Love or not love is in the details of daily life.
When a man behaves calmly on two things, it means that his love for you is sincere.
Such a man is worthy of being entrusted for life.
One
Whether you have money or not, I am willing to spend money on you
The cousins and aunts in their hometown are a pair that are not a good match in the eyes of outsiders, but the couple have been sweet and happy for a lifetime.
My cousin lost his father when he was young, his mother remarried, and he became a grassroots employee of a state-owned enterprise by his own efforts. And my cousin's appearance is below the average, so although he is an urban native, his comprehensive conditions are very average.
And the cousin, who is also an urban native, was born in a dual-income family, grew up in the palm of her parents, and is generous, beautiful, and a little bit of face control.
When two people put it together, there is obviously a little mismatch. At first, my cousin was also a trade-off between several suitors.
But in the end, my cousin chose my cousin, who was not in a good condition, because no matter what time it was, my cousin would put my cousin first.
My cousin still likes to say one thing.
My cousin loves beauty, and she once didn't think about tea and dinner for a beautiful coat that was a little expensive. Uncle Cousin's monthly salary couldn't be paid, so he saved up for half a year, and finally changed his cousin's favorite coat.
The original coat had long since been sold, and I had forgotten it myself over time, but he kept it in his heart, and as soon as he had saved enough money, he wanted to fulfill my wishes. Although the coat was not the same as the original, I saw a heart that was genuine to me.
It's vulgar to talk about money, but money can test people's hearts.
Where the money is, there is love.
A man who truly loves you, whether he has money or not, he is willing to spend money for you, because he wants to make you happy within his ability.
Two
No matter how bad the mood is, I will be patient with you
Wang Li finally decided to marry her husband because of a man's unintentional words.
Once the two of them went to Wang Li's aunt's house together, because the aunt felt that the aunt's hospitality work was not in place, the aunt's husband immediately became incompetent and angry, accusing the aunt of not doing such a good job at all.
In fact, the sister-in-law was angry, mainly because he had just received a call from a leader a few minutes ago, and he was criticized for not doing a good job, and he had to hurry to the unit to rework.
Seeing Aunt Wang Li's aggrieved appearance, the man blurted out a sentence:
How can you bring the negative emotions from work home?
This sentence really moved Wang Li.
Whether a person is good to you or not depends on whether he can take care of your feelings when he is depressed.
An emotionally stable partner will bring you peace of mind and happiness throughout the long journey of life.
After getting married, Wang Li deeply realized this.
No matter what the circumstances, men will not take their negative emotions out of Wang Li at will.
Even when facing the risk of job adjustment and the sudden middle-aged career crisis, men have never used the topic to play, and vented their resentment and anger on Wang Li.
He just said to Wang Li very seriously:
If there is a change in position, or if you are unemployed, which affects the quality of family life, wife, you must tolerate me and give me a period of time.
Because men have always been emotionally stable, after 20 years of marriage, Wang Li has never felt grievances and panic, and all the contradictions and frictions have been digested in the man's calm and calm communication.
There is a saying that says:
To truly love someone is to let her be herself in front of you, without being cautious or compromised.
A man's true love for a woman lies in having her in his heart, caring about her feelings, and caring about her happiness.
Love or not love is in the details of getting along.