01
When my son got married, I thought about moving in with my son.
However, the son refused, saying that we are newly married Yan'er, and our parents live with us, which will only delay you from holding your grandson.
I was happy when I heard it, my son was disgusted that we were hindering them from living in a two-person world. In order to be able to hold my grandson as soon as possible, I no longer mentioned going to my son's house from then on.
The son and daughter-in-law are also very competitive, and the daughter-in-law became pregnant after a year of marriage, and gave birth to a white and chubby grandson ten months later. My wife and I melted our hearts and we wanted to give everything to our grandson.
02
As the saying goes, everything is enough with a grandson. My wife and I are no exception, and we have been looking forward to spending our days with our grandson since he was born.
It's just that the daughter-in-law said that it was very hard to take care of the confinement and take care of the child, and she couldn't bear to let me suffer this hardship, so she called her mother-in-law to take care of the confinement, hoping that I wouldn't care.
Although I was very unwilling in my heart, thinking of my daughter-in-law's filial piety and thoughtfulness, I stopped being angry and no longer cared. On the contrary, he also took the initiative to give them 3,000 yuan a month to subsidize the family.
After that, I also took care of my grandson's milk powder money and diapers. It's just that in this way, the little pension money of my wife and I was slowly hollowed out.
03
When my grandson grows up, my daughter-in-law often pushes me on the tuition fees for kindergarten and the fees for various interest classes. Gradually, I became a little overwhelmed. After all, the money spent on grandchildren in a year will cost tens of thousands.
I also discussed with my daughter-in-law that she should reduce some of her grandson's interest classes, and it would be enough to have two or three selective classes. One is the high cost, and the other is that children are tired of going to school, and they have to go to interest classes, which is even more tiring.
But my daughter-in-law didn't listen to the persuasion, but thought that I was sorry for my money and was reluctant to invest money for my grandson.
The son was also troubled by his daughter-in-law, who often complained to us and asked us to help. We feel sorry for our son, and we can only obey obediently.
04
We spent a lot of money on my son's family of three. But we think that the money is well spent, and the grandson has a sweet mouth and calls grandparents all day long.
The daughter-in-law is also very good at things, and the New Year's holidays are either red envelopes or gifts, although they are not very valuable gifts, but they are important to the heart.
Therefore, my wife and I mistakenly thought that our son's family of three would welcome us to retire. Therefore, when I had various physical problems, my wife offered to send me to my son's house for recuperation.
My wife thinks that when I go to my son's house, it is convenient for me to seek medical treatment in the city, and second, I spend more time with my son and grandson, so that my mood will improve and it will also help my condition.
05
The son didn't have any opinions, but the daughter-in-law didn't express her opinion for a long time, and in the end she reluctantly agreed. I was a little reluctant, I didn't want to make the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law so stiff because I went to my son's house to recuperate.
But my wife said that I was indecisive and restrained, and insisted on sending me to my son's house. Since then, I have lived at my son's house, and I have taken the initiative to increase the amount of 3,000 yuan to 5,000.
But after only 7 days of recuperation at my son's house, I couldn't help but want to go back to my hometown. It's not that my son is bad, but I found that my son who I worked so hard to cultivate has become a good son-in-law for others.
The mother-in-law has been staying at her son's house, saying that she is helping to take the child with housework. For that, I am also grateful. However, my mother-in-law and I, one contributed money and the other contributed, and I didn't have much to lose.
06
The son obeys his daughter-in-law, and the same is true for his mother-in-law, and even more so for his brother-in-law. During this period, the daughter-in-law's younger brother came to the house twice, without exception, asking for money. As soon as the daughter-in-law opened her mouth, the son gave 2000 or 3000.
I was shocked to see it next to me, my son's monthly salary is only 8,000 yuan, and his brother-in-law will have to leave 5,000 yuan twice when he comes, so what money is there for living?
No wonder our son cried and complained to us as soon as he had no money, and dared to use his money to subsidize his brother-in-law, but he used us as an ATM.
The son subsidized his brother-in-law's money, and he also gave his mother-in-law 3,000 yuan for his hard work every month, which was regarded as a reward for his mother-in-law's hard work. Although I am a little sad about this, I am not dissatisfied.
07
It's just that the son even has to pay for his brother-in-law's wedding house to help buy it. As soon as my brother-in-law came to the house and cried, my mother-in-law cried to my son in turn.
As soon as the mother-in-law cried, the daughter-in-law was distressed and asked for her son in turn. Even though his son is penniless, he still slaps his swollen face and becomes fat. When the whole family fell asleep, they quietly begged me for help.
After 7 days of recuperation at my son's house, I took out almost 10,000 yuan back and forth, which was much more expensive than the medicine I took in my hometown. I'm a little afraid, if I continue to live in my son's house, won't my little pension money be wiped out, and there will be no scum left?
I was scared for a while, and I regretted it for a while. The son who was raised by himself with hard work has become a good son-in-law of someone else's family. His parents have never been filial for a long time, but they treat other people's parents and younger brothers as a family to worship.
I persuaded my son many times, but he thought that I ate my mother's vinegar. Since I didn't listen to the persuasion, I didn't bother to accompany my son to help the poor, so I had to cut off all subsidies for my son, and I packed my luggage and went home. Out of sight, out of mind.