In this fast-paced, high-pressure era, marriage seems to have become a "luxury" in the hearts of many people. How to maintain the harmony and happiness of marriage in the hustle and bustle has become a common issue faced by many couples. And the 90-year-old famous actor You Benchang (uncle of the TV series "Prosperous"), with his unique marital wisdom, revealed to us the secret of a happy marriage - "not ringing".
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The love story of You Benchang and his wife Yang Huihua began in 1956. The marriage process of the two is full of sweetness and challenges. When his wife suddenly fell seriously ill, You Benchang resolutely chose to retire early and take care of his wife wholeheartedly. Such a decision, for him who is at the peak of his career, undoubtedly requires great courage and sacrifice.
You Benchang and his wife Yang Huihua
You Benchang's philosophy of "not making a sound" is not a simple silence, but a deep understanding and respect. In marriage, he always tries his best to understand his wife's needs, respect her opinions, and even in quarrels, he is willing to take a step back, "The last sentence let the other party say that he does not make a sound." This seemingly simple act actually requires great tolerance and love.
"Mutual support in marriage is crucial," he said. He believes that there is no such thing as sacrifice between husband and wife, but that there should be 'harmony without difference'. "When facing the difficulties and challenges in life, husband and wife should walk hand in hand and face them together. Such a philosophy makes their marriage stronger and more fulfilling.
When You Benchang was young, in order to pursue his wife, he once wrote a sack of love letters by hand. This persistence and affection show his persistence and cherishing of love. "In marriage, love is about mutual understanding and tolerance, not possession. It is this dedication and cherishing that has allowed them to go through all the trials in their marriage and get to where they are today.
Netizen attitude
Netizen A: "The last sentence should be said by the other party, and I won't make a sound." "Many couples quarrel endlessly, but they don't understand this truth. There will always be stumbles in life, so learn to be tolerant.
Netizen B: The integrity of loving a woman is really high-level! Ordinary men just love her for being beautiful, gentle, caring for people, good at sacrifice, and so on.
Netizen C: Who is in charge of whom, the last sentence should be said by the other party, don't make a sound, Old Man You Benchang is really wise. He also appreciates his significant other, such as integrity and a sense of justice. The management of marriage is really transparent. A role model for our generation.
Netizen D: This is very important, I advise male compatriots who want to fight with their wives, quarreling with their wives is like a salesperson quarreling with a customer, losing a quarrel is a loss, and winning a quarrel is even more losing. It's all losing, so why argue?
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