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I, Zheng Xiaohong, have passed the twenty-eighth year of this year, and I have spent three years of married life with my husband Zheng Qiang. Life, like a stream, flows calmly, although there are ripples, but in general harmony. Recently, however, my relationship with my mother-in-law, Granny Chen, has been a little bleak like a leaf in early autumn.
In her mother-in-law's house, there are five big white geese, which she regards as treasures. And I, although I have spent three years with my husband, have never tasted the taste of goose eggs. One day, I plucked up the courage to whisper this to my mother-in-law: "Mom, I haven't tasted your goose eggs for three years. After hearing this, the mother-in-law frowned slightly, slightly displeased: "Those goose eggs are the love of my heart, don't worry about them anymore." I looked down at my clothes, and an inexplicable grievance swelled up in my heart: "Mom, I also need some nourishing things at home, look at me..." ”
Hearing this, my heart was mixed. For three years, I tried my best, but I never seemed to be able to get my mother-in-law's approval. I sighed softly and silently walked out of my mother-in-law's house. On the way home, my husband Zheng Qiang noticed my strangeness and asked with concern, "Xiaohong, your face is not good, do you have anything on your mind?" I smiled reluctantly and shook my head.
However, things didn't end there. One day, I had an argument with my mother-in-law's sister-in-law. My sister-in-law was sharp-tongued, accusing me of relying only on others at home, and not even taking care of the chickens that lay their own eggs. Her words pierced my heart like an arrow, and I felt a pang of pain. I hugged my husband, tears rolling in my eyes: "My status in my mother-in-law's heart seems to be getting lower and lower, and even my sister-in-law looks down on me so much." ”
When my husband heard this, he was furious and vowed to stand up for me. However, I know that this is only a superficial storm, and the real problem lies in my relationship with my mother-in-law. I plucked up the courage to walk into my mother-in-law's house again, wanting to be honest with her. However, my mother-in-law's attitude chilled me. She sided with my sister-in-law and accused me of not. I felt like an outsider, never finding my place in this home.
Returning home dejected, tears finally couldn't help but slide down. Seeing this, my husband hugged me distressedly: "Xiaohong, you have been wronged. I'll be on your side no matter what. Hearing his words, a warm current welled up in my heart. But at the same time, I also know that to solve this problem, I need to work on my own.
So, I decided to let go of the grievances and inferiority complex in my heart and take the initiative to communicate with my mother-in-law. I believe that as long as I treat her with my heart, I will be able to touch her heart one day. After all, home is a place that requires mutual understanding and tolerance. And I am willing to put in more effort and patience for this family.