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(Note: This article is purely fictional, if you have similar experiences, it is purely coincidental, please read it sensibly)
I retired from my post four years ago, and I have been a small employee in the company for so many years, and I have not been promoted, so my pension is also the lowest level, only less than 3,000 yuan.
It's true that it's not much compared to the rest of the company, but compared to my old guys who don't have a pension, then I'm relatively happy.
My wife and I only have one son, and he was married long before I retired, and now we have two children, so we can be regarded as self-sufficient, and we don't have to worry about it.
After I retired, I asked my wife to quit her job in the village factory, firstly, we are not young, it is really difficult to endure more than ten hours of work in the factory, and secondly, our savings and my pension are enough for us to spend our old age in peace, so there is no need to work so hard.
When I just retired, my life was also fulfilling, my wife and I went to the village square every day to dance, exercise, and in my free time, I played chess and fished with the old guys in the village, and the day passed.
I also learned to play mahjong with them, and I don't know if it depends on whether I just learned, they deliberately let me, I didn't lose once a week when I first learned, and then I didn't do it, most of them lost.
Although it is just an entertainment activity and does not involve money, it is uncomfortable to lose oneself all the time, and I gradually lose my interest in mahjong.
Later, I always repeated the same thing day after day, and I felt bored, thinking to myself, this retirement is better than not retiring, if I don't retire, I at least have a job to kill time, and now I have retired, only eating, drinking and having fun, and the time is very difficult.
My old fellows listened to me complaining, saying that I didn't have a blessed life, and I finally survived until retirement, and I didn't have anything to worry about, and it was too late to enjoy it, and I was still complaining here.
It's really hard to say, most of them are workers or farmers, and they can usually farm some land by themselves, kill time, or do odd jobs for others.
But my family contracted out the land early, and I don't have a skill that can only be used in the company, even if it is a part-time job for nothing, I don't think people will want it.
Later, I thought about going to my son's house in the city with my wife to show them the children for a while, and also told me to overdo this difficult time.
The daughter-in-law agreed, but the son rejected us, saying that we couldn't understand the smart program now, and that if we came, it would only cause trouble for them.
Subsequently, my son listed to me that my grandchildren have tasks every day after school, and they have to shoot videos, punch in the mobile phone applet, etc., just listening to me feels troublesome, let alone actually operating.
I'm ashamed to say that my son forced me to buy this smartphone, or I still used the old machine before, my son said that this mobile phone can be used with them at any time, and you can also watch videos.
The most important point is that it can be connected to the device that usually measures our blood pressure and blood sugar, and he can always keep an eye on our health problems on the mobile phone.
Listening to my son's rambling on the other end, I was a little impatient, so I quickly interrupted him and hung up the phone.
I happened to meet my neighbor Lao Zhang who came to borrow something from our house, so I chatted with him for a few words, and this chat only learned that I hadn't seen him for so many days, and I went out to travel with a group.
Seeing that I was in the mood, Lao Zhang took out the photos and videos taken on his mobile phone to show me, his face was full of pride and pride, and he was envious of my good life.
After reading it, Lao Zhang suddenly patted me on the shoulder and said, Lao Sun, you can also sign up for a group to travel, it doesn't cost much, and you can see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, which is quite cost-effective.
I was right when I thought about it, my wife and I have been in this small village for most of our lives, and we have been to the farthest place in the city, which is my son's house, so I can take this opportunity to go out and have a look.
It just so happens that my wife always talks to me that she wants to go to Tiananmen Square in Beijing to see the flag-raising once, and this time it will satisfy her wish and save her from always envying others.
After sending Lao Zhang away, I beckoned my wife to pack my luggage quickly, reported a tour group on my mobile phone, and prepared to leave in the next two days.
Because I haven't been out much, my wife and I are so excited that we haven't rested well for two days, and after getting on the bus, we slept directly to our destination.
Not to mention, spending money has the advantage of spending money, and the people who lead the group have arranged all the hotels and catering, so you don't have to worry about it at all.
After eating and drinking, my wife and I hurriedly rested, preparing to see Beijing in the best state the next day.
It's just that we miscalculated the day, we picked the time just in time for the holidays, and the attractions were overcrowded, and we didn't see anything except the black heads.
At noon, I just found a nearby place to eat, not only expensive but also unpalatable, there are a lot of places to go at the end of the day, but I can't see the situation inside, so I hurried to the next venue.
After returning to the hotel, my wife told me that it was the same as when I was a child and the adults at home rushed to the field, except that I was busy collecting food, and this one seemed to be in a hurry to complete the task.
This time with the group travel experience is not very good, after returning home, my wife and I unanimously decided not to follow the group next time, neither free nor good fun, next time I travel by myself.
After recuperating at home for more than half a month, my wife and I started to set off again, this time we went to Yunnan, because my wife has always liked to play with flowers and plants, and Yunnan is also known as the "plant kingdom", which can just satisfy my wife's curiosity.
It's just that the journey hasn't started yet, I just arrived in Yunnan on the first day I had a high reaction, although not serious, but the whole person is also listless, my wife can not rest assured of me, in the hotel took care of me for two days.
On the last day in Yunnan, I held on to my spirits and accompanied my wife to visit the surrounding attractions, which was not in vain.
Later, in order to avoid the same situation as last time, my wife and I chose a decent city, and we went to more than a dozen cities with stop-and-go, and we had a lot of fun.
Because the two of us are traveling on our own, we will inevitably be cheated, and this trip has almost spent more than half of our savings, and it has to be when I have a pension every month.
After the trip, my wife and I decided to put a break and save some money before we set off, so as not to spend all the money on playing in the end, and when we encounter an emergency, we can't get the money in our hands.
I was really afraid of something, and within a month of returning home, my son called me and asked me if I was traveling with my wife recently?
I didn't hide it from my son, I told him the truth, and then my son told me not to travel first, he and his daughter-in-law are going to change to a bigger house recently, and we will have a place to live in the elderly when the time comes.
Then, my son told me that he was a little nervous about the money in hand, and wanted me to give him hundreds of thousands of yuan, and then give me the money when he was relieved.
This stumped me, if I hadn't traveled before, I would have given him as much as I wanted, but now I have less than 60,000 yuan left in my hand, and after deducting the expenses of my wife and me, I can give him 30,000 or 40,000 yuan.
Seeing that I refused to agree, my son said impatiently, anyway, you and my mother have to ask us to provide for the elderly, and the money is finally given to us, and now that we need it, you can take it out for us first to deal with emergencies.
I told my son that I could get him 40,000 yuan at most, but if there was more, my son was anxious and thought that I didn't want to help him, so he complained twice, hung up my phone, and didn't call me for a month or two.
My wife and I are not much better, after returning home from travel, we are not interested in anything, and our minds are still on travel and we have not returned.
The current situation is that my son can't help anywhere, and now he is angry and doesn't contact us, and his life is a mess, anyway, nothing goes well.
Now I really regret it, although I am happy to play as I want, but I really regret it later!
It seems that you still have to do things in a planned way, and you can't just blindly covet pleasure, and in the end you delay all the serious things, and your life has become a mess.
Therefore, I would like to advise all retired veteran comrades, don't be like me, you must make a good plan for your retirement life, and strive to live a relaxed and happy old age!