Parents often complain about teachers, assign after-school learning tasks to parents, and let parents replace teachers to help and correct homework, and the poor quality of students' homework is not only criticized by students, but also parents are to blame.
In addition to attending classes, they also have to tell students to increase or decrease their clothes, drink more water, take medicine, and even go to the toilet. After the implementation of home-school co-education, teachers are not like teachers, parents are not like parents, what is the problem?"Is it difficult for the teacher to reply to a message?" The parent questioned the class teacher, and saw that the teacher replied silently
A student's parent was dissatisfied that the teacher did not share the student's news in the group, and privately asked the teacher to take a photo of the student taking a nap, but he never received a response from the teacher. The parents were very angry and asked the class teacher why he didn't answer the phone? Are you sleeping?
The post resonated with many parents, who said that their children's teachers were the same. I have time to like the circle of friends, I have time to change my profile picture, and I don't have time to reply to parents. If parents don't have important matters and don't bother the teacher, is it difficult to reply to a message?
Front-line teachers also have something to say when they see the post, and the teacher's job is busier than parents think, and they don't keep looking at their phones. During class, mobile phones may be placed directly in the office, or muted to avoid disturbing the rhythm of teaching. After class, the teacher also has to watch the students go to the playground to activities, answer students' questions, and prepare for the next class, and may not have time to look at their mobile phones for a while.
Even if there is no class schedule, teachers will miss responding to parent messages when they have to correct homework, prepare lessons, or study in meetings. Kindergarten teachers may be busier and dare not leave their students at a glance, and students should always keep an eye on their students' status when they are napping, and they will also have to take shifts to clean up and other work. Some parents send messages to teachers after school, thinking that teachers will have time to look at their phones after work. As everyone knows, the teacher also has her own family to accompany her, she may be doing housework, spending time with her children, or doing what she wants to do. The parents were silent after seeing the teacher's explanation, and were speechless for a while.
What are some reasons why teachers don't respond to parent messages?
Parents who have not worked as a teacher themselves may not be able to understand what a teacher is saying is busy. After all, many people still have a stereotype about the work of teachers, thinking that teachers only need to teach a few classes a day, and the rest of the time they sit in the office to rest. At present, this situation only exists for old teachers who are about to retire, and young teachers are very busy.
Most of the reasons why teachers don't reply to messages in a timely manner are because they don't have time to look at their phones. When the teacher is busy and has time, he will naturally reply one by one. It is not excluded that some teachers originally wanted to reply when they were busy, but they forgot about it when they were busy.
Parents are also requested to understand this situation, and the teacher's work should still be student-oriented, and the teacher should not be asked to stop in the middle of the class to reply to the parents' messages. Even during recess, parents don't like to let students watch the teacher play with their phones, which can encourage students to become addicted to mobile phones. Another reason that will cause the teacher not to reply is that the parents' requests are too excessive, and it is better to pretend not to see them than to reply. or asked some meaningless questions, and the teacher has answered them in the group, or it is clearly written in the notice, and the parents are still talking to themselves without reading carefully, such parents may not get a response from the teacher.
Home-school communication should be responsive to everything
Most parents are still empathetic and will not make excessive demands on the teacher. Teachers are only contacted in a pinch, and if the teacher does not reply, parents will be restless and fall into internal friction. Keep reflecting on whether you offended the teacher, or because you didn't give the teacher a gift during the holidays.
In order to avoid this situation, the teacher can set a time for parents to communicate according to the class schedule. In this way, parents do not have to worry about disturbing the teacher by sending messages, and they can also get a reply from the teacher as soon as possible.
Parents should also pay more attention to improving students' self-care ability, as much as possible before going to kindergarten will be their own dressing, eating, toileting, etc., students can seek help from teachers when they encounter problems, rather than having parents explain everything. Parents should also understand that the teacher should take care of the whole class at the same time, and it is impossible to do everything in detail, and do not disturb the teacher's normal teaching arrangement unless necessary.
Home-school co-education is to enhance communication and cooperation on the basis of teachers and parents doing their own work, rather than pushing their unfinished work to each other. Whether it is a teacher or a parent, we must pay attention to the ways and means when communicating, try to respond to everything, and respect each other to achieve the desired effect