A colleague told me the reason why she never had internal friction at work:
1. As long as you don't speak directly, I should not understand.
2. As long as I am not arranged, it has nothing to do with me.
3. As long as I don't want to do it, I pretend I can't.
4. As long as it is not my responsibility, I will never take it from myself.
5. As long as you can shake the pot, you will never carry it yourself.
6. As long as you can avoid overtime, you will never take the initiative to stay.
7. As long as I can leave work on time, I can solve even the most difficult problems tomorrow.
8. As long as I am not allowed to speak publicly, I can remain silent.
9. As long as it's not something I have to be involved in, I will choose to avoid it.
10. As long as I can solve it with my phone, I will never print a document.
11. As long as I can communicate by email, I will never meet face-to-face.
12. As long as I can pass the buck, I will never admit my mistakes.
13. As long as I can avoid responsibility, I will never admit my mistakes.
14. As long as I can make excuses, I will never admit my procrastination.
15. As long as I can avoid difficulties, I will never face them bravely.
16. As long as I can avoid problems, I will never take the initiative to solve them.
17. As long as I can pass the responsibility on to others, I will not take it.
18. As long as I can avoid overtime, I will never give up my rest time.
19. As long as I can get the job done, I don't care about the quality.
20. As long as I can pass the assessment, I don't care if I really learn it.
21. As long as I get paid, I don't care if I'm really working hard.
22. As long as the status quo is maintained, I will not seek to change.
23. As long as I can avoid conflict, I will never express my true thoughts.
24. As long as I can not be criticized, I will never take the initiative to improve.
25. As long as I can go unnoticed, I will never show my talents.
26. As long as I can not attract attention, I will never show my ability.
27. As long as I can not be expected, I will never show my potential.
28. As long as I can not be compared with others, I will never strive to improve myself.
29. As long as I can avoid being criticized, I will never make mistakes.
30. As long as I am not blamed, I will never show my weaknesses.
31. As long as I can avoid being misunderstood, I will never express my true thoughts.
32. As long as I can not be expected, I will never show my ability.
33. As long as I can not be compared, I will never strive to improve myself.
34. As long as I can avoid being criticized, I will never make mistakes.
35. As long as I am not blamed, I will never show my weaknesses.
36. As long as I can avoid being misunderstood, I will never express my true thoughts.
37. As long as I can not be expected to do so, I will never show my abilities.
38. As long as I can not be compared, I will never try to improve myself.
39. As long as I can avoid being criticized, I will never make mistakes.
40. Can this really avoid internal friction and do we lose the opportunity to grow?