let alone by interests and material things.
This reminds me of the depiction of love by the ancients: "The mountains have trees and branches, and the heart is pleasing to the king." "In that distant era, people paid more attention to the communication of hearts and minds and the fit of emotions. They don't have many material requirements, they just want to find someone with whom they can spend their lives with their hearts. Has this pure and beautiful concept of love gradually drifted away in today's society?
But the speech of this female college student gives us hope. Her words are like a beacon that illuminates the way forward. Let's start to re-examine our concept of marriage and love! Put aside those red tape and material requirements, and find the purest and most beautiful love!