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There is such a hot topic, why do my parents give birth to me when they are so poor?
Netizens have fried the pot: under the people, they regard themselves as individuals, and above people treat others as individuals.
Heck, it's a long story, my family is the kind of typical Chinese family, everyone has a baby and follows the trend, and the whole atmosphere is like a baby is a bargain. To be honest, I said that our family is poor, which can be regarded as saving face. I am a child in an average family, and I remember hearing my parents complain about this and that when I was a child, I thought I had to help them. So, since elementary school, I've been doing some work to make it easier for both of them. And guess what? After a long time, I realized that my dad didn't even say a word of thanks to me, and he and my mom thought I should do all of this. Sometimes, I have a surprised look of "Yo, this kid is very capable", which makes me feel like I have a new and useful tool at home.
Tell you, I've had enough of it in the past 20 years, and I can't figure it out with the indifference between my family. With these people, you don't feel a little love, it's like no one cares about anyone, and the emotional communication is simply zero. Hey, it's sad to talk too much.
Did you know that many children are very simple, they don't even realize the problem of more money and less money? Just like when I was a child, I heard my friends say that although they themselves have a tight life, they will not complain that their parents can't afford to buy new clothes. However, adults are different, they always like to talk about "we are poor", urging their children to study, and at the same time thinking that they can eat some meat every day. When I was a child, I didn't like to eat much, sometimes I even forgot to eat, I didn't feel hungry, I felt that the world was quite peaceful, and I didn't really want anything. But adults are different, they are busy all day long, and they never seem to be satisfied.
I'm almost 40 years old, I can't go home once a year, and I come back once in a while, and I was beaten by my mother, and my body was full of injuries, and my brain was buzzing. It's because she said let me buy a car for my family, I said it many times, I was annoyed, I said that I didn't even buy a house myself, how can I have the money to buy a car for you. In exchange for a beating. After the fight, let me go back to Shenzhen immediately. Oh yes, I'm an only child.
It is true that people are selfish, and it is not people who are selfish. But there are also differences between people, and some people simply like children and let children provide emotional value. Some people give birth to children to raise children and prevent old age, but they will also raise children well and give them enough material and love. Some people give birth to children to be raised with food, and even do not have enough food and clothing, and ask their children to support the elderly when they grow up. People are selfish, but the difference between people is really big.
I once knew a girl, as soon as she graduated from graduate school, her parents solemnly stated that their task was completed, and it was time for them to enjoy happiness in the future, starting next year, the living expenses of the whole family and the tuition fees of her younger brother who went to middle school depended on her, in order not to let her make excuses, her parents closed the small shop in the town, and went back to the village to play mahjong every day, she really didn't do anything, and she didn't earn a penny! That girl majored in geology, and she didn't even find a job, so she relied on odd jobs at McDonald's KFC to earn living expenses!
It has nothing to do with being poor or not, it has something to do with whether he loves or not, he is born and does not love his children well, some parents are short-tempered, and the child lives in an environment of verbal violence and parental quarrels, how strong can you expect his heart to be, and when he hears big destructive words since he was a child, he can be cheerful and outgoing? Most of them are sensitive and inferior.
After watching an interview with Fei Xiang, the host asked him why he didn't have children, and he replied, "I don't know how to teach, teach him to be sincere and kind, how should he deal with jackals, tigers and leopards outside." No, if I give birth to a child, I will let him not have to go out to work for the rest of his life, just live happily every day, hahaha "Fei Xiang is really the most innocent and lovely person I have ever seen."
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