Marriage is the destination of love, and it is the end of life, but even couples who love each other again will slowly wear out their feelings because of the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and even go to the end of losing both.
Recently, a wife poured a pot of boiling water on her husband's news, which has become the focus of attention of major media and the public, the parties use this extreme way to deal with emotional conflicts, whether it is impulsive, or there is another hidden secret, for this "splashing watergate" incident, many netizens have expressed their opinions, and some of the words can be described as very intense, so what kind of hatred and resentment is this, will make the wife do this kind of shocking thing?
Wife splashes water on husband, hatred and resentment
A pot of boiling water, looking at the hot mist, the wife's hand has been trembling, looking at her husband is like looking at the biggest enemy in this life, when the water is close to him little by little, she did not stop at all, but poured the boiling water on her husband without hesitation, instantly, her screams filled the whole room, and the husband was also burned roaring again and again, in the misty air, the figures of the two people were intertwined, as if a bitter love drama was staged.
Everyone felt very distressed when they saw this scene, obviously they were husband and wife, why did they become such hatred and resentment between each other, no one would know what they had experienced between them, which would cause such a big emotional swing, so that the wife would hurt her husband at all costs, and the husband was unwilling to forgive his wife for what she had done, and the emotional contradictions between them had reached the point of no return.
In fact, such family conflicts, many times not impulsive can be solved, but in the usual mutual communication and understanding slowly accumulated, only husband and wife can learn to empathize, to respect each other's choices and decisions, tolerate each other's shortcomings and mistakes, in order to avoid emotional cracks, towards a better way to get along.
The reason is because of my brother-in-law
This "splashing the water gate" The beginning and end of the incident, in fact, has a great relationship with the wife's family members, it turns out that the reason why the wife is so impulsive is completely because of her brother-in-law, the wife's brother-in-law fell out with her husband for some reason, and this matter also involved the wife herself, the brother-in-law at that time asked the wife for help, hoping that she could persuade her husband to forgive her for what she had done, but the wife's husband thought that there was no right or wrong in this matter, and was unwilling to interfere too much, let alone help her brother-in-law。
In the wife's heart, she felt that her husband was too cold-blooded, knowing that this matter had a great impact on their family, but still staying out of the matter, there was no way to consider it from her point of view, let alone support what she was doing, a man who couldn't even protect himself, how could he expect him to be able to give him a sense of security, so in extreme anger and helplessness, the wife used this extreme way to tell her husband about her grievances and anger.
Communication and respect between husband and wife
Every marriage needs communication and respect for each other, no matter what kind of contradictions and problems, they can be solved through equal communication and understanding, and should not let their emotions control their thinking and judgment, and use harm to perfunctory and solve problems.
In fact, the wife's behavior of splashing water is just a catharsis of her extreme emotions in her heart, when she feels helpless and sad, she chooses the wrong way to face the problem, and the husband is splashed on his body, perhaps God is punishing him, punishing him for not finding his wife's helplessness and sadness in time, and not giving her enough support and companionship.
Perhaps, this time, can give them a warning, let them realize the importance of communication in the relationship, learn to think from the other party's point of view, respect each other's choices and decisions, and use love and tolerance to make up for each other's mistakes and shortcomings.
Write to the end
In the world of feelings, there is never a shortage of embarrassing stories, behind every marriage, there is no one knows the sadness and helplessness, and to be able to go to the end, is often to operate with heart, I hope that every couple of lovers can harvest the fruits of happiness in each other's company.