01
The daughter ran home with great interest, saying that they had taken a fancy to a new real estate, with good lighting and a superior geographical location, but the price was a little expensive.
My daughter said, 140 square meters, the down payment is 70%, 1.2 million, and the full amount is almost 1.6 million.
The daughter continued to be coquettish, and we looked at the house several times and prepared to settle down, but the down payment and the full amount are far behind, or do you sponsor a little bit of it?
My wife smiled and asked my daughter, how much is the sponsorship? The daughter said without thinking, why don't you help buy it in full, anyway, your money will be ours sooner or later.
02
My wife and I looked at each other, this is really our good daughter.
At the beginning, there was no dowry for love, and he married a phoenix male and female son-in-law without hesitation. The daughter said that she was going to give up everything for love, but in the end, it was still us who endured everything.
The wedding room, decoration, household appliances and furniture, and the wedding, which one did not bear the cost of the wedding? And the two in-laws stood by and watched, but the scenery appeared at the wedding banquet of the daughter-in-law, accepting the envy and congratulations of everyone.
My wife and I spent money to marry our daughter, but in the end, the old couple was still alone in the empty house, and we couldn't wait for our daughter to come back to visit once for ten days and half a month. Because my daughter said that she was busy with work, that she had to take care of her sick mother-in-law, and so on, there were countless reasons.
03
I picked up the conversation and said, "What money do you pay?"
My daughter noticed that our tone was different, and said angrily, "What money are we going to pay?" Mom and Dad, you are just my daughter, and your money will be left to me sooner or later, so that you can buy a house with full payment, and it will only be the money from the left pocket into the right pocket.
I didn't get angry, but asked my daughter quietly: You have only lived in the wedding room for 5 years, and you are going to change to the fourth room, how do you arrange the room?
My daughter said happily that we had already planned the master bedroom, children's room, my in-laws' pension room and the study room shared by the whole family.
I was a little stunned, I thought that my daughter asked us to pay the full amount to buy a house, which was reserved for our pension house.
04
I asked her a little incredulously, you arranged the children's room for the children, and arranged the pension room for your in-laws, so where did you arrange our pension room?
My daughter scratched her head and said, your house is not far from our newly bought real estate, my in-laws have no pension, and there is no pension house, we must support them. But Mom and Dad, you have a pension and a pension house, so there is no need to squeeze with us.
I was sure once again that my daughter had really become a married daughter, and I couldn't count on the water that had been spilled.
I told my daughter that it was not impossible for us to buy the house in full, but the title deed had to write our names.
My daughter was a little surprised, saying that I had already agreed to change to a senior room, and the real estate certificate should add my and my husband's names. I can't go back on my in-laws.
05
I couldn't help but sneer in my heart, how could the daughter I had raised so well become so strange and cold-blooded as soon as she met her son-in-law?
I advise my daughter to think twice, once the name of the son-in-law is written on the real estate certificate, in the future, if you divorce or have a cold war, the house will become the son-in-law's handle and means to control you.
But my daughter was very dissatisfied and shouted, "Mom and Dad, can't you expect me to be okay?" Since we got married, you have been persuading you to divide or not to persuade me.
My heart is like a mirror, it's not that I look down on my son-in-law, but this son-in-law has no backbone, and his face is really big. wants to eat his wife's soft rice, but also wants to eat soft rice and hard food, but he maintains his so-called arrogance and backbone.
06
My daughter was still waiting for our answer, and my wife and I looked at each other, both of whom saw fear in each other's eyes. Such a daughter, if we continue to help the poor, it is estimated that our little old capital will be squeezed clean.
After some careful consideration, I rejected my daughter and asked them to buy a house on their own, and if they didn't have the ability, they wouldn't buy it. The daughter refused, saying that the current three rooms were too small, and her family of three, her in-laws and her brother-in-law's family of three were all squeezed in.
I didn't want to listen to it anymore for fear that my high blood pressure would happen again. I shook my head, disappointed in my daughter. How did his pampered daughter become so snobbish and humble as soon as she got married?
I asked to take back the dowry house and let my daughter and son-in-law be self-reliant. But her daughter said that they have not saved a penny in the past 5 years, and they will be moonlit as soon as they are paid every month, and they can't even support their children's interest classes.
07
My eyes are dark, my daughter has been married for 5 years, with the ability of the two of them, how can they get a down payment on a house?
But now they tell me that they have no savings or savings, and they are all counting on us to subsidize and help the poor.
I didn't dare to think deeper, for fear that I wouldn't be able to accept that fact. Seeing that I no longer compromised, my daughter talked about her life in her in-law's house with tears in her eyes and snot in her eyes.
I didn't have the slightest sympathy or pity for my daughter's crying. For the wretched will have something to hate. At the beginning, her daughter was married at zero level, and she didn't care about the life or death of her parents. Now she is asking her parents to post it upside down, but I can't do what she wants.
My refusal made my daughter angry, and even clamored for us not to provide for our old age. My wife and I smiled bitterly, and Qi Qi told our daughter, if you don't support the elderly, you won't support the elderly, and you will be without your daughter.
I don't know if it's the right thing to do, but I don't want to be held by my daughter anymore, and I don't want to be an ATM under her great love.